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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think being in fab and being part of the lifestyle Def makes you not vanilla.
Not being into BDSM would suggest that your not into kink, though not all kink is BDSM mind!
Either way... Don't worry about the labels and just enjoy yourselves! |
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By *dmanet OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I think being in fab and being part of the lifestyle Def makes you not vanilla.
Not being into BDSM would suggest that your not into kink, though not all kink is BDSM mind!
Either way... Don't worry about the labels and just enjoy yourselves!"
Appreciate the response!
I suppose it comes down to communication and knowing what each person/couple mean by kinky fun!
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By *dmanet OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I got called vanilla all because I won’t give or receive rimming
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Sounds a bit excessive! We are just trying to find our way through the grey area between lights off military missionary and being hung from the ceiling via electrified nipple clamps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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vanilla To me in ur normal sex ie one on one sex normal oral sex
None vanilla sex to me is dirty sex that you really wouldn’t want to tell anyone about you know take 2-3 guys in a day or spitroat watersports bdsm and uther kinks xx |
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By *dmanet OP Couple
over a year ago
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"vanilla To me in ur normal sex ie one on one sex normal oral sex
None vanilla sex to me is dirty sex that you really wouldn’t want to tell anyone about you know take 2-3 guys in a day or spitroat watersports bdsm and uther kinks xx"
Fair de-lineation |
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For us, vanilla is one on one 'normal sex' with very few kinks etc.
Non vanilla is being on here but levels of non vanilla are scalable because everyone has different kinks and desires and comfort levels. Dont stress too much about what others say or think. The most important thing is to enjoy it and make sure you find a couple or person that is into what you are and respects your limits. |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
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"Would appreciate any insight as to what constitutes "Vanilla" in the context of this community.
We are not into BDSM, so does that immediately put us into the Vanilla category? "
If your into swinging then your not vanilla. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different people have different definitions of the term, as stated if you’re on here I wouldn’t class you as vanilla, there are many levels of kink, fetishism, find what your happy with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got called vanilla all because I won’t give or receive rimming
Sounds a bit excessive! We are just trying to find our way through the grey area between lights off military missionary and being hung from the ceiling via electrified nipple clamps "
I’m still laughing out loud for reading this last bit  |
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