Any guys had a meet after getting nowhere for years? Were you able to perform without it being a bit embarrassing? It's been 8 years since I had a meet and I'm thinking the longer it goes on the less I'd be any good if I did ever get a meet again(though it doesn't look likely). |
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"Get yourself signed up to the socials that are local to yourself. They are great for getting to know new people "
Getting to know people slowly could allow you to take things at the right pace for you, with reduced pressure. You'll be able to be selectivez for the right type of partners. It's not a very bad idea to get involved in the type of group activities that others suggested too.
Otherwise, follow ideas and tips for single men who post in the forum who are struggling to market themselves |
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Location is a huge factor too, the Midlands, London etc have massive concentrations of people, lots of clubs, which increases opportunity. Inverness is relatively far from population density. It's really not you, just a numbers game. |
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"Location is a huge factor too, the Midlands, London etc have massive concentrations of people, lots of clubs, which increases opportunity. Inverness is relatively far from population density. It's really not you, just a numbers game."
Green arrow suggests it.may not just be a numbers game. OP regularly posts about being years without a meet. This in itself is unattractive.
On a general note there are some people who will never get a meet or interaction on here for many reasons. |
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"Location is a huge factor too, the Midlands, London etc have massive concentrations of people, lots of clubs, which increases opportunity. Inverness is relatively far from population density. It's really not you, just a numbers game.
Green arrow suggests it.may not just be a numbers game. OP regularly posts about being years without a meet. This in itself is unattractive.
On a general note there are some people who will never get a meet or interaction on here for many reasons."
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