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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If legalised I'd have no problem but the 1s seem to be full of foreign sex slaves are just shocking!"
This.
If you're happy having sex with...sorry, let me rephrase that r@ping a woman and paying for the privilege then go knock yourself out.
No issue with a guy seeing a woman who is genuinely working for herself though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously sex slaves is a big issue, but was meaning if the woman was there on their own behalf and not forced, 100% against the foreign sex slaves trade. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously sex slaves is a big issue, but was meaning if the woman was there on their own behalf and not forced, 100% against the foreign sex slaves trade."
Don't know of any. Maybe someone who does will drop a pm  |
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It's the oldest profession in the world, has always and will always be around so might as well legalise it to keep everyone clean, safe and off the streets, given regular checks in a secure and monitored location. As for the slaves doing it against their will, I don't know much about that but I'm guessing this also has always and will always happen but with brothels being legal wouldn't that put an end or at least severely impact the trade? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If legalised I'd have no problem but the 1s seem to be full of foreign sex slaves are just shocking!
This.
If you're happy having sex with...sorry, let me rephrase that r@ping a woman and paying for the privilege then go knock yourself out.
No issue with a guy seeing a woman who is genuinely working for herself though. "
Most women who resort to selling sex are probably being exploited in some way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If legalised I'd have no problem but the 1s seem to be full of foreign sex slaves are just shocking!
This.
If you're happy having sex with...sorry, let me rephrase that r@ping a woman and paying for the privilege then go knock yourself out.
No issue with a guy seeing a woman who is genuinely working for herself though.
Most women who resort to selling sex are probably being exploited in some way "
Possibly but I still believe some women choose this as a profession and as abhorrent as the idea is to me, I would support their right to do so. |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
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Long time ago I ended up in a brothel just outside Alicante.
....I was so pished I was on my 3rd pint (and umpteenth of the night) in the place before I realised the nice polish lassie didnt actually fancy me and short fat bald Scottish wasnt her type unless in came with euros.
Anyway great pint and she turned out to be not a bad laugh until some spanish guy took her for business.
Dont think the locals could understand though that in Scotland its acceptable to go to a brothel for drink as it's the only thing opened.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t know about brothels but a few escorts but the difference in price is immense, women in brothels are basically trafficked or otherwise been taken advantage of so it’s semi inexpensive, alongside working girls in the streets who age often homeless/addicts/trafficked in comparison to escorts who generally charge in excess of £100 and they prefer to come
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"I'd be fine if they opened one in Dalkeith high street & it was reasonably priced 
This makes me cringe. It's not a 2nd hand car!"
Apologies for my rather poorly judged humour no offence intended! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say most but wouldn't say all prostitutes have drug problems...junior lawyers and doctors have paid their way through university doing escort work iv read. |
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I had a talk with a charity that protects people that end up in modern day slavery yesterday, and yes it’s in every city and brothels in scotland, the network is huge and very hard to escape from
The chances are you would visit a prostitute and have no idea that her passport was being kept, or she had not been outside her house in months or years they are forced to appear happy and sexually provocative or they will be beaten
The money you give is going into a gangs hands and she will be lucky just to have a decent meal but she will not be running away, she will be scared for her life and life of her family as these are mafia types
Many think they are going to be a nanny or a cleaner and end up faced with the most terrible life. Some are literally snatched of a street.
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"100% against the foreign sex slaves trade."
As you have made the effort to define a category of sex slave trade that you are against as "foreign", you are fine with the non-foreign sex slave trade ? Give me strength....
Just when I though fabsters couldn't surprise me any more ! |
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a few thoughts
legalise it . if you look at europe cities where it is legal there is a lower rate of some sex crimes against females and males.
it serves a purpose -example - if some one has a disability a prostitutes can make them feel wanted.
health checks is standard in the porn industry and if you dont pass you dont work - same should be for working girls or guys. |
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There does seem to be an assumption that most sex workers are forced into it which is an uncomfortable thought but I did wonder if that's the case.. tabloids do run the odd story about medical students & other graduates who worked in the sex industry to fund education. Not saying that's right just wondered what the stats really were on numbers who are slaves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There does seem to be an assumption that most sex workers are forced into it which is an uncomfortable thought but I did wonder if that's the case.. "
There's a wealth of research that supports the assumption |
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By (user no longer on site)
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While there's no doubt there are people doing it against their will or because they have problems.
There are also others who do it for very different reasons,they aren't forced, they choose and they do rather well from it . They have ordinary lives and it's a lucrative hobby. Just as these same types of people sell used underwear, or offer phone or text chat services. It happens all the time on here.
I can see why men and women use their services too. And actually looking at some of the emails I receive on here there's an assumption from some men that women on here are effectively free escorts the way we are spoken to and approached. |
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On a personal level Ive never used a brothel, I wouldn't want to pay for it but that's because I find part of the fun being that the other person actually wants you to be doing things with them. I would find the whole thing a bit robotic knowing she was only doing it for the cash. I had no idea so much people used them etc. |
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I agree with it being legalised too but you can still have the possibility of having trafficking in that too, it’s the biggest money maker trafficking makes so they will work around any obstacles I’d imagine
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"If legalised I'd have no problem but the 1s seem to be full of foreign sex slaves are just shocking!"
Very true.Using certain brothels is just feeding the people traffickers.Not all brothels are like that but you dont know which ones are. If they are full of foreign girls then the chances are they are not there of their own choice. |
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"if you want a hooker
try adult work some even do call outs"
From the independent
The inquiry found that organised crime groups typically advertise women to sex buyers on commercial websites such as Vivastreet or Adultwork, with one man being investigated for sex trafficking spending over £20,000 placing adverts of women on one commercial website
These people will use those sites too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it serves a purpose -example - if some one has a disability a prostitutes can make them feel wanted".
I have a disability. A prostitute wouldn't make me feel wanted. Quite the opposite. This is an assumption an many in society have that disabled men in particular, have to use prostitutes. This idea so badly needs eradicated. Most of a prostitutes clientele will be physical fit males. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If legalised I'd have no problem but the 1s seem to be full of foreign sex slaves are just shocking!"
Was at an aftershow party in Budapest a few weeks ago, lock in bar and two russian girls milling about latching on to folk. Off their tits on drugs and clearly miserable. One just sat in a corner. Undoubtedly trafficked. Sad to see.
Agree with legalisation, control and safety measure put in place so the girls (or I guess guys should things get to that) are safe. For some folks it would be a good living, under the right circumstances. |
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""it serves a purpose -example - if some one has a disability a prostitutes can make them feel wanted".
I have a disability. A prostitute wouldn't make me feel wanted. Quite the opposite. This is an assumption an many in society have that disabled men in particular, have to use prostitutes. This idea so badly needs eradicated. Most of a prostitutes clientele will be physical fit males."
that was just one example there are lots of others .
and yes most clients of prostitutes are fit males but if you look at the percentage of disabled to able bodies males the the percentage is low so most of their clients will be able bodied. there are lots of disabilities out there and i dont know what your is but ( im not prying) to feel needed or wanted to some is a big thing , it might not be for you but it is for others |
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"If legalised I'd have no problem but the 1s seem to be full of foreign sex slaves are just shocking!
This.
If you're happy having sex with...sorry, let me rephrase that r@ping a woman and paying for the privilege then go knock yourself out.
No issue with a guy seeing a woman who is genuinely working for herself though. "
that's a little unfair how would a customer know the difference unless the person explained all.
Not something I'd ever use but these services would be good for all manner of people. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"While there's no doubt there are people doing it against their will or because they have problems.
There are also others who do it for very different reasons,they aren't forced, they choose and they do rather well from it . They have ordinary lives and it's a lucrative hobby. Just as these same types of people sell used underwear, or offer phone or text chat services. It happens all the time on here.
I can see why men and women use their services too. And actually looking at some of the emails I receive on here there's an assumption from some men that women on here are effectively free escorts the way we are spoken to and approached. "
Yes definitely agree with you. I’ve had messages late at at night as if this is sex on tap! I’m not far from the airport and will regularly get messages saying they have a hotel room and they expect me to just go over and see them! There’s no respect from some people. |
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Not my thing to be honest, totally agree regarding the comments about a lot of brothels being sex trafficking etc. Even if it turned out not to be the case with the women in that specific brothel my conscience would still kick in.
I also understand the comments if it's a profession that the woman /man has willingly entered into then that's their right and I agree with that, it should be their right to do as they wish but again from my side I'd feel very uncomfortable paying someone to have sex with me. |
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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago
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If I am having sex with someone I want that person to want to have sex with me. It would not feel the same if they didn't and were only doing it for the money. personally I would rather have a wank. |
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