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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction?

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By *ngelina4uWoman over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

LMAO the worst is a guy who was 56 last time I was here now he claims 35 on his new profile. But in general people under 25 add years to make 25 mature men will knock about 10 years off.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

I'm honest,

My age is my age.

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m honest too ........ I am 58

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm sure several manipulate their age...no idea what percentage.

We are the age on our profile, never occurred to us to do otherwise.

Nita

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By *ottie 13Woman over a year ago

Happy go lucky

My age is about right give or take a few mths tbh I have men that message me that have taken at least 10 yrs if not 15 off their actual age either that or they had a really hard paper round lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I use a 5 year bell curve....

Anything above this is dishonest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm honest, which is very frustrating at 47 has many people cut of at 40 or 45, so you miss out. But I find this whole age cut off ridiculous anyway. I'd rather talk and meet people for who the are. I used to have my age 18 to 99. But that was lost on people when I got stick for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nahhh my age is correct.

I met with a man a couple of times who kept changing his age whenever we met. By 12 years overall

so I didn’t meet again. If you’re gonna lie about something, stick too it

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By *hubby cheeksWoman over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

The only thing I altered was the month.

My age is as stated.

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I’m 104 but I lied so I could get into the default 18-99 range

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By *J647Couple over a year ago

Daventry

Must be to honest we are the age on profile, don't see point in lying, lie about age what else are you going to lie about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is bang on. Why would I wanna add to my my age. 30 is coming around quick enough as it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We met a couple 5 years ago on an old profile. They’re still the same age today as they were then. We assumed they’d been part of a cryogenic experiment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put what you want but your piss flap picture never lies, Mr can guess your age within a week.

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By *reykiwi500Man over a year ago

London

"The only thing I altered was the month.

My age is as stated."

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It never crossed my mind to misrepresent my age when I joined Fab.

It’s kind of sad to think it’s common practice on here (particularly when many ladies age filters preclude us older chaps...not that I’m complaining about people’s right to have an age preference)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're completely honest with our ages but we met a couple once where the lady was supposed to be in her 50's but in reality she was nearly 80, very nice lady but really. Pics wernt of her as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No my age is my real age

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My age is about right give or take a few mths tbh I have men that message me that have taken at least 10 yrs if not 15 off their actual age either that or they had a really hard paper round lol"

I had 2 paper rounds go on say you can't tell lol

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"It never crossed my mind to misrepresent my age when I joined Fab.

Not all of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Too be honest we didn’t expect anyone to confess to doing this but we’ve also noticed esp with single guys that they might remove years but they add inches to their height. That’s even more difficult to hide especially if the wife is wearing heels !

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan over a year ago

oulton broad

Best to be honest I find . Though age is just a number if you lie you always get found out in the end x

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By *pmsldCouple over a year ago

kettering

We have entered our real ages, we wouldnt bother changing it mainly because whats the point ? If people don't want to meet certain ages (young or old) its their choice, and age isnt somthing most people can hide once face to face.. lying wont exactly make you appealing either lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mines real. Within a couple of months anyway

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My age on here, is my age.

I've had a couple of socials which surprised me, they've either had a very hard life or lied.

And I've spotted new profiles appear local to me, where I know they've come back adding several years to their previous one.

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By *greygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

our ages right .profile right .and have fun who ever we meet .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It never crossed my mind to misrepresent my age when I joined Fab.

Not all of us.

That’s good to know (if only I could remember where I left my Zimmer frame......)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one will admit on the forums that they are actually much older than the profile says, but it’s prevalent and fairly common, we don’t lie about age, never occurred to us when we joined....

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Some lie about their age and some don't. It's usually obvious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 50. No point lying bout age

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We’ve found it very common. Bet if you plotted the age of all site users there would be peaks at 29, 34, 39, etc to get within the common block ages. If someone is 41 you can understand them shading a couple of years off to 39 to open up more potential meets.

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By *aveDerbyMan over a year ago

Derby

I'm 37, not sure why people would lie about their age

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 50 never lied about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ours are as stated on profile no point lying about it we look it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would not even think to lie about my age - lies always have a habit of being found out!!!

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By *tace 309TV/TS over a year ago

durham

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction? "
a good few knock more than 4 years off their age .I don't see the point. If you can't be honest about a little thing like that what else are you going to fib about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m the age I say I am, and my DOB is accurate on here.

The highest I’ve experienced on here is 11 years.

The guy had 45 on his profile but admitted to being 56, and he looked 56. I really wanted to tell him that you’re not fooling anyone and the reason he’s having trouble getting a meet (he mentioned this) is probably because people can see he’s lying about his age!

There’s also a man on here whose son I know, I blocked him almost instantly but his age was out by 7 years!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction? "

The most amusing are the ones who knock twenty years of their age and actually rummage around in their loft to find an old Polaroid or two to use as profile pics.

They then complain when, disguised as a much older person with much less hair and teeth, they're turned away at the door after turning up hoping you won't notice.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction? a good few knock more than 4 years off their age .I don't see the point. If you can't be honest about a little thing like that what else are you going to fib about "

They all have massive Wang's and the sexual prowess of a rampant buffalo on viagra?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Neck, decolletage and hands will tell much more than a number

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By *utsidenakedMan over a year ago

Dorchester

I never thought of this, too honest I must be, ooh reminds me I'm actually 35 hooray

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im 34... im honest about it.. why wouldnt i be?

Most say i look late 20s.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I put my real age and date of birth on here.

I met a guy 2 years ago on here who claimed to be 39. Nice looking guy but clearly deluded. He's actually 52. He's back with another profile and now pretending to be 38. I call him Benjamin Button. He gets younger with each profile!

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By *aveDerbyMan over a year ago

Derby

I played with a lovely friendly naturist couple last year who turned out to be 66 and 67. Age is just a number, it's the people you like so why lie about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I played with a lovely friendly naturist couple last year who turned out to be 66 and 67. Age is just a number, it's the people you like so why lie about it

Suppose people lie about it because it gets them past filters then they’re hoping they’ll get away with it on the night of a meet. It’s understandable as to why they do it. People lie to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your age is your age!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im totally honest about everything on my profile, not just my age but my full profile. No point in lying about anything, it all comes out in the end...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i see some of the women on here in 50's early 60s and they look great.

didnt have colour tv back then though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Age is just a number"

It really, really isn't...it's an indicator of so much more for me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Put what you want but your piss flap picture never lies, Mr can guess your age within a week. "

Mines in a 40 age bracket - its not been bashed around that much... the rest of me is 55 plus (so unfit for a 50 year old)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am 2 months out as I always put my date of birth as Jan 1st.

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

At a meet last week I was pleasantly told I'm not an average 53 yr old as I'm "not flabby or flaccid"... go me

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Put what you want but your piss flap picture never lies, Mr can guess your age within a week. "

Back of a woman’s hands, bottom of her neck, and the décolletage always give the game away

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

4 years? Two women I have met from here were easily 15 years older than they purported to be

There’s a guy local to me has miraculously gone back to being 43 on his profile just last week, he was 45 before that, and from what people have told me, he is 54. One other bloke states he is 47, when he is 58

My age is correct

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By *lassycoupleNWCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Our age is correct.. if we thought Somone had misled us we'd just bugger off!!

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By *tuartsCelloCouple over a year ago

Bristol

We have to be honest we are really 87 and 91 respectively

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm honest,

My age is my age.

Me too

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By *r Appreciator.Man over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

Real age here, feeling it this morning.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I am 53, no knocking off here

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan over a year ago

North west

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction? "

Our ages are correct, don’t see the point of lying.

We have met people in clubs and then looked at their profile and thought “yeh right” when we see the age they’ve put

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan over a year ago

North west

"We have to be honest we are really 87 and 91 respectively

Wearing very well.

What brand of moisturiser do you use?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm my age wish I wasn't

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By *tuartsCelloCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"We have to be honest we are really 87 and 91 respectively

Wearing very well.

What brand of moisturiser do you use?

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Warm and homemade

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By *layful cockMan over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"I'm 50. No point lying bout age"

You 50 but you have the body or a 37 year old? Looking good.

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By *layful cockMan over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"We have to be honest we are really 87 and 91 respectively

Wearing very well.

What brand of moisturiser do you use?

Warm and homemade

Well i think I'll need to use some of that moisturiser, shame im not any closer. X

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By *verysmileMan over a year ago

CANTERBURY

Wasn't it Joan Rivers who said...

"I was born in 1960....and the room next to mine was 1961"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We haven't, lying about ones age is pointless and counterproductive act in our opinion.

WYSIWYG basically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Put what you want but your piss flap picture never lies, Mr can guess your age within a week.

Back of a woman’s hands, bottom of her neck, and the décolletage always give the game away

That's me buggered then...I've had old womans hands since I was a teenager...

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

I always assumed everyone was honest about their age on here. What's the point in lying about it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always assumed everyone was honest about their age on here. What's the point in lying about it?"

Some people do it to get past filters, some probably aren’t comfortable with their age.

Many think they can get away with it so they do it.

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By *laytimetwoCouple over a year ago

Staines

Ours are correct and honest, also proud to be our ages. X

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By *uicy Lucy and percyCouple over a year ago

wales

Our ages are correct don’t see the point in lying about it

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By *iddyinfirmMan over a year ago

Great Glen

Having just reached the big Five Oh; I’m forever talking about it (Forty Ten sounds better) but again like 46 it does seem that 49 is a common cut off point. I can’t see any great difference in myself since January of this year but it seems for some I’m now way over the hill.

But I couldn’t put a younger age on my profile as I probably give myself away in the first hour anyway; and dishonesty isn’t very sexy.

Perhaps I should put 52 on my profile and give myself a couple of years to catch up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is my age... Think. I actually used my dob.. Just it not viable don't see point in lying.

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By *undude2015Man over a year ago

Southampton

I use my real age, I don’t see the point of lying about it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We dont lie about ours,but know a guy thats been 53 for 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm honest about my age, probably to my disadvantage because I could get away with saying I'm much younger, and I fall outside a lot of people's search criteria. I dread to think what it will be like after my next birthday - probably time to retire from here. I can't bring myself to lie though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 me the younger the better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm honest about my age, probably to my disadvantage because I could get away with saying I'm much younger, and I fall outside a lot of people's search criteria. I dread to think what it will be like after my next birthday - probably time to retire from here. I can't bring myself to lie though "

Please don’t retire.... then I won’t have anyone to argue with on the forums

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By *irky_coupleCouple over a year ago

kirky

We are what we say we are. Never even crossed our minds to be sneaky when we joined. Whats the point?

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By *oungYorkscoupleCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Our ages are real. Each to there own in regards to telling there true age although think it can be a turn off we were speaking to a guy his profile said 33 he was really 45 and then when we decided not to meet he got funny with us. Depends if it's a big deal to you, don't see the need to lie massively about age

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"We are what we say we are. Never even crossed our minds to be sneaky when we joined. Whats the point? "

No lies on our profile. Just wish other people were as honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No point in lying as you get found out when you go face to face. I am content with my real age being on here ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No point in lying as you get found out when you go face to face. I am content with my real age being on here ??"

People lie to get to meet someone in the first place you see profiles deleted and come back 5 years younger to get round filters. People take the chance they can buff it once they get to meet people most won't admit to doing it though.

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Malmesbury/Larkhill

"I'm honest,

My age is my age.

Snap, mine too.

Doing this excludes me from mailing lots of couples and single women that I think I'd get on well with but that's just the way it is; luckily there are some that appreciate a man of my maturity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction? "

We've stopped worrying about it, if we fancy their up to date pics and in real life then it is a complete irrelevance rarely discussed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We quite new here so am quite amazed people lie. Whats the point? We all wanna be liked and lusted after in person!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Saw a guy who looked at me before I hid my profile and the stated age was 35...yet looking at the photos one could have easily added on another 30 years!!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We quite new here so am quite amazed people lie. Whats the point? We all wanna be liked and lusted after in person!"

One thing I've heard is that it's quite frustrating for people to be one or two years outside of the limit, so there tends to be peaks at say 39 or 49 in an attempt to squeak in. Obviously a short term strategy, but I don't think most people could reliably tell that a 40 year old is actually 40 not 39.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"4 me the younger the better "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Put what you want but your piss flap picture never lies, Mr can guess your age within a week. "

Ewww

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By *reamytitwankCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We have our real ages on our profile. Think I'm out of most people's age range at 47. Oh well.

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By *egs11ABCWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't lie about my age. Don't see the point but had to show my fb my driving licence as he didnt believe my age. Why would a woman say shes older than she is.

Iv found a few young guys add a few years on but women that have taken a few years off. X

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

We are both honest about our age

Don't see the point in lying tbh and makes me wonder what else someome would lie about,if they knock a few years off.

Miss

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By *ovingittwoCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction? "

We're totally honest and everyone we've met has been x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm totally honest about mine. 37!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is real just not d.o.b, I could have easily put in my 20's and no one would have thought any different.

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By *r and Mrs P SandCouple over a year ago

South West

"Interested to see what people think the average number of years people knock off their age on the site.

Our ages are out by a few months because we don’t enter real dates of birth but the last couple of people we met have knocked around 4 years of their real age.

So we now assume everyone is on average 4 years older than their published age. Feel we’re maybe being too honest . Lol

Anyone else noticed the 4 year age deduction?

We're totally honest and everyone we've met has been x"

Same here, honestly wouldn't have even thought to knock a couple years off lol and I (or we) are often told we look younger

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By *dward_TeagueMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Mine is genuine, it was my birthday the other day, I was 52. I don’t see the need to lie about it, I’m comfortable in my skin.

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By *armupartistMan over a year ago

York

My age is honest as is my marital status, I appreciate the need for discretion about birth dates etc, but honesty breeds trust and confidence. Sad thing is at my age the majority on here assume I am not 'up to it'. Sad as those I have played with have not had any complaints.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get told quite a lot that I look 15 and asked what my real age is but I am actually 26

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im 27 (mrs sinner) I haven't hit the age where I feel I need to lie haha u would be surprised how many older gentleman will try tho x

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By *earded_kent_GentMan over a year ago

ashford

My age is honest to the day!

Don’t really see the point in not being truthful about it, we’re all adults here (or at least we should be) in this day and age with diversity as broad as it is might as well just be honest about it.

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By *atelotmanMan over a year ago

Chatham

My age is spot on , can't see any reason to lie about it. I still meet women of all ages.

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By *inky NikkiTV/TS over a year ago

Kinksville

Mine is true

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By *hropsDuoCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

We know lots of people who lie about their ages.. We've got our real ages on here.. It does mean that we often fall out of people's age ranges, but as most of our meets are in clubs or on holidays it doesn't really worry us. Quite often we have played with people who admitted that they would have dismissed us based on our profile ages, but in real life are glad we had a chance meet and sometimes have changed the range on their profile as a result!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am 56... no average... no knocking off years... just 56... young and virile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is my actual age!

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

We have added 5 years as we prefer more mature company..,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So this isn't about age, it's about lying and deceit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have added 5 years as we prefer more mature company..,

Really??? How strange.

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"So this isn't about age, it's about lying and deceit

Erm, this is Fab!

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Age is just one thing on here that's not always the truth , location,marital status ect,

Id rather keep to real facts rather than altered facts even though it excludes me from a lot of meets and peoples search specs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happy to admit my entire profile is 100% true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In our heads we're still 21 however the bodies betray us

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

100% my real age. I celebrated my 50th at Eurekas do everyone knew my age. No point lying about it.

I’ve met guys who lied about their ages big time. One said on his profile he was 41 but was really 52. Another says he’s 53 but is mid 60’s. 29 on profile but 21 really.

A few women put they’re about 5 yrs younger but one says she’s 51 and is mid 60’s.

Don’t get me started on height lol

I’m 6ft. A guy said he was 5’11”. When I met him he was actually 4’11”, it was like standing next to a child

. I made excuses and left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've lied about my age on previous profiles. When I've come clean at a social meet, it's never bothered them I lied or stopped them meeting me again.....

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By *pertureTV/TS over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

my age is gen, and it seems to be the cutoff for most people 55, but tbh I wouldn't want to meet anyone who didn't want my age range.

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By *uttyjonnMan over a year ago

cheshire

People lie about their age in real life so no surprises here. I suppose the logic online is that you have to do it bcoz everyone else does it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We met a couple 5 years ago on an old profile. They’re still the same age today as they were then. We assumed they’d been part of a cryogenic experiment

Haha tgat made me laugh, could test a few on here using big words x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Test a few on here?

That - is spelt like this lovely!

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By *wo4FemCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Our ages are as shown although mine (Mr2) will be changing on Monday as it's my birthday then.

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By *urious401Couple over a year ago

woburn

Our age on here is completely legit we wouldn’t see the point of lying

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know."

Haha! Everything on my profile is honest, except my age. I deviated slightly from the truth to protect my privacy. So sue me....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

I get that. However, as an ‘oldie’ I’m just over a common age limit.

Who am I kidding though, I don’t get ‘meets’ anyway.

I had lots of meets from POF two years back, all the ladies knocked a few years off and upon meeting had absolutely no issue in admitting it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

I get that. However, as an ‘oldie’ I’m just over a common age limit.

Who am I kidding though, I don’t get ‘meets’ anyway.

I had lots of meets from POF two years back, all the ladies knocked a few years off and upon meeting had absolutely no issue in admitting it."

But people are entitled to their “age limits”, lying about your age just to get into someones age limits is just creepy and not on in my opinion.

Why not embrace your age and choose from the women who actually want to meet you. If someone can lie about their age they can lie about much more serious things too.

All those ladies who knocked a few years of are just as bad. I can only assume those who lie are ashamed of their age and aren’t comfortable with it at all.

The older you get the more years you are going to shave off your age.

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By *etite HandfulWoman over a year ago

Chester

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

I get that. However, as an ‘oldie’ I’m just over a common age limit.

Who am I kidding though, I don’t get ‘meets’ anyway.

I had lots of meets from POF two years back, all the ladies knocked a few years off and upon meeting had absolutely no issue in admitting it.

But people are entitled to their “age limits”, lying about your age just to get into someones age limits is just creepy and not on in my opinion.

Why not embrace your age and choose from the women who actually want to meet you. If someone can lie about their age they can lie about much more serious things too.

All those ladies who knocked a few years of are just as bad. I can only assume those who lie are ashamed of their age and aren’t comfortable with it at all.

The older you get the more years you are going to shave off your age."

No they are not ashamed they just want to have the chance of shagging a larger potential pool.

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By *awty nannaWoman over a year ago

sheffield

My age is right,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

I get that. However, as an ‘oldie’ I’m just over a common age limit.

Who am I kidding though, I don’t get ‘meets’ anyway.

I had lots of meets from POF two years back, all the ladies knocked a few years off and upon meeting had absolutely no issue in admitting it.

But people are entitled to their “age limits”, lying about your age just to get into someones age limits is just creepy and not on in my opinion.

Why not embrace your age and choose from the women who actually want to meet you. If someone can lie about their age they can lie about much more serious things too.

All those ladies who knocked a few years of are just as bad. I can only assume those who lie are ashamed of their age and aren’t comfortable with it at all.

The older you get the more years you are going to shave off your age.

No they are not ashamed they just want to have the chance of shagging a larger potential pool."

By lying...

In my opinion anyone who lies about their age clearly isn’t comfortable with it.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

I’m honest about my age. Don’t see the point of it otherwise. I’m hopeless at guessing peoples ages. I go with their looks and personalities and if we get on or not.

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By *LT22Man over a year ago

Teddington

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s a privilege or bonus for those of us that have looked after ourselves, led a wholesome life, and blessed with good genes so aged well, we can knock off a couple and nobody would know.

Surely if you look as good as you say it’s better to state your real age so when people see it they can say “Wow no way you look younger!”

I get that. However, as an ‘oldie’ I’m just over a common age limit.

Who am I kidding though, I don’t get ‘meets’ anyway.

I had lots of meets from POF two years back, all the ladies knocked a few years off and upon meeting had absolutely no issue in admitting it.

But people are entitled to their “age limits”, lying about your age just to get into someones age limits is just creepy and not on in my opinion.

Why not embrace your age and choose from the women who actually want to meet you. If someone can lie about their age they can lie about much more serious things too.

All those ladies who knocked a few years of are just as bad. I can only assume those who lie are ashamed of their age and aren’t comfortable with it at all.

The older you get the more years you are going to shave off your age.

No they are not ashamed they just want to have the chance of shagging a larger potential pool."

Correct

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It is what it is....but I understand why when you get to the 50 you would miss a few years due to filters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is what it is....but I understand why when you get to the 50 you would miss a few years due to filters.

Like me... you have choosen not to follow that trend...

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By *greygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

we met a couple from on fab at chams.got chatting [as you do]had a great hour get together full on meet.gave each other fab names .we could not message them as our male was outside their age range .when they message us we became friends so we could message .have seen them a few times now.so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is my age I can't pull the wool over anyone's eyes with this baby face haha

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By *andsome_Chef88Man over a year ago

London

Lol I am actually 30 2 weeks from today. And I messaged a woman aged 26 and she said no way am I 29. She actually thought I was 19/20. She asked to see my passport or drivers license. To her surprise I am 29.

But I find it’s the 50+ people who lie more. I think it’s to get around people’s age range and have more luck. Each to their own really. But embrace your age. If not I’ll tell you where the fountain of youth is. (I’ve been sipping on it for years now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm honest. 49. When I was 25 I looked like 18. (So I was told). But as soon as one starts to lose hair your age creeps up. So by the age of 30 I looked about 35. So in 5 years I'd gained 17 years!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely 48 and very happy telling the truth as hate it when you meet someone and they are definitely not the age they Say they are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother"

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?"

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

The false flatterers don’t believe I’m 57 so pointless lying. I am 57.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?"
actually I've been seeing someone who's 57 lately but I'm a realist and don't expect someone older than 55 to be interested in me just like I don't expect some one under 30 to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol I am actually 30 2 weeks from today. And I messaged a woman aged 26 and she said no way am I 29. She actually thought I was 19/20. She asked to see my passport or drivers license. To her surprise I am 29.

There is no such thing as a fountain of youth... it's all in the Genes...say thank you to your mum or dad for coming from that particular pool... I know that I say thank you to both of mine...

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?actually I've been seeing someone who's 57 lately but I'm a realist and don't expect someone older than 55 to be interested in me just like I don't expect some one under 30 to be "

And as if by magic his age range preference changes drastically.

Just have hit a nerve.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?actually I've been seeing someone who's 57 lately but I'm a realist and don't expect someone older than 55 to be interested in me just like I don't expect some one under 30 to be

And as if by magic his age range preference changes drastically.

Just have hit a nerve."
nope I been thinking of doing it for ages but what age do u realistically cut off at as there's some women on here at 66 that can pass for lot younger ,so don't pat your head to hard and reward yourself you weren't the catalyst

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 53 54 on NYE and I don’t mind who knows it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No matter how you justify it to me if you lie about your age you could be lying about other things and i dunno about anyone else but im not here to be deceived by others my details are 100% true and i do expect the same from others exaggerating your age is still lying again my own opinion

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

It did not cross my mind to lie about my age when i joined Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?actually I've been seeing someone who's 57 lately but I'm a realist and don't expect someone older than 55 to be interested in me just like I don't expect some one under 30 to be

And as if by magic his age range preference changes drastically.

Just have hit a nerve."

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"No matter how you justify it to me if you lie about your age you could be lying about other things and i dunno about anyone else but im not here to be deceived by others my details are 100% true and i do expect the same from others exaggerating your age is still lying again my own opinion "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Beautiful too xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm my real age I did think about knocking a few yes off to meet under 45 people bit thought fuck it if they're to shallow to meet me I'd rather not bother

How is someone's age preference shallow? Your maximum age is set at 55. Does that mean you're "shallow" for not wanting to meet people who are 56, 57, 58...? Or is that just your preference?actually I've been seeing someone who's 57 lately but I'm a realist and don't expect someone older than 55 to be interested in me just like I don't expect some one under 30 to be

And as if by magic his age range preference changes drastically.

Just have hit a nerve.

"
nope

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By *reykiwi500Man over a year ago

London

I only altered my age by a couple of weeks purely for security reasons. Otherwise, much like other physical attributes, it is what it is.

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By *low Sensual MassageMan over a year ago

Stretford

10 years if they are over certain age and want to appear younger

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By *rs and Mr YoYoCouple over a year ago

chester

We honest and not lied about our age x we don’t see the point init

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep just go with the flow,wots the point of disguising your age,just say what it is on the packet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It did not cross my mind to lie about my age when i joined Fab."

And we look fabulous in our 50s...

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By *etite HandfulWoman over a year ago

Chester

I think some women lie on here but they don't have to as most women can find enough people interested. Guys who are really in there early mid 50s well most lie and put 47/48 if they have been here before as it gets them under the 50 threshold some even stretch it to 45 its the same with guys 41-46 going for 38/39 though most lie and say they don't. Is it honest? Hell no, is it fair to mislead people? Hell no! But then I can understand why they do it just like married people don't disclose it and say single I am not saying its right but a little honest is nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes well, I have lied about other things. For example why I don't accommodate... Plus maybe my weight, size of tits etc. I mean really, everybody on here hasn't told a porky about something???? Lol I'm happy to say, I have!

now that's honesty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think some women lie on here but they don't have to as most women can find enough people interested. Guys who are really in there early mid 50s well most lie and put 47/48 if they have been here before as it gets them under the 50 threshold some even stretch it to 45 its the same with guys 41-46 going for 38/39 though most lie and say they don't. Is it honest? Hell no, is it fair to mislead people? Hell no! But then I can understand why they do it just like married people don't disclose it and say single I am not saying its right but a little honest is nice. "

Well working on what most guys do I must be around 62 or 63... not bad then...

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By *reykiwi500Man over a year ago

London

Most guys, or just most guys you've come across where you've been able to verify their real ages?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is true but did meet a lady who’s profile said 49 and she admitted when I met her she was 59, and too be honest didn’t bother me at all.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

I am completely honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm honest. Although I do look in my late 20's. Not my opinion! Said by my meets and by plenty of others from fab at a large social gathering I attended.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most guys, or just most guys you've come across where you've been able to verify their real ages?"

I'd say it's most guys! I've seen it myself at a fab social gathering I attended. He admitted he lied. Most who I've questioned about it on here or in person, confess their real ages in the end.

I think it's very wrong to lie about your age if you look nothing like the age you're pretending to be. I've walked away from plenty of in person meets due to being deceived. If they're honest and admit the lie before I make the effort and expense to meet up, that would be different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My age is my age and I'm proud to be my age 46

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

Mine is a few months out, in fact I think it's a whole year! The only reason for that is so that I don't get recognised.

It's only a number...

But you are right. There are clearly people pretending to be younger that their years and it bwcomes obvious when you meet

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