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Squirting, does it happen naturally or do women push out?
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So I know there’s absolutely loads of posts regarding squirting but I have a question. When a women squirts do you push for it to happen or is like an orgasm that builds up and naturally happens?
Of some that I’ve seen squirt they seem to be pushing and others don’t?
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"For me I find it’s not so much push it out... but stop keeping it in.
It’s a weird sensation, that I used to hold in, but once relaxed and stop holing it in then I go!"
I find it a real turn on as most men do. I always wonder though that sometimes when I’m with a girl they stop at the point before it happens
and clench there legs. They get soaking wet and open up where more than one finger can go inside.
I start playing with two middle fingers also pressing with the palm of my hand on the outside of them running the front and clit loving up and down quicker. Then suddenly they clench there legs and stop saying they need a week 
Just wondering if it’s gonna happen naturally like Male ejaculation or they have to push but from you say it should happen? |
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"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .
And it just cums out naturally then?"
I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter. |
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"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .
And it just cums out naturally then?
I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter. "
What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point? |
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"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .
And it just cums out naturally then?
I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.
What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point? "
I’ve never “pushed down”. To me that sounds like urinating during sex. Personally it gets to a point where I have no control over it. Except stopping completely. After the shock of the first couple of times I’ve no desire to stop anymore. I enjoy the sensation of the build and the release with someone I’m relaxed and comfortable with.
Having said that there’s nothing turns me off more than someone obviously trying to make me squirt like it’s the ultimate goal. It’s just one part and I still need to orgasm. Squirt doesn’t equal finished. (For me) |
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By *azzle36Woman
over a year ago
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For me its defo natural and the amount u squirt depends on how turned on I am and if the guy is hitting the spot..I can hold it a little and stop myself squirting but guys have noticed and told me to let go and go with it so I have..I dont always squirt tho..depends on the moment but its defo not a pushing it out kinda feeling...it just happens if the moments right.. |
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"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .
And it just cums out naturally then?
I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.
What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point? "
For me, it comes as my body tenses and arches with the orgasm, and then relaxes. It doesn't happen every single time, for example I don't squirt when I just use a toy on my clit. But most of the time with fingers or cock. |
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"Another question lol
So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know "
I believe it’s different to an orgasm mate |
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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago
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"Another question lol
So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know
I believe it’s different to an orgasm mate"
Its completely different to a clitoral orgasm but just as fulfilling. I can squirt/orgasm multiple times with g spit stimulation but 1 clitoral orgasm leaves me way too sensitive to more play!
It is a release but doesnt feel like having a wee, completely involuntary and once I start I cant control it all!  |
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"Another question lol
So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know "
It feels amazing, but definitely different to a clitoral orgasm. And no need to push at all, if the guy knows how to do it, it will just happen! |
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"Another question lol
So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know
It feels amazing, but definitely different to a clitoral orgasm. And no need to push at all, if the guy knows how to do it, it will just happen!"
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"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .
And it just cums out naturally then?
I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.
What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point?
I’ve never “pushed down”. To me that sounds like urinating during sex. Personally it gets to a point where I have no control over it. Except stopping completely. After the shock of the first couple of times I’ve no desire to stop anymore. I enjoy the sensation of the build and the release with someone I’m relaxed and comfortable with.
Having said that there’s nothing turns me off more than someone obviously trying to make me squirt like it’s the ultimate goal. It’s just one part and I still need to orgasm. Squirt doesn’t equal finished. (For me) "
Word of warning!
I knew a lady who squirted. She was seeing someone. He got fixated by it and went to greater lengths to get her to do it more and more.
It got to the stage where she made excuses for having sex at all with him. It really created a divide between them. She had to sit him down and have a conversation with him.
I don’t think their relationship really recovered from it. |
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"I have to be v v relaxed. It does nothing for me tho and really can't see the obsession that some build it up into. Give me an orgasm over squirting anyday. Too much porn!"
To much porn indeed. For me It just really appeals to me as do a lot of other things
Love it when a lady totally relaxes though and lets herself go |
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