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"What suggestions have you guys got to get your girl into the swinging scene? " I don't know your girl. Neither does anyone else here. (Probably). | |||
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"Just plant the seed and let it develop? " The usual reply is, "Show her your profile and see if she is impressed." | |||
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"Cool. Just try and develop things slowly then I guess. Patience must be the thing. " Many would say that honesty is the thing. | |||
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"Cool. Just try and develop things slowly then I guess. Patience must be the thing. Many would say that honesty is the thing."  | |||
"I guess so, but I'll need to know she's interested before I say I'm a swinger I guess. " ...and if she isn't interested? | |||
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"well if its yourself, i would delete your profile as you have had meets without her knowledge so thats cheating no matter how you colour it" Don't be presumptuous he's just said they are just starting out... | |||
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"well if its yourself, i would delete your profile as you have had meets without her knowledge so thats cheating no matter how you colour it Don't be presumptuous he's just said they are just starting out..." a would hide profile or delete in a new relationship it does not look good if she accidently come across it | |||
"Agreed, I'll be either coming off or hiding my profile soon as I'll be concentrating on her for a while" Then discuss it. Assuming you got involved with her after 18th Feb. | |||
"Agreed, I'll be either coming off or hiding my profile soon as I'll be concentrating on her for a while" Sounds like a good idea , good luck xx | |||
"Agreed, I'll be either coming off or hiding my profile soon as I'll be concentrating on her for a while Sounds like a good idea , good luck xx " | |||
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"That would be a real shame, I'm hoping that she wants to make me a happy man! " Not a good start - I would have thought your major goal would be to make her a happy woman. | |||
"What was the sequence of events with you guys? Who's idea was it? Did it take a long time to convince the other to try it? " Paul was already a swinger as was open about it and it was something I was interested in trying. It took some time and lots of discussion before we went anywhere near the scene because it's certainly not something to rush into. | |||
"That would be a real shame, I'm hoping that she wants to make me a happy man! Not a good start - I would have thought your major goal would be to make her a happy woman." | |||
"What was the sequence of events with you guys? Who's idea was it? Did it take a long time to convince the other to try it? " You shouldn't have to try to convince anyone into swinging, not should she have to make you a happens as per your comment above. If she says no, that's it, point blank, trying to convince her would only do more harm than good, how would you ever know whether she actually wants to for herself or only doing it to please you. I'd be honest with her, tell her you've done it in the past and enjoyed it and see what she says but as I say, if she's not interested do not push it, if she is, perhaps try a club. | |||
"What was the sequence of events with you guys? Who's idea was it? Did it take a long time to convince the other to try it? You shouldn't have to try to convince anyone into swinging, not should she have to make you a happens as per your comment above. If she says no, that's it, point blank, trying to convince her would only do more harm than good, how would you ever know whether she actually wants to for herself or only doing it to please you. I'd be honest with her, tell her you've done it in the past and enjoyed it and see what she says but as I say, if she's not interested do not push it, if she is, perhaps try a club." Should say make you a happy man in the first paragraph | |||
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"Cool. Just try and develop things slowly then I guess. Patience must be the thing. " lol...who are you responding to? the general consensus is to either show her your profile, or ask her outright what she thinks about it? be prepared for her to become an ex girlfriend though  | |||
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"Agreed, I'll be either coming off or hiding my profile soon as I'll be concentrating on her for a while" Definitely hide for a bit get to know her and then judge whether you think she would be up for it | |||
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"We are only just starting out. Honestly she's gorgeous and would be very popular" Sounds like you are trying to pimp her out. | |||
"We are only just starting out. Honestly she's gorgeous and would be very popular Sounds like you are trying to pimp her out. " Aw, that's not fair, you are only making an assumption and do not know if your statement is true. OP, - as suggested, explore the 3some thing, - keep doing lots of sex, then she knows it's important to you, hopefully equally as important to her, and this strenghtens a relationship built on a lot of sex, - explore (more?) porn together, right pace, right time, and be sensitive to what turns her on, this will be you opening to introduce kinkier ideas, and voila, swinging happened to be one of your suggestions! - an alternative to porn can be you talking her through various scenarios for the same purpose. Good luck, and hopefully happy swinging too! | |||
"That would be a real shame, I'm hoping that she wants to make me a happy man! " Are you not wanting to make her a happy woman?  | |||
"What suggestions have you guys got to get your girl into the swinging scene? " How about.... go on the Jeremy Kyle show with the header.... My woman will not sleep with other people, how do I convince her ?? radical idea?? | |||
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"We are only just starting out. Honestly she's gorgeous and would be very popular Sounds like you are trying to pimp her out. Aw, that's not fair, you are only making an assumption and do not know if your statement is true. OP, - as suggested, explore the 3some thing, - keep doing lots of sex, then she knows it's important to you, hopefully equally as important to her, and this strenghtens a relationship built on a lot of sex, - explore (more?) porn together, right pace, right time, and be sensitive to what turns her on, this will be you opening to introduce kinkier ideas, and voila, swinging happened to be one of your suggestions! - an alternative to porn can be you talking her through various scenarios for the same purpose. Good luck, and hopefully happy swinging too!" I agree...it's how I (female) got into it..lots of sex with my OH, open dialogue, ideas, fantasises, letting me think about things, porn...does this turn you on...Sharing things... then saying if could be real...Yes that's when it hit me it could be made real...so was given the username and password for here so I could talk to people and tip my toe in, see how others felt and ask those silly questions.... Talk, open and honest. It's been refreshing feeling open...vulnerable at times...but share. | |||
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"First of all tell her that you are using fab as she can see how long you been here without her knowledge." Don't you need some... | |||
"Try a headlock whilst telling her she belongs to you and she will swing " | |||
"What suggestions have you guys got to get your girl into the swinging scene? " Talk to her, it may surprise you but women are as randy if not more randy than men. However be aware that women often want more from a partner than men do. That does not mean that some don’t like the idea of having other partners just that they often approach it in a different way. It all comes back to talking to her and seeing what you both agree with. You may be surprised and find she enjoys swinging with others but you get jealous the first time she has another man pay her any attention. | |||
"What suggestions have you guys got to get your girl into the swinging scene? " Invite me over I will chat her up work out a time with you that you won't be there and we can somehow arrange a need for me to be there while you are away. I will do my level best to fuck your girl, I suggest that three quarters of the way through plowing your girls pussy you come back early, pretend to be shocked then quickly pop your cock out and start wanking as I fuck her. If she doesn't notice you, after a while I will whisper to her that you came back a while ago and you are now stroking to my strokes inside her. | |||
"What suggestions have you guys got to get your girl into the swinging scene? Invite me over I will chat her up work out a time with you that you won't be there and we can somehow arrange a need for me to be there while you are away. I will do my level best to fuck your girl, I suggest that three quarters of the way through plowing your girls pussy you come back early, pretend to be shocked then quickly pop your cock out and start wanking as I fuck her. If she doesn't notice you, after a while I will whisper to her that you came back a while ago and you are now stroking to my strokes inside her. " This is LEGENDARY...  | |||
"What suggestions have you guys got to get your girl into the swinging scene? Invite me over I will chat her up work out a time with you that you won't be there and we can somehow arrange a need for me to be there while you are away. I will do my level best to fuck your girl, I suggest that three quarters of the way through plowing your girls pussy you come back early, pretend to be shocked then quickly pop your cock out and start wanking as I fuck her. If she doesn't notice you, after a while I will whisper to her that you came back a while ago and you are now stroking to my strokes inside her. This is LEGENDARY... "Thanks | |||
