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What the hell???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Earlier myself and a FB invited a guy round to FBs house for a mmf...
All good...we msg'd all the kinky stuff we liked and he was all up for it...
Then comes the msg...he won't wear a condom..so I told him no deal obviously.
So he gave up a good night cos of that??
Can't believe it..how odd  |
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more like a cop out tbh, ok talking the talk etc but not up to walking the walk
could be nerves?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thing is...if he had of admitted to nerves, i might have suggested another meet sometime in the future...even a no pressure drink perhaps.
But no condom? Instant block
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I actively encourage use of condoms. Shocked that someone doesn't grrrrrrrr
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I do not like condoms, but will only go bareback with a partner or with someone i know and trust to be clean... Seems bizarre to give up such a chance! Sex with a condom is still great and there are plenty of extra curricular activities that don't require one :P |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol there was alsorts on offer but it was like he only wanted the main event...oh well his loss  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Hmmmmm
I don't get people like that....for me all sorts is what makes it fun lol..
Just fucking is so boring lol |
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"Thing is...if he had of admitted to nerves, i might have suggested another meet sometime in the future...even a no pressure drink perhaps.
But no condom? Instant block
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more likely to be a dreamer, his loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree totally, I love having a woman sit on my face as i stated in another thread, but that is another matter :P I have had times when the sex has been secondary to the rest :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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turn down the chance with this lovely lady by refusing to wear a condom!-mad! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Awww  ty x |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"turn down the chance with this lovely lady by refusing to wear a condom!-mad!"
+1 |
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His loss.
So, if you're still at a loose end... How far is Pudsey from Swindon, and how long have I got to get there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol
too late...we played one on one and very nice it was too x mmm x |
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"Earlier myself and a FB invited a guy round to FBs house for a mmf...
All good...we msg'd all the kinky stuff we liked and he was all up for it...
Then comes the msg...he won't wear a condom..so I told him no deal obviously.
So he gave up a good night cos of that??
Can't believe it..how odd "
Why hadnt this been obvious from the first...sorry but if you dont make clear its only safe sex then people will assume things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why hadnt this been obvious from the first...sorry but if you dont make clear its only safe sex then people will assume things "
In fairness to the OP, their profile does state 'safe sex'. I think the onus would've been on him to determine whether there was any chance of them doing bareback, not the other way round.
But I see your point that if it had been mentioned beforehand then it would've left enough time for me to get to Pudsey... er, I mean to find a replacement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fair comment re; safe sex...
I made an assumption (that ppl wud automatically accept safe sex).
Will update profile to avoid further misunderstanding |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Surly safe sex is a given though.
I would assume everyone safe sexed unless a discussion about bareback was raised hmmmmm
Mayby I am just a bit thick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I do not like condoms, but will only go bareback with a partner or with someone i know and trust to be clean... Seems bizarre to give up such a chance! Sex with a condom is still great and there are plenty of extra curricular activities that don't require one :P"
how do you choose who you trust are clean
please can have STIs and not even know themselves
if they willing to not use condoms with you they will be willing to do it with other people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Earlier myself and a FB invited a guy round to FBs house for a mmf...
All good...we msg'd all the kinky stuff we liked and he was all up for it...
Then comes the msg...he won't wear a condom..so I told him no deal obviously.
So he gave up a good night cos of that??
Can't believe it..how odd "
He'd probably wanked himself dry discussing all the kinky stuff and decided on an early night.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Laine just taken words i was going to say .. and i bet its right x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Earlier myself and a FB invited a guy round to FBs house for a mmf...
All good...we msg'd all the kinky stuff we liked and he was all up for it...
Then comes the msg...he won't wear a condom..so I told him no deal obviously.
So he gave up a good night cos of that??
Can't believe it..how odd "
Just before I say something I'm going to state something first so my point is very clear...
WE NEVER EVER BAREBACK WITH OTHERS.
Now for my point of view...
If this guy was being honest and truthful then fair play to him. He has stated HIS preference BEFORE you are set to meet.... he hasn't disrespected anyone by being honest. He could have turned up and tried to play bareback which no doubt would have caused a scene.
Some guys lose erections because of wearing condoms.... maybe this was the reason why he only plays bareback???
All I can see is that no harm has been done by him being honest  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Fair comment re; safe sex...
I made an assumption (that ppl wud automatically accept safe sex).
Will update profile to avoid further misunderstanding "
That is one thing I would never assume on as there are lots of people who play without a condom ....The question would be asked by us before any arrangements would be made.
I am not sure why you are surprised to start a thread about it as not everyone will play the same way as you and I think it is unfair as the man hasn't done anything to warrant a thread about it...all he did was say no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I do not like condoms, but will only go bareback with a partner or with someone i know and trust to be clean... Seems bizarre to give up such a chance! Sex with a condom is still great and there are plenty of extra curricular activities that don't require one :P
how do you choose who you trust are clean
please can have STIs and not even know themselves
if they willing to not use condoms with you they will be willing to do it with other people
My thoughts precisely. Ms
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems there are a lot of people who are willing to risk alot and not wear a condom. For me I only play safe. Dont be a fool wrap your tool! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do here of some saying thay cant get hard with a condom on , Maybe this man is like that and did not wish to let you down in bed room ..... But one thing he did do .... is tell you .... You read here about men not turning up . |
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