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over a year ago
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You are effectively introducing yourself with your cock hanging out, this will put most off. You wouldn't do it in real life (or I'd hope you wouldn't!) so why do it here?? |
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OP whenever I receive a message the first thing I do is look at the senders profile.
If I don't see anything that piques my interest or if I see something that puts me off I delete the message without reading it.
Lots of ladies and couples do the same so perhaps your profile isn't doing you any favours.
The content of the message has a big impact too. When you receive dozens of messages that read "hi, how are you?" or "want to meet me now?" it gets a bit wearing. The messages that are a bit different to the norm do stand out amongst the crowd.
Hope this helps a bit. |
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over a year ago
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As someone else has said for many the first thing they'll do when they get a message is look at the profile. Does yours tell people what you are looking for, what you offer and why they should meet you as opposed to any other single guy on here? |
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"Thanks for all of the advice. Some real food for thought."
This is my opinion, I do what most of the women have said, read profile and look at pictures.
If you were in a pub or club, what would you do to attract a woman? It is basically the same principle on here.
There does seem to be some conflicting points on your profile, but as your asking about messaging I cannot comment on your profile. |
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Read the persons profile fully first. Make sure you can offer them what they are looking for including area travel can you or they accommodate. Do you have things listed on your profile that they state they don't like ect.
If you fit the there needs then message them referring to their needs and what you can offer.
Hi how are you or nice pics are a waste of time more detail needed.
Lastly even if you meet all their needs ect it doesn't mean they have to meet you your profile text and pic's may not be to their likeing or any other reason.
Just keep trying |
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