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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

May I pick some lovely peoples minds...

As a male I love women.. Emotionally.. Physically.. Personality etc..

I enjoy the male body parts too... Does this make you bisexual.. I have no other attraction.. No fancy of said guys.. No want for them.. Etc..

As long as they are clean tidy and physically fit.. Not a knob.. Then cock on cock fun is OK..

Your thoughts please..

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By *hampagneCharlieMan over a year ago

Polesworth

Guy on Guy fun can be hot I think its more of physical animalistic thing rather than a sensual thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes you are bisexual. No straight male would be interested in another man’s penis aside from comparing sizes.

If a gay man said he is only interested in vaginas but no other attraction to women, I am sure that would raise eyebrows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes you are bisexual. No straight male would be interested in another man’s penis aside from comparing sizes.

If a gay man said he is only interested in vaginas but no other attraction to women, I am sure that would raise eyebrows. "

Appreciate the response.. I have no issues with being labelled bi. Its just where I fell on the sexy crazy chart hahaha..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t worry about a label. Just be yourself and enjoy your life. It’s no ones else’s business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I definitely believe in bisexuality being a spectrum and you are on it. It does not matter where on it, but you are on there. You are attracted to what is the epitome of the male species, his penis. That simply is not straight.

I think sexual actions are more indicative of sexuality than simply emotional attraction or liking someone’s looks

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"I definitely believe in bisexuality being a spectrum and you are on it. It does not matter where on it, but you are on there. You are attracted to what is the epitome of the male species, his penis. That simply is not straight.

I think sexual actions are more indicative of sexuality than simply emotional attraction or liking someone’s looks

A spectrum of bisexuality is a great way of putting it.

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

I think we're all in a spectrum too or maybe in my head it's linear.

1 - I like men exclusively

10 - I like women exclusively.

I think very few people are the extremes of 1 or 10

I'm going to put myself at 3 or 4. I class myself as straight. I wouldn't want a relationship with a woman. However I am attracted to women and will play if a man is present.

I don't think this makes me bi curious. I'm not curious, that implies I'm unsure.

I'm just me, straight but finds some women hot.

Labels, pfft don't care for them!

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

Bisexual usually means sexually attracted to more than one gender. If you don’t look at men and think they’re hot and you’d like to shag them, you might not be bi. Some people prefer the term hete

exible when they don’t feel attraction for the same gender but will have sexual contact with the same gender.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think we're all in a spectrum too or maybe in my head it's linear.

1 - I like men exclusively

10 - I like women exclusively.

I think very few people are the extremes of 1 or 10

I'm going to put myself at 3 or 4. I class myself as straight. I wouldn't want a relationship with a woman. However I am attracted to women and will play if a man is present.

I don't think this makes me bi curious. I'm not curious, that implies I'm unsure.

I'm just me, straight but finds some women hot.

Labels, pfft don't care for them!"

When it comes to sexuality, I think many people are either a 1 or a 10

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"I think we're all in a spectrum too or maybe in my head it's linear.

1 - I like men exclusively

10 - I like women exclusively.

I think very few people are the extremes of 1 or 10

I'm going to put myself at 3 or 4. I class myself as straight. I wouldn't want a relationship with a woman. However I am attracted to women and will play if a man is present.

I don't think this makes me bi curious. I'm not curious, that implies I'm unsure.

I'm just me, straight but finds some women hot.

Labels, pfft don't care for them!

When it comes to sexuality, I think many people are either a 1 or a 10"

I don't. I think they say they are because they're conditioned to say they are.

I don't personally know of a single woman who has never looked at another woman and thought she's got an amazing bum/boobs/legs whatever. Doesn't mean they're going to go there. But they recognise that that person is sexually attractive.

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By *alking HeadMan over a year ago

Bolton

"May I pick some lovely peoples minds...

As a male I love women.. Emotionally.. Physically.. Personality etc..

I enjoy the male body parts too... Does this make you bisexual.. I have no other attraction.. No fancy of said guys.. No want for them.. Etc..

As long as they are clean tidy and physically fit.. Not a knob.. Then cock on cock fun is OK..

Your thoughts please.. "

I'm the same, I don't find muscles or faces of blokes attractive. I just want the cock. I suppose in my way I'm using them as a sex toy plus the slight taboo nature of mm sex. Not that I or any partner has complained.

I certainly couldn't entertain any romance with a bloke. I'm pretty certain that if I was with a woman that could or would try to meet my need (recieving anal) then I would probably have never bothered with blokes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think we're all in a spectrum too or maybe in my head it's linear.

1 - I like men exclusively

10 - I like women exclusively.

I think very few people are the extremes of 1 or 10

I'm going to put myself at 3 or 4. I class myself as straight. I wouldn't want a relationship with a woman. However I am attracted to women and will play if a man is present.

I don't think this makes me bi curious. I'm not curious, that implies I'm unsure.

I'm just me, straight but finds some women hot.

Labels, pfft don't care for them!

When it comes to sexuality, I think many people are either a 1 or a 10

I don't. I think they say they are because they're conditioned to say they are.

It doesn't mean they'll get a tingle in their tingly bits

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"I think we're all in a spectrum too or maybe in my head it's linear.

1 - I like men exclusively

10 - I like women exclusively.

I think very few people are the extremes of 1 or 10

I'm going to put myself at 3 or 4. I class myself as straight. I wouldn't want a relationship with a woman. However I am attracted to women and will play if a man is present.

I don't think this makes me bi curious. I'm not curious, that implies I'm unsure.

I'm just me, straight but finds some women hot.

Labels, pfft don't care for them!

When it comes to sexuality, I think many people are either a 1 or a 10

I don't. I think they say they are because they're conditioned to say they are.

It doesn't mean they'll get a tingle in their tingly bits"

I didn't say they would.

I don't get tingles in my bits, that's why I wouldn't class myself as bi.

You don't have to agree with me.

It's an arbitrary scale that lives in my head.

It's just what I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant stand labels. Just do what you want, as long as you're not hurting anyone who cares.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all for the responses and opinions.. Much appreciated and very well put..

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who cares? Do what makes YOU feel good, dont label it, dont try and pigeon hole yourself, just enjoy life

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple over a year ago

Hartlepool

Bisexuals are sexually attracted to men and women

Pan sexual is any gender identity

You can add (X)romantic to help distinguish

I'm sexually attracted to men and women but only romantically interested in men

So I am bisexual/het-romantic. I don't label myself as that because it's exhausting and fuck labels but it's a thing

Hope that helps

Brat

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I see the spectrum as more like

0 - asexual

5 - only attracted to one gender

10 - will more or less fuck anyone.

Everyone forgets asexuality is a thing.

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By *r_Jake70Man over a year ago

London

"I think we're all in a spectrum too or maybe in my head it's linear.

1 - I like men exclusively

10 - I like women exclusively.

I think very few people are the extremes of 1 or 10 "

This exactly.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS over a year ago

Yorkshire

My sexuality yaws on a wide axis- so don't worry about it OP. Just be safe and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of the most interesting threads I've been able to relate to in ages...

Thank god for that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I cant stand labels. Just do what you want, as long as you're not hurting anyone who cares.

correct.

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By *igertigerCouple (MM) over a year ago

"May I pick some lovely peoples minds...

As a male I love women.. Emotionally.. Physically.. Personality etc..

I enjoy the male body parts too... Does this make you bisexual.. I have no other attraction.. No fancy of said guys.. No want for them.. Etc..

As long as they are clean tidy and physically fit.. Not a knob.. Then cock on cock fun is OK..

Your thoughts please.. "

enjoy!! will any guy do or only guys you find attractive. As a bi person I have to find the guy attractive before I'd even consider his knob. Even then the knob could be a deal breaker.

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