What am I really here for.....?

Man in Chard, South West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 6 months ago

I think it's time for a little rethink regarding this site. There are some lovely people on here, some I regard as genuine friends but it's such hard work expanding that group, telling who are the genuine people over the time wasters. I probably spent far too much time on this site, browsing and messaging, probably 99.9% of that becomes wasted one way or another.

It's become destructive to my libido, mental health and family orientation. Maybe we can call this a "resolution" but more of a wake up call I think.

I joined this site because there was something I could not get in my vanilla lifestyle, but I continually get drawn into situations I later regret just to get myself off. Therefore I will be using this page less and less and am only likely to reply to people who can actually offer me what it is I'm looking for. I apologise if some of you find this disappointing, Thank you all and a happy new year....

Hey. Thanks for looking! Im a med build. Been on here for a while. Im very aware of how difficult it can be to trust some people on here. I believe total honesty is the best way to actually meet genuine people here. Im just here for some fun, no tricks, no surprises just good old fun!

From my name you can probably tell Im into rubber. Would love to meet someone who shares my interest. For me it's all about the feel and texture, whether on me or on the person I'm with. PVC, neoprene (wetsuits/swimming costumes/jeggins.

... Etc) wet look or even nylon. It's a texture or look thing. It's also not really a control thing or dom/sub or role play or s+m/pain infliction. Purely sensation. I am though, willing to participate in other peoples fetishes, this is not a one way community! Its not the only reason I'm here so Dont let it put you off! Willing to try most things twice. I've had MM experience, In that respect again I am experimental. I don't find men necessarily attractive but the sexual thing does intreague me.

Im also unlikely to respond to message requests without pics. We are all here for a purpose, No matter what our private situation, if you see someone you shouldn't, move on. I dont need to see face pics (the Internet is a dangerous place!). I just need to know the person im talking to are who they say they are! And finally (yes I have intentionally left this bit til last) I am happily married with my life partner. She is vanilla and has body image insecurities which takes the whole tight fitting clothes thing off the shelf. I'm the kind of of experimental person who can't let these things go. Rather then destroy our beautiful relationship, my resolution is to find others in similar situations on here. We are only here once and I don't want to leave wondering! Thanks for reading don't be scared to drop me a message or even a wink!

Rural

41 years old, Bi-curious

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Webcams, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, Dogging, Cross-dressing, Anal, Adult Parties

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