Chill, get involved, lower expectations, read and understand profiles before sending messages, be respectful, assume you're chatting with both partners on a profile, have tidy photos, keep your privates private until asked, stay positive, lose any negativity, don't get drawn into the nasty comments which appear on the forums, read and take on board past forum help and be patient. It's not a race, it's not a sex site, the vast majority are single guys, so be yourself and try to stand out in a good way. Have fun! |
