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My lack of confidence on my size.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I know it's about how you use it and not the size.
My girth is fine and I have a nice curve towards my stomach but I'm certainly below average. And I've never had any issues that I know of from previous sexual partners about my size. Apart from my ex who teased me a bit. But that being said. I'm always super nervous when I start dating someone new because I see so many guys on here with really big penis's and I feel a little under developed. I suppose.
Do you prefer a big penis or a smaller more average size penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most of the women that I know care more about personality and facial features mate, and besides people come in all shapes and sizes anyway so don't let it get you down |
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This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.
And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.
Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself  |
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"This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.
And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.
Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.
And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.
Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself "
Well said |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
op cock shyness is more common than you think. one study in the naughties put the figure of men wanting at least an extra length of 2 inches and girth of an inch more at around 80%. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's all about personality and attraction. I would far rather an average cock with a great personality than a big cock and the personality of a brick. You're rather blessed in the looks department so be confident about your body. Confidence is sexy  |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
It's your cock, learn the love it.
It's the size it is and it's not changing any time soon.
Think of all the good times you two have had together, and better times that lay ahead. Enjoy those times to their fullest.
A confident guy with an average sized cock who knows how to use it is far more desirable than an unsure, insecure guy with a massive chopper. |
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Men are generally more obsessed with cock size than women this and the countless other threads on the subject started predominantly by men prove that
Personally I couldn't give a rats are if you got 1inch or 10 I'm more interested in the person attached to it. If he's unconfident with what he's got or uses his cock as his only selling point I won't be interested, both are unattractive qualities to me and guess what they aren't physical qualities there a lesson there!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.
And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.
Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself "
Agree |
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This part is not the main point:
How many ladies you will meet will have a "wizard's sleeve" between their thighs??!!!
Even if she did, you could get your fingers (entire fist?) into action, have a laugh and agree that it's been great but you are probably not meant to be for ever and ever...
The main point:
The lady / ladies will be impressed if you like them - read that as present yourself with a solid erection and demonstrate yourself willing to use it.
Concentrate on whether you find the lady attractive, and if you do, provide for her and her needs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" So, I know it's about how you use it and not the size.
My girth is fine and I have a nice curve towards my stomach but I'm certainly below average. And I've never had any issues that I know of from previous sexual partners about my size. Apart from my ex who teased me a bit. But that being said. I'm always super nervous when I start dating someone new because I see so many guys on here with really big penis's and I feel a little under developed. I suppose.
Do you prefer a big penis or a smaller more average size penis "
From my previous experience it's not about size. It's genuinely about the way you use it. Be confident in yourself and your confidence will make you shine.
Yes people love huge cock - whatever, that's their preference but that doesn't mean that you're not good enough.
Stop looking down at yourself for what you haven't got and embrace what you have!
Mrs X |
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