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I've been the Dom with most of my partners (I love it) but there's something that keeps saying t try and switch to the sub side, which really appeals to me. Can you really be both?
If so, any takers?  |
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The fact you're even asking this shows you know little about Dom/sub.
You can be both, it's called a switch.
You can also be either Dom/sub and NOT a switch while enjoying a role change.
Beast is my Dom and I am his sub, there's no question of that and we don't switch. Sometimes though, beast enjoys handing me the control for the night. He loves sensory play and just generally being fussed. Il tie him up, blind fold him and go to town on his senses. Tickle sticks, pinwheels, stroking him, using vibration etc....
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"I've been the Dom with most of my partners (I love it) but there's something that keeps saying t try and switch to the sub side, which really appeals to me. Can you really be both?
If so, any takers? "
I think it's great that you want to explore your sub side and hope everyone will remember that we were all newbies once.
Q. Are you interested in being dominated by a male Dom or a female Domme?
I'd suggest you ensure your bio clearly states your wish to be submissive.
Id respectfully suggest that you reach out to some of the experienced Doms/Dommes in your area and chat to/meet a couple of them instead of inviting anyone who fancies having a go to Dom you.
I'd also suggest you attend a 'Munch'(kind of a deviant soiree) in your area and do a lil reading online.
Good luck fella...
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