Hello people!
Is there a hierarchy in the swinging lifestyle? We've started with going to clubs and have enjoyed it but it can be a lot of eye contact and "should we approach" before we start to play.
Would like to meet couples in hotels and (maybe one day), host a little party at home.
However, having a young family means social meets are going to eat into precious naked time  so what's the advice? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
We have found in clubs if theres eye contact people are approachable. We just strike up a conversation and see where it goes from there. The worst that can happen is your turned down. We always do a social first, so then we all know that we click. Cant think of anything worse than turning up to meet to play for the first time and someone just isn't feeling it. We also have a young family at home so we tend to find people who are happy to be regulars. So we will have a social and after that we know we are all good to play and have the benefit of repeat meets without having to have a social each time.
Gem |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The eye contact is always interesting as we’ve never been good at spotting people looking!
It is often easier to just go and say hello. That way you can see much quicker whether their is any interest, plus you get to talk to people.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"For us social time is limited die to young fam, so clubs do mean we have more chance of finding people we click with, rather than meeting and finding its a no go...."
We have the same.
Maybe if we meet right couple in club,then we can meet in hotel or on their |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
