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Gay for the first time with 2guys
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello. Been thinking about playing bi for years
The elusive bi mmf hasn’t yet worked out and now want to bite the bullet and do it
Is it weird that I think it would be easier with two guys!?
Less intimate more horny!
My preference is for me to be ‘bottom |
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Mr here has had a few tastes of male only fun and loved it. It's nice to see someone confident enough to explore their sexuality rather than the usual it's ok if there's a female there approach. Enjoy yourself, you only live once Xx |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hello. Been thinking about playing bi for years
The elusive bi mmf hasn’t yet worked out and now want to bite the bullet and do it
Is it weird that I think it would be easier with two guys!?
Less intimate more horny!
My preference is for me to be ‘bottom"
Being spit roasted sounds like more than just dipping your toe in the water lol.
I love being spit roasted btw.
But I could never imagine something like being my first time.
Aim high, for sure. But small steps are better than giant leaps.
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If you are sure you want to enjoy something, then there are probably several routes to your goal.
Bi nights at clubs could allow you to get a taste for things, with potential female involvement still. You could meet another guy in the same situation or guys who are experienced and fine with a beginner.
Men are as different as women with their tastes and could be as emotionally as well as sexually connected - it doesn't have to be similar to straight men in prison, who are making do with any available body. |
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I think it can work to have your first bi experience with two guys (based on a couple of meets I and a mate have had with a third).
Admittedly it can feel a bit of a step to meet two guys, so a lot of the chat (and in one case, pre-meeting) was about making sure it all felt safe, secure and discreet with clear boundaries etc. But once we met, I think the bi-curious stuff was more relaxed - maybe because the third guy didn’t have to worry about performing / getting things wrong. There wasn’t the sense that it would be problematic to be inexperienced or anxious or need to keep within boundaries.
So I’m sure it’s not for everyone, but a meet with two guys certainly can be a safe and supportive way to dip your toe in the water (or any other anatomical manoeuvres...) |
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I have found playing in a group more comfortable, it allows you to take things slowly. I’ve been in a couple where a tv or couple of tvs have been the Centre of things, but the guys were very happy to pay and be played with. All a matter of mutual respect and tolerance. |
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"Hello. Been thinking about playing bi for years
The elusive bi mmf hasn’t yet worked out and now want to bite the bullet and do it
Is it weird that I think it would be easier with two guys!?
Less intimate more horny!
My preference is for me to be ‘bottom"
It’s just SEX ) don’t make you gay cause you had 2 men |
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"I’m not gay but wanna try a spit roast with some guys
So you want a cock up the bum and one in yr gob but your not gay, is that right? "
says the bicurious guy who’s had more pricks than a second hand dart board |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are only bicurious having a threesome with 2 males AND wanting to bottom are pretty big steps....
But it don’t make you gay lol it’s just SEX"
It certainly does not make you straight and it is NOT just sex. That urge is showing latent bisexual or homosexual inclinations  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not gay but wanna try a spit roast with some guys
So you want a cock up the bum and one in yr gob but your not gay, is that right?
says the bicurious guy who’s had more pricks than a second hand dart board "
Lol battle of the gloryholes, are you two in competition? |
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"Hello. Been thinking about playing bi for years
The elusive bi mmf hasn’t yet worked out and now want to bite the bullet and do it
Is it weird that I think it would be easier with two guys!?
Less intimate more horny!
My preference is for me to be ‘bottom"
That's not gay, it's still bi, being gay is about more than just performing a series of sexual acts with another man or group of men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brave for first time. Do one on one then go for it the fantasy can be a let down. Two horny guys and then you do a runner, I did on my first threesome I was the bottom they wanted to top me. I thought F.:k that I couldn’t take you two on though with convincing I did end up bottom to both of them and have many times.  be secret be discreet be safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello. Been thinking about playing bi for years
The elusive bi mmf hasn’t yet worked out and now want to bite the bullet and do it
Is it weird that I think it would be easier with two guys!?
Less intimate more horny!
My preference is for me to be ‘bottom
That's not gay, it's still bi, being gay is about more than just performing a series of sexual acts with another man or group of men."
I disagree, I find sexual acts is the biggest indicator of sexuality in my eyes |
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