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Now this is a hard one due to the fact that there are a few people out there who enjoy the company of someone a bit younger than themselves, but for you personally does it attract you or put you off? If it puts you off, what’s the reasoning? Everyone is entitled to their opinion and so am very intrigued to find out a couple of honest opinions and that’s one thing these forums definitely provide! lol |
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for me, its completely dependant on the person..i know some very mature intelligent younger men, i know some intelligent mature older men...but i also know immatue,ignorant hopeless men in either category as well...and age certianly doesnt always equal experience or ability.. |
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"for me, its completely dependant on the person..i know some very mature intelligent younger men, i know some intelligent mature older men...but i also know immatue,ignorant hopeless men in either category as well...and age certianly doesnt always equal experience or ability.."
Yeah that’s fair enough, but how do you judge a person on a couple of pictures and a small bio? Does mine come across as naive or immature? lol |
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I enjoy the company of all age groups. I think if you mix with one age group only you risk becoming very narrow in outlook.
I'm guessing though that you're talking about sex. When it comes to that I prefer slightly older |
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"I think age is a brain thing. You get mature 25 year olds and childish 50 year olds. "
I’m glad there are some like minded people around with that same mindset! Age is completely irrelevant as long as said person is mature  |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman."
See I find that is the biggest problem, women seem to assume I want a mother but reality is, I personally find the “women” my age, if you can call them women, are more childish and just seem to be full speed and in your face! Besides a hell of a lot of them absolutely love themselves too much and I just haven’t got time for that lol I like a decent conversation, slow and steady pace with lots of teasing and playing! Besides, older women know what they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong with a few wrinkles! As long as you’re mind is still young, I couldn’t care |
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"Now this is a hard one due to the fact that there are a few people out there who enjoy the company of someone a bit younger than themselves, but for you personally does it attract you or put you off? If it puts you off, what’s the reasoning? Everyone is entitled to their opinion and so am very intrigued to find out a couple of honest opinions and that’s one thing these forums definitely provide! lol "
Well as your name suggests, fast ride. I’ve found younger guys you only have to touch their cock an it’s game over. 
Or if they are to close to my kids age also off putting.
But if I’m out I don’t ask for age. I go on how it feels with them. Online no under 24 |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
See I find that is the biggest problem, women seem to assume I want a mother but reality is, I personally find the “women” my age, if you can call them women, are more childish and just seem to be full speed and in your face! Besides a hell of a lot of them absolutely love themselves too much and I just haven’t got time for that lol I like a decent conversation, slow and steady pace with lots of teasing and playing! Besides, older women know what they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong with a few wrinkles! As long as you’re mind is still young, I couldn’t care "
Why is it that people can’t compliment one group without insulting another. “Woman” your age here  |
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"for me, its completely dependant on the person..i know some very mature intelligent younger men, i know some intelligent mature older men...but i also know immatue,ignorant hopeless men in either category as well...and age certianly doesnt always equal experience or ability..
Yeah that’s fair enough, but how do you judge a person on a couple of pictures and a small bio? Does mine come across as naive or immature? lol "
Those aren't the only things we base a meet on...The messages that occur before arranging a meet, the attitude of said person in the forums or status updates can all influence our decisions. Usually it's the immaturity or crassness of some younger guys that put us off. Saying that, we've met loads of young guys that aren't like that and we've all had plenty of fun. Age is but a number, everything else is just a state of mind |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
See I find that is the biggest problem, women seem to assume I want a mother but reality is, I personally find the “women” my age, if you can call them women, are more childish and just seem to be full speed and in your face! Besides a hell of a lot of them absolutely love themselves too much and I just haven’t got time for that lol I like a decent conversation, slow and steady pace with lots of teasing and playing! Besides, older women know what they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong with a few wrinkles! As long as you’re mind is still young, I couldn’t care
Why is it that people can’t compliment one group without insulting another. “Woman” your age here "
Why is that people cant just accept someones opinion without being offended. Im sure its nothing personal, dont let it bother you. |
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I've always had the rule that of you are young enough to have 'come out of me' you won't be 'cumming in me'.
It's just my own little guidance I stick to  |
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"I've always had the rule that of you are young enough to have 'come out of me' you won't be 'cumming in me'.
It's just my own little guidance I stick to "
This made me laugh!!!
Even if I don’t share the sentiments..
My gauge is got to be older than my kids!!! |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
I’m a wrinkly?  "
Irrespective of real life, on here everyone over a certain age is. I think they worry things will drop off or we'll keel over with a heart attack  |
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I don't think for me age really comes into it. It's the person. If I found someone interesting, profile or something they have said it wouldn't matter what there age.
However I wouldn't fuck an 18 year old, mainly because at my age I'd wonder why they would be interested. Besides, I like my women to have 'something' about them.
Pre swinging days, I always seemed to get on better with 'older' women for some reason. Just found them easier to talk to. |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
I’m a wrinkly? "
I'm nearly 60 and I'm not wrinkly either! What an assumption |
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I like strong, "seasoned" alpha males. I also socialise with meets prior to playing. I feel old as it is going out with my son-in-laws!
Personally, anyone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad are non starters...just wouldn't feel right for me. |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
See I find that is the biggest problem, women seem to assume I want a mother but reality is, I personally find the “women” my age, if you can call them women, are more childish and just seem to be full speed and in your face! Besides a hell of a lot of them absolutely love themselves too much and I just haven’t got time for that lol I like a decent conversation, slow and steady pace with lots of teasing and playing! Besides, older women know what they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong with a few wrinkles! As long as you’re mind is still young, I couldn’t care
Why is it that people can’t compliment one group without insulting another. “Woman” your age here
Why is that people cant just accept someones opinion without being offended. Im sure its nothing personal, dont let it bother you. "
I didn’t say it was, but why are we “women” in inverted commas in our twenties? At what age do we become real women? Age is something we have no control over |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
See I find that is the biggest problem, women seem to assume I want a mother but reality is, I personally find the “women” my age, if you can call them women, are more childish and just seem to be full speed and in your face! Besides a hell of a lot of them absolutely love themselves too much and I just haven’t got time for that lol I like a decent conversation, slow and steady pace with lots of teasing and playing! Besides, older women know what they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong with a few wrinkles! As long as you’re mind is still young, I couldn’t care
Why is it that people can’t compliment one group without insulting another. “Woman” your age here "
Ahh didn’t mean for it to come across like that but I am referencing the age group of 18-24 even push to 26 with a couple of women I’ve met lol but it’s not all of them, just the majority of the ones I’ve come across |
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"for me, its completely dependant on the person..i know some very mature intelligent younger men, i know some intelligent mature older men...but i also know immatue,ignorant hopeless men in either category as well...and age certianly doesnt always equal experience or ability..
Yeah that’s fair enough, but how do you judge a person on a couple of pictures and a small bio? Does mine come across as naive or immature? lol
Those aren't the only things we base a meet on...The messages that occur before arranging a meet, the attitude of said person in the forums or status updates can all influence our decisions. Usually it's the immaturity or crassness of some younger guys that put us off. Saying that, we've met loads of young guys that aren't like that and we've all had plenty of fun. Age is but a number, everything else is just a state of mind "
Yeah ok, that makes complete sense! I tend to try and be upbeat on here but sometimes the amount of effort given and lack of reward does slowly deteriorate my mindset lol but absolutely love the last bit you put! Age is BUT a number, too true :D |
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"I just don't want to feel like someone's mother and I don't get why some fresh faced 20 year old something would want to go with a 50 year old wrinkly woman.
See I find that is the biggest problem, women seem to assume I want a mother but reality is, I personally find the “women” my age, if you can call them women, are more childish and just seem to be full speed and in your face! Besides a hell of a lot of them absolutely love themselves too much and I just haven’t got time for that lol I like a decent conversation, slow and steady pace with lots of teasing and playing! Besides, older women know what they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong with a few wrinkles! As long as you’re mind is still young, I couldn’t care
Why is it that people can’t compliment one group without insulting another. “Woman” your age here
Why is that people cant just accept someones opinion without being offended. Im sure its nothing personal, dont let it bother you.
I didn’t say it was, but why are we “women” in inverted commas in our twenties? At what age do we become real women? Age is something we have no control over "
If they act like a child and have a childish mentality then in my opinion they are girls and not women! The reason I used the inverted commas was to emphasise the fact that I wouldn’t call them women lol it’s the same as this “fuck boy” status that women/girls use now towards men being men lol |
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