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Feeling alone at Christmas
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !
Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Just me and the cat here as well, I actually love it on my own.
I have heaps of food and drink in. I can get up when I want, eat what and when I want, watch what I want, so my best advise is to try and enjoy it, it's not the end of the world being on your on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just me and the cat here as well, I actually love it on my own.
I have heaps of food and drink in. I can get up when I want, eat what and when I want, watch what I want, so my best advise is to try and enjoy it, it's not the end of the world being on your on "
can i cum doon ur chimney?  |
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"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !
Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"
Ur more than welcome to join us x we are alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well strictly speaking I wont be on my own cos I'll be with family for the 3rd year in a row. But I do miss waking up to somebody special on Christmas day and spoiling them. But hey ho. The rest of the year I enjoy being single. X |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Just me and the cat here as well, I actually love it on my own.
I have heaps of food and drink in. I can get up when I want, eat what and when I want, watch what I want, so my best advise is to try and enjoy it, it's not the end of the world being on your on
can i cum doon ur chimney? "
As long as you don't make a mess  |
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"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !
Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"
Be glad you still have your children? Even if they arent with u |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a good few Christmas days alone. Tips…think of what you have got rather than what you haven't, find a good film and get lost in it and think of all the trouble you can get yourself into in 2015! xx |
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had last year alone....was excellent...get a day pass to local marriott hotel and go for a swim in morning sauna n jaccuzzi also...plenty of people to chat to. then take a drink in the bar followed by another swim in afternoon!! excellent day and people so friendly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its our first xmas without kids in over 20 yrs and the mrs is finding it very strange and too quiet. i'm sure we will get used to it though and make our own entertainment   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shame we are not nearer - I am not alone but an hour or two out is always welcomed for the right person.
You have a restful, quiet and well-earned day.
Lots of festive hugs
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I've had many a Christmas alone. Even with friends I still feel alone. All I try to remember is its just one day and be positive which isn't easy. I'm not in work. I got myself gifts. 
I feel better already!
I hope everyone has a good day.
LOL Paul x (for the ladies, manly hug for gents!) |
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"Go and volunteer at your local homeless shelter and see them smile when you give them a hot meal and a bed for night. That will leave you feeling very full filling "
That's a great idea but remember it's not just Xmas day they need volunteers
Crisis run Day and residential centres in various locations all over the holiday period and are always looking for help |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !
Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"
Aww if you get bored, message me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well so far so good.
I decided to go to work for a few hours this morning, I was dreading the morning the most, now I'm home, nice hot bath with my smelly's and candles
(Christmas present) then a little tipple and some lunch without the prospect of all that washing up lol
Merry Chrismas everyone xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well so far so good.
I decided to go to work for a few hours this morning, I was dreading the morning the most, now I'm home, nice hot bath with my smelly's and candles
(Christmas present) then a little tipple and some lunch without the prospect of all that washing up lol
Merry Christmas everyone xxx"
Yay... Good plan...!!
You could always go to the Love Honey sale and indulge yourself..... |
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"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !
Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"
I'm havung my first Christmas alone but a friend of mine has been kind enough to invite me to share the day with her at her parents |
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By *il_MissBMFCWoman
over a year ago
Various Venues Across The UK |
It's just another day.. Just celebrating the fact that I'm lucky enough to be in good health, have a roof over my head and food and drink in the fridge..
Here if anybody needs to chat.. And Merry Christmas to you all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should have bought a cat or dog longtime ago as work keeps me away from family for Xmas.Eating alone very boring and drinking alone gets u d*unk easily.just keeping happy tho,chilling on few drinks,movie and lots of calls. |
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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago
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"Should have bought a cat or dog longtime ago as work keeps me away from family for Xmas.Eating alone very boring and drinking alone gets u d*unk easily.just keeping happy tho,chilling on few drinks,movie and lots of calls. "
I know the feeling saw my kids this morning now on my own with a glass of wine maybe next year we should arrange a social and all have some fun |
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Being alone for the holidays are bad, i do not have kids but even when surrounded by people can still feel alone. if anyone in Notts and fancy a drink to not be alone send a message cheer each other up around this season x |
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