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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What Do You Really Want From Fab?
When you joined fab was it out of curiosity or with the intention to have sex or fun, chats, banter, meet people, make friends relationships, socials etc...
There is a lot going on and fab has changed over the years but a lot of people who have been on a while, I think, become more hardened with the hassle n drama and learn from it and just never rush.
I know I don't rush, more keen to take my time, find out about the person before I take it further whether out of trust or just unsure. I'm more into meeting, socials, house parties and getting on, having a right good laugh and banter and if fun happens then great.
So what do most of you think your views of originally joining and then what you think now after experiencing fab
Lets hope if there is relies that most are positive 
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"What Do You Really Want From Fab?
When you joined fab was it out of curiosity or with the intention to have sex or fun, chats, banter, meet people, make friends relationships, socials etc...
There is a lot going on and fab has changed over the years but a lot of people who have been on a while, I think, become more hardened with the hassle n drama and learn from it and just never rush.
I know I don't rush, more keen to take my time, find out about the person before I take it further whether out of trust or just unsure. I'm more into meeting, socials, house parties and getting on, having a right good laugh and banter and if fun happens then great.
So what do most of you think your views of originally joining and then what you think now after experiencing fab
Lets hope if there is relies that most are positive
XxX peter "
Sex!
I had no idea away back then what else it could lead to but enjoying the experiences Ive had.
As for drama well a saying I like is beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from it and thats so true |
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"What Do You Really Want From Fab?
When you joined fab was it out of curiosity or with the intention to have sex or fun, chats, banter, meet people, make friends relationships, socials etc...
There is a lot going on and fab has changed over the years but a lot of people who have been on a while, I think, become more hardened with the hassle n drama and learn from it and just never rush.
I know I don't rush, more keen to take my time, find out about the person before I take it further whether out of trust or just unsure. I'm more into meeting, socials, house parties and getting on, having a right good laugh and banter and if fun happens then great.
So what do most of you think your views of originally joining and then what you think now after experiencing fab
Lets hope if there is relies that most are positive
XxX peter "
When i started out on Fab i though it was going to be lots of fun.....i was right.  |
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I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol
Want I want, what I really really want from Fab  changes from one week to the next to be honest.
Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...
What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.
Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.
Hope this makes a little sense |
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I started going to swingers clubs months before joining Fab. Refused point blank to join a sex site as it scared the life out of me if im honest. Why did i join?. The answer is simple. I get lonely sometimes. I dont mind being alone but feeling lonely is different. Fab has been good for me in many ways. I have had some great meets which by far out weigh the bad ones. I have met some fantastic folk who have helped me find my old self again as she kinda got lost many years ago. I have regained my confidence and definately got that twinkle back in my eyes. The only thing i dont like is having to turn down so many lovely gentleman as it leaves me feeling like a right bitch. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol
Want I want, what I really really want from Fab changes from one week to the next to be honest.
Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...
What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.
Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.
Hope this makes a little sense "
yeah it makes sense as we are all different its just good to know what you though when first joining and seeing if you think the same now.
Fuck, all I've mentioned above is brill but connecting with someone, and intense sex, staying with them overnight and having fun in the morning.
Even attitude to sex on here is variable from person to person.
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"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol
Want I want, what I really really want from Fab changes from one week to the next to be honest.
Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...
What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.
Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.
Hope this makes a little sense
yeah it makes sense as we are all different its just good to know what you though when first joining and seeing if you think the same now.
Fuck, all I've mentioned above is brill but connecting with someone, and intense sex, staying with them overnight and having fun in the morning.
Even attitude to sex on here is variable from person to person.
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Going with the flow is always good
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I never had any expectations when I joined.
What I have found is a place to discuss various topics, some even related to sex. I’ve met some lovely people over the years, had some great experiences and made some great friends.
I enjoy the social side as well as having a lot of fun and discovering my kinky and bi side. For me it’s been a journey of discovery and still more fun to be had. |
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"I never had any expectations when I joined.
What I have found is a place to discuss various topics, some even related to sex. I’ve met some lovely people over the years, had some great experiences and made some great friends.
I enjoy the social side as well as having a lot of fun and discovering my kinky and bi side. For me it’s been a journey of discovery and still more fun to be had. "
Put more eloquently than I tried to say it ..but this is what I meant ha |
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"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol
Want I want, what I really really want from Fab changes from one week to the next to be honest.
Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...
What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.
Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.
Hope this makes a little sense "
Its a ladies prerogative to change her mind . ( some do it to often though ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy the social side, going to cjs and of course the sex. Some of it much better than others  but from previous encounters i love the house parties where you can let your hair down and have fun and in meeting regular people you can have a right good time with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started using fab after our first night at cjs to keep in touch with people we had met. After a few months we find that we are using the site differently. Still use it to keep in touch and meet new people who we will meet up with at club but find ourselves more and more enjoying the interaction on the forums and now looking at socials that we never would have before. |
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"Someone reliable would be awesome
Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x"
I’m perhaps lucky but I have only had a one no show - and i do think his reason was genuinely |
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"Someone reliable would be awesome
Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x
I’m perhaps lucky but I have only had a one no show - and i do think his reason was genuinely"
Yeah, think location is a bit of an issue for me. Don't understand why they would say they're coming over then, they can just say I'm too far away x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was swinging before I found fab! To be honest Iv had great experiences on other sites just as much as on fab but it’s all been a bit quieter over the last few year as all the sites have changed. It was all new and exciting years ago but I don’t find it as exciting anymore. I’m now here to socialise with friends and maybe find a little play group |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first time I joined was to only really meet couples I enjoy the feeling of being with 2 people.
This time Ive had different experiences...at the moment I’m happy just talking nonsense in the forums. Xx |
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"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol
Want I want, what I really really want from Fab changes from one week to the next to be honest.
Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...
What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.
Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.
Hope this makes a little sense
Its a ladies prerogative to change her mind . ( some do it to often though ) "
But my doing so does not affect anyone else on here Steph |
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Been on fab under a year, still no idea what we are looking for but enjoying the journey we have also met some amazing people who have become good friends and also been to some amazing socials and road trips thank you to all the people who put in the time and effort to organise them for us this is what makes FAB much love KareBares xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To explore a side of me id never thought was there anal fun
To have nsa fun and good relaxed times
To help others wanting to experiment or try a new scene or even build their confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot! "
no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot!
no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke "
I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.
And of course I want you.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot!
no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke
I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.
And of course I want you. "
can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"
At least I'd be good fur summit
lollll
xx peter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot!
no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke
I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.
And of course I want you.
can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"
At least I'd be good fur summit
lollll
xx peter "
That's how all my meets go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot!
no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke
I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.
And of course I want you.
can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"
At least I'd be good fur summit
lollll
xx peter
That's how all my meets go "
ffs, I just spat my tea out all over the place there
lollllllll  |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot! "
As long as your getting from Fab what you want thats all that matters. Unusual reasons to be here but each to their own. |
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot! "
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
Actually, nothing. I suppose I stick around out of habit more than anything.
I don't think I've ever really used fab in the way it was intended, however over the years I've met some great people, had some fun experiences and even made friends. .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot!
no wonder you don't want me, ma lawnmower is broke
I provide the lawn mower. I'm not THAT needy.
And of course I want you.
can just imagining turning up at yours all excited and aroused then you open the door, hand me a paint brush and tin o paint and then you say "right Horsey, get painting"
At least I'd be good fur summit
lollll
xx peter
That's how all my meets go
ffs, I just spat my tea out all over the place there
lollllllll "
Want me to pop over clean up the mess? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x"
Two ducks in a pond being fed but a guy at the side and one duck says to the other duck 'Quack!!' 'Quack!' and then the other duck looks at duck and says "gonny shut the fuck up, I'm trying to see wit this tube is feeding me'.
Ok, sorry I'll get my coat, then I walks away over the sunset with ma cock dragging on the ground behind me
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"I joined Fab looking to supplement my income, be sexually harassed and verbally abused on a daily basis, to find someone to cut my grass and carry out other odd jobs and for someone to taxi me home from d*unken nights out in town.
It's been a fucking hoot! "
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"I started going to swingers clubs months before joining Fab. Refused point blank to join a sex site as it scared the life out of me if im honest. Why did i join?. The answer is simple. I get lonely sometimes. I dont mind being alone but feeling lonely is different. Fab has been good for me in many ways. I have had some great meets which by far out weigh the bad ones. I have met some fantastic folk who have helped me find my old self again as she kinda got lost many years ago. I have regained my confidence and definately got that twinkle back in my eyes. The only thing i dont like is having to turn down so many lovely gentleman as it leaves me feeling like a right bitch."
We'll stop turning me down then and you won't feel such a bitch. |
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"The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x
Two ducks in a pond being fed but a guy at the side and one duck says to the other duck 'Quack!!' 'Quack!' and then the other duck looks at duck and says "gonny shut the fuck up, I'm trying to see wit this tube is feeding me'.
Ok, sorry I'll get my coat, then I walks away over the sunset with ma cock dragging on the ground behind me
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Leave the ducks alone 6 pack  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The odd mmf with guys who are a good laugh x
Two ducks in a pond being fed but a guy at the side and one duck says to the other duck 'Quack!!' 'Quack!' and then the other duck looks at duck and says "gonny shut the fuck up, I'm trying to see wit this tube is feeding me'.
Ok, sorry I'll get my coat, then I walks away over the sunset with ma cock dragging on the ground behind me
Leave the ducks alone 6 pack "
ffs, I wasn't the one feeding them, honest |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.
Had a few meets then met a lady with mutual interests and had a 3 year relationship. Sadly, she took unwell, it finished, had a few more meets, then met another lady with whom I've had a relationship for over 4 years.
Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!! |
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We are the same we are looking for socials, fun laughter and to meet couples similar to ourselves. We keep ourselves to ourselves and dip in and out of fab (no pun intended) when we feel like it
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By *T1980Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Someone reliable would be awesome
Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x"
But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it
I cant believe you ever get a no show |
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"Someone reliable would be awesome
Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x
But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it
I cant believe you ever get a no show "
Lost count of the amount of no shows... And sometimes infuriates me to see another thread from a single male how they're not getting a meet after trying everything. They should try actually showing up.
Never comment on these posts though, just think it quietly in my head
But there we go!! It's out in the open now x |
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"Someone reliable would be awesome
Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x
But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it
I cant believe you ever get a no show
Lost count of the amount of no shows... And sometimes infuriates me to see another thread from a single male how they're not getting a meet after trying everything. They should try actually showing up.
Never comment on these posts though, just think it quietly in my head
But there we go!! It's out in the open now x"
Based purely on your profile and photos ,I would have to meet you 1st to decide if we clicked but if you ever visit my neck of the woods (Yes I know improbable but not impossible)I would take a days holiday to have a social meet with you and no stand you up Pringles |
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By *T1980Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Someone reliable would be awesome
Not saying there aren't any mind!! Met some amazing people through here. But they're few and far between compared to the no shows and time wasters x
But find the rights 'Reliable' ones and it makes it all worth it
I cant believe you ever get a no show
Lost count of the amount of no shows... And sometimes infuriates me to see another thread from a single male how they're not getting a meet after trying everything. They should try actually showing up.
Never comment on these posts though, just think it quietly in my head
But there we go!! It's out in the open now x"
As been probably said on here a million times, too many fakes and time wasters that give the rest of us guys a bad name.
I would never give you a no show if I was ever lucky enough to get the chance x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had done all the usual stuff ie clubs, socials, 1-1 fuck buddy etc and I joined to explore cuckolding
Here I am 12 years on and still looking. Had some amazing times along the way and have some still to come |
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As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.
I would like to find a more regular buddy, maybe meet a couple, go to more social stuff & parties.....keen to broaden my horizons and explore things I've never had the chance to. Only been on here about 6 months so plenty of time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.
I would like to find a more regular buddy, maybe meet a couple, go to more social stuff & parties.....keen to broaden my horizons and explore things I've never had the chance to. Only been on here about 6 months so plenty of time. "
Never any need to rush, just enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think in reality many see this site or even the lifestyle differently, which I suppose was expected. Some see it for sex, some for swinging, some to make friends and or network.
I personally don't see it as a sex site, if I did, then I wouldn't be here. To me, it's more swinging, meeting people having a laugh, chatting, socials, house parties and if they end in sexy fun then great n 1 on 1s, 3somes etc.
We all have expectations and on here they might change or stay the same but as long as we all have a great time and not hurt anyone along the way then it's all good
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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
We joined so i (honey) could lick pretty girls! My goal hasn’t really changed over the years we’ve been swinging. I have met so many amazing people (and some not so amazing) and found our so much about myself. When it ceases to amazing then I’d maybe think about stopping but we’re no where near that yet.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We joined so i (honey) could lick pretty girls! My goal hasn’t really changed over the years we’ve been swinging. I have met so many amazing people (and some not so amazing) and found our so much about myself. When it ceases to amazing then I’d maybe think about stopping but we’re no where near that yet. "
I have to admit over the years people whom I've met from couples to females, some becoming good friends have eventually left. Mostly because they tried the lifestyle n enjoyed it but felt it was time to leave after doing what they wanted to do.
Some singles including men, have met someone either on here or in normal life and decided to leave and get on with their own private life's. Of course many married ones had their enjoyment and then left to go back to their unsuspecting partner.
It's a lifestyle that we will all eventually leave it's only a matter of time but each of us will know when that time is right .
It would be great if everyone did get on and we did not come across bad experiences on here but we sometimes do and sometime do get the same in private life so just be adaptable and enjoy the genuine, lovely people who are on here when they come across your path.
That was my early morning sentiment so whose up fur fun.
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"We joined so i (honey) could lick pretty girls! My goal hasn’t really changed over the years we’ve been swinging. I have met so many amazing people (and some not so amazing) and found our so much about myself. When it ceases to amazing then I’d maybe think about stopping but we’re no where near that yet.
I have to admit over the years people whom I've met from couples to females, some becoming good friends have eventually left. Mostly because they tried the lifestyle n enjoyed it but felt it was time to leave after doing what they wanted to do.
Some singles including men, have met someone either on here or in normal life and decided to leave and get on with their own private life's. Of course many married ones had their enjoyment and then left to go back to their unsuspecting partner.
It's a lifestyle that we will all eventually leave it's only a matter of time but each of us will know when that time is right .
It would be great if everyone did get on and we did not come across bad experiences on here but we sometimes do and sometime do get the same in private life so just be adaptable and enjoy the genuine, lovely people who are on here when they come across your path.
That was my early morning sentiment so whose up fur fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have achieved most of my goals here:
Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!
Made a few wonderful new friends
Had some great social meets
Been to some outrageous parties!
And I have met a great new fb! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have achieved most of my goals here:
Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!
Made a few wonderful new friends
Had some great social meets
Been to some outrageous parties!
And I have met a great new fb!"
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Sounds like one happy, contented woman. Wooohooooo
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I joined fab for both the social and sexual aspects.
My work as a locum doesn't afford me the availability for something more long term, and as we all have our "needs", fab sounded perfect.
It's turned out to be everything I had hoped for and more. I've met some incredibly sexy people, have pushed my boundaries, and have found myself in settings I couldn't have dreamt of a mere two years ago.
Its definitely surprised me on how it has better refined what I like sexually and broadened the scope of women I find attractive.
Its also done away with any feelings of jealousy whatsoever. Don't think I can ever return to vanilla... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined fab for both the social and sexual aspects.
My work as a locum doesn't afford me the availability for something more long term, and as we all have our "needs", fab sounded perfect.
It's turned out to be everything I had hoped for and more. I've met some incredibly sexy people, have pushed my boundaries, and have found myself in settings I couldn't have dreamt of a mere two years ago.
Its definitely surprised me on how it has better refined what I like sexually and broadened the scope of women I find attractive.
Its also done away with any feelings of jealousy whatsoever. Don't think I can ever return to vanilla... "
Believe everything you say except return to vanilla life. It's a vanilla life once you leave here if you want to make it that way.
You will prob meet what we class as a vanilla person but they will gain your experience and you theirs and if you both want to be with each other than you wanting to swinging and the experiences will mean nothing other than an experience as you both just want to be together.
Don't I make that sound so lovely when were all ready to return to vanilla life.
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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Understanding that I can’t meet at the drop of a hat.
Most people are great but childcare issues, being a workaholic, and my primary babysitter being a chronically ill mother definitely means I have to carefully plan all meets and sometimes even then it fails spectacularly.
I keep telling myself fab probably isn’t for me (and I have kinda started seeing my pal - recipe for disaster) but I have met some lovely people here and love the social side so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some decent chat and banter works fine for me, always preferred a fwb to one night s_ands, and to build the courage up to attend one of these socials.
Explore myself a bit more as well haven’t ever really done the single thing and long term relationships seemed a bit “bland” in the end in experiences wise.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some decent chat and banter works fine for me, always preferred a fwb to one night s_ands, and to build the courage up to attend one of these socials.
Explore myself a bit more as well haven’t ever really done the single thing and long term relationships seemed a bit “bland” in the end in experiences wise.... "
The big socials are easy
Honest you'll have 100 to 200 peeps all swingers and just go up and introduce yourself and chat.
Every social I've been to I've went in single and alone and just chatted away and had a brilliant time.
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We joined just to see what was out there and had no expectations of what to expect.
Since joining have got chatting to a few lovely people and looking forward to arranging different meets.
Have met some lovely people at cjs as well so can keep in touch with them on here.
Like to see what people are posting on the forums as well.
Every new experience makes me more confident and excited about what could happen next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We joined just to see what was out there and had no expectations of what to expect.
Since joining have got chatting to a few lovely people and looking forward to arranging different meets.
Have met some lovely people at cjs as well so can keep in touch with them on here.
Like to see what people are posting on the forums as well.
Every new experience makes me more confident and excited about what could happen next "
You will be up and running in no time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have achieved most of my goals here:
Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!
Made a few wonderful new friends
Had some great social meets
Been to some outrageous parties!
And I have met a great new fb!.
Sounds like one happy, contented woman. Wooohooooo
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I think there are a great deal of people who have probably had the same as I have from fab tbh. I will say however that my experience of clubs is mixed but I don't go there determined to play anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't answer this question without writing a novella lol
Want I want, what I really really want from Fab changes from one week to the next to be honest.
Sometimes it is sex... usually something beyond that, a physical activity with someone you have chemistry with, allowing you to explore your sexuality, maybe a fantasy, maybe a role play, maybe push boundaries...
What I want varies with my mood, my need, the person I am attracted to.
Sometimes it is connecting with people socially.
Hope this makes a little sense "
Well said Max.... my thoughts exactly |
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"As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.
I would like to find a more regular buddy, maybe meet a couple, go to more social stuff & parties.....keen to broaden my horizons and explore things I've never had the chance to. Only been on here about 6 months so plenty of time.
Never any need to rush, just enjoy"
So Peter would you suggest going along to some socials is the way to go if i wanted to meet some couples ?
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"As i said on another thread, the site has been a great help on this new path I'm on. I honestly didn't know what to expect when i joined but it's been good up until now.
I would like to find a more regular buddy, maybe meet a couple, go to more social stuff & parties.....keen to broaden my horizons and explore things I've never had the chance to. Only been on here about 6 months so plenty of time.
Never any need to rush, just enjoy
So Peter would you suggest going along to some socials is the way to go if i wanted to meet some couples ?
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Socials are good way to get to know people, chat away, the forums on here, the chat rooms. there's also small socials and house parties that you might get invites too. There's so many ways. Also clubs like Cjs where people just go to chat, some go to play and some go to decide what they will do when they arrive, so relaxed atmosphere with like minded people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have achieved most of my goals here:
Indulged my wildest fantasies - well, almost!
Made a few wonderful new friends
Had some great social meets
Been to some outrageous parties!
And I have met a great new fb!.
Sounds like one happy, contented woman. Wooohooooo
I think there are a great deal of people who have probably had the same as I have from fab tbh. I will say however that my experience of clubs is mixed but I don't go there determined to play anyway."
I don't go to clubs but from all my friends who do, talk to me and I see it that a lot don't got determined to play. I get that a lot go out of curiosity, some to be socialable, chatting, making friends.
Some go for chat and possibly fun if the mood or person interests them and some go with the intention of having sex/sexyfun.
In each of these views there is nothing wrong with that. Each to their own.
I suppose my post started with peoples main view but to be honest to each of us it could open up a wider spectrum of what we want from clubs, socials, house parties, meets, one on ones, 3somes, gangbangs etc... any kind of relationship, what we want, what we done want, what we like, dislike.
It could be exhaustive, that's for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.
Had a few meets then met a lady with mutual interests and had a 3 year relationship. Sadly, she took unwell, it finished, had a few more meets, then met another lady with whom I've had a relationship for over 4 years.
Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!! "
Aye....ye certainly did get more than you bargained for cause it's FIVE YEARS!!!!!  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.
Had a few meets then met a lady with mutual interests and had a 3 year relationship. Sadly, she took unwell, it finished, had a few more meets, then met another lady with whom I've had a relationship for over 4 years.
Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!!
Aye....ye certainly did get more than you bargained for cause it's FIVE YEARS!!!!! "
Ehhh........do I know you?? |
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"Joined Fab after one of the exposes in the local press.
Had a few meets then met a lady with mutual interests and had a 3 year relationship. Sadly, she took unwell, it finished, had a few more meets, then met another lady with whom I've had a relationship for over 4 years.
Am I a swinger? Probably not, but hey ho!! Not sure what I was looking for, but certainly got more than I bargained for!!
Aye....ye certainly did get more than you bargained for cause it's FIVE YEARS!!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Started using fab after our first night at cjs to keep in touch with people we had met. After a few months we find that we are using the site differently. Still use it to keep in touch and meet new people who we will meet up with at club but find ourselves more and more enjoying the interaction on the forums and now looking at socials that we never would have before. "
Yeah I can see how that would happen.
I went to my first social a couple of years ago as all my friends on here wanted me to go and it was brilliant laugh and just so good to actually meet people face to face whom I only chat too and now have many people whom I can call friends.
I'm not meeting as much for fun now, different situations on here sometimes put me off but I am usually meeting for socials for good laughs and banter which is so enjoyable.
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