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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Little help required. I struggle to get responses on Fab. I might get one or two then they block me or ignore me. I just want to see if I can improve my profile.
Thanks all.  |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Poole, but up in lincs for a bit |
Lose the dick pic, take better photos. Write something better. What do you want. What can you offer. Inject some humour.
Advertise yourself like a Gucci watch not a b&m special. |
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"First thing - get rid of the cock pic avater - women rarely like them. Most are out off. "
If you want one in your gallery... fine, bit don't have it as the first thing that hits them in the face when you message ... so to speak
Your first "body pic" would be better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Little help required. I struggle to get responses on Fab. I might get one or two then they block me or ignore me. I just want to see if I can improve my profile.
Thanks all. "
Exactly the same here...put loads of effort in but doesn't seem to make any difference |
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You've put a meet request on today that just says "anything", that's really not going to appeal to anyone. Like others have said you do need to put more effort in on your profile to make yourself more tempting. Think of it as an advert for you. |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
Fairy Land |
I find the user name off-putting first of all. The pictures really do need some enhancement, they’re just not intriguing. As a previous commenter said, drop the squirting reference; tends to be used as an obsession by chaps who have gained the majority of their sexual experience from porn rather than participation. Best of luck with your Fab experience and I hope you find some fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Squirting and anal.
You’re immediately narrowing down the women who might be interested OP.
However, at least you’re being honest about what you’re looking for.
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"Quite rare women read profiles I have been told?"
I think women read a lot more profiles than men do.
If I get a message I often look at the profile before even reading the message & certainly before I reply. |
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"Quite rare women read profiles I have been told?"
What a load of bull, you're thinking of a man's approach.
Just because you have 'sometimes' seen a woman's profile that says they would not have read to the bottom of their profile had they been in your shoes, it doesn't mean that no woman ever reads a man's profile.
In fact, I'm pretty sure it's the opposite and that women will read a profile until a point they are put off, or they get to the end of it and decided to message.
You have to rem_mber that women tend to look at a wider range of things than men, including usernames. I wonder, who was at your coronation?
Might I suggest a few other pics, natural ones, clothed even, or at least wearing a different pair of pants
Good luck |
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"You sometimes see on womens profiles "If you have read this far, well done. I wouldn't have""
I think people say that if they know they have a long, possibly boring/ranty profile and gbsure trying to be funny. I don’t know any women who don’t read the profiles, but something long and rambling is off putting. |
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No matter what you change on your profile, your chances of a meet are almost nil. Getting replys to messages are also very low, though fractionly higher. Of the messages that are read, most will be deleted or ignored. You have to face up to the fact that you most likely wont get a meet, and if/when you do, its probably the only one you will get. |
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"No matter what you change on your profile, your chances of a meet are almost nil. Getting replys to messages are also very low, though fractionly higher. Of the messages that are read, most will be deleted or ignored. You have to face up to the fact that you most likely wont get a meet, and if/when you do, its probably the only one you will get. "
Funny how lots of guys are extremely successful on here then. Just because people aren't meeting you, doesn't mean lots of men aren't getting meets on here |
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By *S45Man
over a year ago
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Some interesting feedback here. I am quite new, and trying to figure out what people do or don't like isn't easy, and I guess that is as we are all different!
A few other things I have observed....
Does anyone really use winks?
Women who hate cock pics, but have lots of close ups of their parts!? I guess they know not many men complain.
And then those people you have great chats with and suddenly disappear?
Happy Fabing! |
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"Some interesting feedback here. I am quite new, and trying to figure out what people do or don't like isn't easy, and I guess that is as we are all different!
A few other things I have observed....
Does anyone really use winks?
Women who hate cock pics, but have lots of close ups of their parts!? I guess they know not many men complain.
And then those people you have great chats with and suddenly disappear?
Happy Fabing!"
You are best starting your own thread rather than hijacking another one, you'll get more personal responses that way. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Quite rare women read profiles I have been told?"
I've read every profile of everyone that's sent me a message. It's so important. A great first message and short profile might elicit a response of 'where is your profile tell me about yourself' but usually no profile or a poor one = delete |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Hi all,
Little help required. I struggle to get responses on Fab. I might get one or two then they block me or ignore me. I just want to see if I can improve my profile.
Thanks all.
Exactly the same here...put loads of effort in but doesn't seem to make any difference "
Nobody owes anything to anyone on here. No response is no interest as stated in faq section. Its not rude. |
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"Quite rare women read profiles I have been told?"
I think most men don't. I can tell be the messages I get but I know from speaking to other women we often read profiles.
I read them before I read the actual message. If the profile isn't good I don't bother with the message. |
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I am in the middle of changing things on the profile 
