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How can I improve my chances on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help?  |
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I often think someone who’s ‘been here before’ and deleted their profile are not going to be the most reliable person. Could be that potential time waster that you mention on your profile.
It may seem like a good idea to point it out, but for me it could indicate you’d go UNLOS at any minute.
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You have to sell yourself, so that we can know if you could be the very one that's got much or all of what we need. Less of what you want and more of what you have to offer 
Even a few more diverse pics could add appear too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On your profile it says you can’t accommodate but in your biog you say you can. You might want to change it to whatever is right.
Also lack of decent pics. Three out of five are of your dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to look at these posts and then check back in a week or so to see if any advice is utilised.
It rarely is.
But anyway…
3 out of 5 pics are of your dick.
Not displaying any verifications.
Been here before ….yawn.
No imagination in your bio so nothing at all to make you stand out.
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"We like to look at these posts and then check back in a week or so to see if any advice is utilised.
It rarely is.
But anyway…
3 out of 5 pics are of your dick.
Not displaying any verifications.
Been here before ….yawn.
No imagination in your bio so nothing at all to make you stand out.
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This is an utter bible. Follow it. |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? not being funny but no we can't help ,it's your online interpretation of you and going by previous posts of the same ilk you will probably get the hump if any suggestions are made that you don't like .we got no views and no messages today and we are what most other couple's are probably looking for so what chance do you think you have as a stereotypical single man with a poor profile have ? Bit d*unk sorry to sound abrupt . Best of luck and be patient dan "
You got a view from me and added to my hotlist. I won’t message because I see you are not looking for single men.
Good luck with your search |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
the middle somewhere |
"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? not being funny but no we can't help ,it's your online interpretation of you and going by previous posts of the same ilk you will probably get the hump if any suggestions are made that you don't like .we got no views and no messages today and we are what most other couple's are probably looking for so what chance do you think you have as a stereotypical single man with a poor profile have ? Bit d*unk sorry to sound abrupt . Best of luck and be patient dan
You got a view from me and added to my hotlist. I won’t message because I see you are not looking for single men.
Good luck with your search ahh thanks buddy ,i don't think we have been on a hotlist before  "
I’m sure you are on many. They just don’t normally tell you you are on it |
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? "
I'm just wondering of what benifit does saying "been here before" have? |
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Even if your profile was exciting and engaging and you had some good photos, demanding a face picture with a first message would mean that you'd never get a first message. That's my opinion anyway.
Your profile is 'lacklustre' at best
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? "
If you were successful before then why not do whatever you did before? |
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"....TIME WASTERS.
had too many of these on my previous profile hence why I deleted it..."
Instead of blocking them, you deleted your profile? Sorry, but when we see guys with "been here before" we immediately think that either their wife/partner found out or they were booted off the site for bad behaviour.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if your profile was exciting and engaging and you had some good photos, demanding a face picture with a first message would mean that you'd never get a first message. That's my opinion anyway.
Your profile is 'lacklustre' at best
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Considering your own profile and how you've written it this reply is so hipariously contradicting |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Well as for ideas their are plenty.
These are from previous users whom asked similar to yourself.their are piles of threads with helpful advice if you care to explore this tool. knowledge is the key |
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"Even if your profile was exciting and engaging and you had some good photos, demanding a face picture with a first message would mean that you'd never get a first message. That's my opinion anyway.
Your profile is 'lacklustre' at best
Considering your own profile and how you've written it this reply is so hipariously contradicting "
Thanks for your feedback  But, I seem to be doing OK thank you.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if your profile was exciting and engaging and you had some good photos, demanding a face picture with a first message would mean that you'd never get a first message. That's my opinion anyway.
Your profile is 'lacklustre' at best
Considering your own profile and how you've written it this reply is so hipariously contradicting
Thanks for your feedback But, I seem to be doing OK thank you.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend. "
A woman with no pictures at all and a face like Alan Sugar would do OK on here. Its a sex site with men vastly outnumbering men. Doesn't take away your reply to OP was a bit stupid
Cheers for the passive aggressive reply though |
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? "
Probably allow people to read your profile...  |
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? "
you've had more success than I ever have(or will) so I don't think you need any advice. Most guys on here get nothing,or a one in a million chance meet,so you have hadore than most. |
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By *longMan
over a year ago
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So ask someone who's been on fab before also but with a couples profile. I understand the difference when you're on as a single as I am now So over then messaging. The only meat I have had on here in the time I've been on is at a club or event. Shall I say in which I met two people? Shortly after that I started getting winks and messages off others, both couples and singles. However, they often dissolve into nothing for whatever reason. I'm still not quite sure why I started thinking it may be me so I have been reading all of the comments on thread and I am still not enlightened. All I can see is talk to people build a rapport and if you're talking to couples and single ladies, especially they need to feel that you will respect their boundaries and be respectful as at the end of the day, inviting the mail into their home or bedroom even is potentially dangerous. It's just a case of letting people know you understand the respect it |
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"So I've updated my profile who wants to proofread and provide constructive criticism?"
Best to start your own thread with your own profile review request - not good to jump on someone else's.
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"Even if your profile was exciting and engaging and you had some good photos, demanding a face picture with a first message would mean that you'd never get a first message. That's my opinion anyway.
Your profile is 'lacklustre' at best
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I aspire to lacklustre  |
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I did recently read that the most successful people (in general) are those who are prepared to do the things which others won’t, to improve.
I buy this but wouldn’t even try and suggest how to apply it to swinging and fab  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I did recently read that the most successful people (in general) are those who are prepared to do the things which others won’t, to improve.
I buy this but wouldn’t even try and suggest how to apply it to swinging and fab "
The most successful people are those whom respect, able to strike up a decent conversation find similar interests in common and attractiveness as well as a trusting bond |
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? "
Are you a person or a cock get normal pictures not just dick pick only have one which you send if asked. Be natural not just a dick who happens to be a person as to a person who has a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not looking to bone my way through fab (even if I were, I'd be highly disappointed), but I'd like to have some more positive experiences which for me are good few and far between. I've met with single females, couples, and attended parties in the past with only positive things to say, and I'd like more of that, but I've run out of ideas on what to do. Can anyone help? "
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It’s hard work on here private party’s are better then clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More of the same for me, dick pics are ten a penny, I have them but in my friends only. There's more to fab than getting your cock out immediately. Verifications are there for a reason, mine are on display to afirm that I am active socially, at clubs and of course for meets. At least that way people know you are on the scene for every aspect of the lifestyle and not just out to get your end away so to speak. For me the social side of things is just as important as the playing. |
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