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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone how are you? I have been on here before but only for a short period, why do my messages keep getting deleted? I havent had one reply off anyone, what do you think the problem is? Any tips? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generic messages will get deleted, I'm afraid. Given the number of guys here, you need to stand out. "
Imagination is key, how are you is never going to cut it, also helps (in my opinion) if you say something that shows you've read the person in questions profile |
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Read the profile, say what appeals to you (not just the pictures, hopefully), answer anything in there that really needs answering, respect their wishes. Be polite, respectful, but to the point (there's a difference between "I'm going to destroy your slutty arse" and "I see we both like anal, and I enjoy it quite hard if the lady I'm with is into it too"). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just asking how they are and wondered if they fancied a chat"
Ffs, that will explain it! Facebook might be a better option if that's all you've got in your locker. |
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Agreeing with all above. Fix the type in your profile and think about your messages. Most single ladies have something in their blurb so read it and say something to show you have in your message. Or compliment something specific in a photo like the lingerie
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just asking how they are and wondered if they fancied a chat"
That's the problem lovely. So many write that. It's likely that the content doesn't hold the person's interest so they automatically delete. |
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"Bloody hell its only abit of font aha"
First impressions last.
I concur with most of the advice here. Showing you are interested in a person makes them feel comfortable and more likely to engage with you.
Women arent going to fall on their backs legs akimbo just because you messaged them. You need personality. |
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