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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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my advice is......
chat in the room and get to know folks
say hi to all ..... and chat away and get to know folks....
dont hit on every couple or fem the sec they come in.....
dont expect sex within 20 mins.... yu might get some but unlikely...
be different..... stand out in someway
there are hundreds of single guys ..... so be different....
have pics ..... and not cock only ..... many dont like cock pics..... and a guy in pants is attractive lol .. trust me I look at em
be uber respectful to ladies..... treat them as such and not pieces of meat....
I watch everyday when lovely ladies on cam and the faceless wankers come in. and hassle them in whispers.. ask to whisper it is polite to do so....
if a lady is 'new' on the site...... dinna pounce like a pack of baying wolves.... welcome her to the site and let her settle in...... ffs, how scary can it be to have 20+ whispers for sex within a few mins of first entering. the room..
go to socials, lunches and meet folks socially....... they are ideal to get to be known ......
I personally dont write to couples/fems asking for meets .....
having been part of a couple on here, its a volume game with some guys.... they hit every new couple/fem wi same mail content, read every profile, digest information..... write message tailored around what couples/fems are looking for ( not what yu want) ....
and if they say no single guys.... ffs dont write to them .....
dont have a chip on yur shoulder as a single guy...... there are couples looking for single guys out there....
I watch one guy every day ....
he says 'hi , then yu have mail x'.....
then moves to next couple and says 'hi, then yu have mail x 'and guess what.... he moves to next couple and says 'hi..... lol .... yu have mail' x gives a desperate impression and disrectful in the extreme ....
.... expect to travel to meet folks.. many guys expect the fems/couples to travel to them... one guy asked mrs view and i to drive to largs from forfar, we had to book a hotel, and he would pop roond for an hour.... 350 miles and hotel cost for us.... and he didna even have a 14inch cock lol ...........
dinna strop if yu dont get a reply...... it goes with the territory..... some will reply others wont.... let it go....
be honest on yur profile.... if yu married, say it ...... folks meet married guys..... again honesty is best policy ....
but most of all........
be nice...
honest.......
respectful to all.......
if yu make a mistake...... apologise
have a laugh......
speak today for a possible meet next week ..... no the next 20 mins cause yu passing the end of the road lol and its yur lunchtime ......
I wish yu well.......... I am a player and I know it and am honest about it .... and this life is great ... when yu go into with your eyes open ......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a single fem, it's difficult to get through all mail, initially 400 hits is not a lie..... make your mail original. If you trawl through the fems in the room cutting and pasting the same message to them, beware guys...heads up....we talk to each other, you will never ever get a meet if that's how you play. The most resepected guys are those that do take time to get to know you and chat to you in the room. Oh and cock pics only on profile? NO...they all look the same eventually.If a fem is on cam especially showing only her face please don't direct her, it's purely a social thing for me personally, I may be on cam to a gal pal just for a laugh.
Well said view and happy swinging all of you xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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View, Couldnt have put it any better this should be stickied so that it is read by all. Laine the comments you made are so true and added a fems view of it,
so single guys take note. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done View loved ur comments they are gr8 for all those single guys out there. I especially love to treated as an individual and get to know the guy before i meet him. Don't like pushy guys or disrespectful guys, like to be complimented and get to know someone. Altho a quickie is sometimes nice lol! Good luck to all u guys and yes be nice it doesn't cost anything to have manners. gandl xxx |
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Well done Garry...
SINGLE guys sit up take note n ul be inundate with offers of meets if u behave like the guys whos just wrote this post cum in to the scotland room n watch this funny articulte sexy man at work xxxx
luv jacs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ffs view missed the start of emmerdale reading ur post (A-list swinger that I am lol) but u r spot on.....i try to answer every mail we get even if its just to say tnx but no tnx and hope no-one ever takes it personnally. there is an abundance of single guys out there and unfortunately u cant meet them all, so as garry said ppl, stick out from the crowd, dont keep sending the same msg again and again. most importants folks enjoy this it is supposed to be fun, you only get one go at life so make the most of it cause it is way too short. good luck all xxxxxx |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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you sum it up nicely garry. i personally don't always do the talk not meet next week thing but i do like to chat to the people i meet and have a laff.
ps hun ma knickers are on elastic around you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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well said view, some guys just dont take the time to read profiles, they see tits and think, oh i want in about them, when its clearly not what some folk are lookin for, but the still get the same mail, fancy a shag, how original,,,,, whens your book out lol
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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Well done View loved ur comments they are gr8 for all those single guys out there. I especially love to treated as an individual and get to know the guy before i meet him. Don't like pushy guys or disrespectful guys, like to be complimented and get to know someone. Altho a quickie is sometimes nice lol! Good luck to all u guys and yes be nice it doesn't cost anything to have manners. gandl xxx"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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oops forgot 2 other no no's.....
dinna be a pic collector by asking to be friends..........
dinna ask for msn details immediately after saying 'hello' ..... yu wanting a cam wank ...... lol
well thats it from me, thanks for the comments ..... will be great if guys follow any of the above.... they will have more fun, couples/fems will not get hassled as much and we can all have a laugh, more sex ........ and friendship xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got another one for you that pees me off.
If your bi-curious, do not assume every guy on here is too.
Its not just the ladies and couples that get hit, some other single guys get hit by morons who want to try their bi side.
I know I'm irresistible but gies a brek |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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as i said buddah..... they should read the profile...... check sexuality and respect that ........
place for us all here ...... and they should not cross boundaries......
they dont help wi the sad assumption by some that all bi guys wanna suck every str8 guys cock ...... THIS ONE DOESNA .
never crossed a boundary ever ..nor will I ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good Guide Mary!
But ffs did you have to share it, if all the muppets take your advice how the hell am I meant to chat up the gorgeous ladies of fab chat:scotland.
I'd like to add a little more:
If you cant say something nice dont say anything at all.
Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.
However there are always exceptions...
This is for the couples....
Some couples do meet single guys that have it on there profile as they don't which I understand as they must be inundated but it does give a mixed signal when they have verifications and friends with single guys.
If your going to write you dont meet single guys then dont meet any.
If you don't want to meet the majority but make exceptions for the odd one then just block single guys from messaging you, don't write it on your profile but add any single guys you would meet to your friends list so they can message you.
Rock
P.S Very Happy Swingle, happy making lots of friends, happy with the occasional fringe benefit fo friends buts ometimes confused and not sure wether I should be just a friend who is a single guy or if its becuase the couple/lady actually is into me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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gary,,,your a star lol
defo waiting on the book,,,want it signed personally tho lol.
we just here to meet new friends and if anything more then brill.answer all messages and hopefully we say what me mean on or profile.just folk dont seem to read all and just scroll down to the pics??
auds xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good Guide Mary!
But ffs did you have to share it, if all the muppets take your advice how the hell am I meant to chat up the gorgeous ladies of fab chat:scotland.
I'd like to add a little more:
If you cant say something nice dont say anything at all.
Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.
However there are always exceptions...
This is for the couples....
Some couples do meet single guys that have it on there profile as they don't which I understand as they must be inundated but it does give a mixed signal when they have verifications and friends with single guys.
If your going to write you dont meet single guys then dont meet any.
If you don't want to meet the majority but make exceptions for the odd one then just block single guys from messaging you, don't write it on your profile but add any single guys you would meet to your friends list so they can message you..
here here rocknroll..u get cpls saying on there PROFILES NO SINGLE GUYS yet they get verifiyed by single guys..well i find that confusing..if single guys see a verifaction by a single guy..then YES there gonna get emails from guys..so some cpls should stick 2 wat there PROFILES SAY but thats just my opinion no offence ment xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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See we don't meet single guys as a private meet but we will meet single guys at parties, and as such, we have verifications from single guys.
This is probably common for a few people.
Good guide View xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See we don't meet single guys as a private meet but we will meet single guys at parties, and as such, we have verifications from single guys.
This is probably common for a few people.
Good guide View xx"
MEETING SINGLE GUYS AT PARTYS IS TOTAL A DIFF THING xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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MEETING SINGLE GUYS AT PARTYS IS TOTAL A DIFF THING xx"
I think most people know that, just wanted to explain how some people would have verifications from single guys, when their profiles state they don't meet single guys
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Great common sense comments for some of the more pushy, impatient guys on here.
Most of the folks on here are just regular folks and they deserve the same level of repect they get in thier regular day to day lives.
I see some unbelievable liberties in the chatroom.
I like a laugh as much as the next person but manners definately maketh the man.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On reflection then, do i G have to read profiles instead of just looking at there pics?? pmsl. We play alone and i feel we both try to be honest and repectful. Some single guys may want to print Garys forum off and take it with them at all times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes mr g..... chuffed as I am at the idea of yu looking at my pics .... reading a profile is good as ....
I may not have what YOU are looking for in ma pants
lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with all of that
can I also add that when attendeding a social for first time ,Do not drink to much to give you courage as all you result in doing is getting a tag d*unk and usually saying things to people that you will regret and not good for any single guy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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that appllies to couples and females as well kinky xx and not just single guys..... socials are just that..... its a time to meet friends, meet new ones, chat away and have a laugh...
having myself been d*unk at socials I will reserve any further comment lol .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeh View you are so right, I would of said couples counted deffo , but I thought this was on singles lol
I Have been a Tad tipsy myself on some occations,It does happen and mostly it is down to nerves,(not me of course I just like a night out ) But best to do deep breathes and maybe find someone you do know or someone who looks as nervous as you and get through it together ,If you know your the kinda person that gets d*unk fast then Dont drink bring your car then that way your no gonna make a fool of yerself or anyone else,
Hope this Helps
Debbsxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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as my profile says... 'not really looking for anything more than chat and laughs just now'....
but thought it useful to give advice to newer guys to make it easier for them, better for couples and fems being hassled by the pests and the chatroom a more enjoyable experience for all .
wish you both well xxx and lots of fun
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By (user no longer on site)
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Isnt it a delight to know that there IS a man in this world that listens AND learns and his name is View - do yourselves a favour guys.....take heed and you'll get fucked ragged ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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View you have hit the nail on the head I think all men and women want to be treated with respect and I don't think that is to much to ask for in this day and age. What I can say is most men here do treat me with respect I just wish they all would as they would get a lot further on here. One thing I would say is treat others how you would like to be treated and you will go far on Fab.
View just for you huni you are a true Gent and there isn't many of them. Mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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so well put view hunni , its always nice when treated with respect.
yes it is very tiring when its the same announcemnt all the time ..
with the fcuk bit thrown in when they don't get a meet as they have just joined or not even read profiles too.
and u may well be a tart hunni
but yo uwillnever be an auld yin as you are so full of life and have more energy an rescpect in your little finger than some of the single laddies on here bbz .
fae another auld tart hehe xxxxxxxxx |
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view, all men should take note, you are fantastic, you are sensitive you have many friends on this site because you take the time to chat and get to know them, all single males take note, maybe more couples would get in touch with you if you behave like view.xxx
hope to meet up with you at a social sometime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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as we only meet as a couple and its on our profile ive chatted at length to many guys wanting to meet but what really pisses me off is the fact that they have no consideration for my hubby as they never seem to mention him in our lenghty chats thats why we dont meet the large majority |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They should make all single guys read that or else they cant sign on ere,lol.
Im helping a solo fem friend prune her way through bloody 1336 messages accumulated over just a few days, thats un manageable and an indicator of how mad it gets, and its little wonder she is losing vision of the ideal that this is,,,meant to be fun!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I been playing 5 years now,and if i can just add, single guys at partys,again,make fun the priority.
Had so many guys corner the wife of a couple or the solo fem with requests for phone number or MSN or the like, if they have enjoyed and want to give that info,let them offer it up.
I personally have never been that confident to assume i "deserve" to be a contact.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"time for a refresh .........
LOL ....
ANYONE WANT TO OFFER ADVICE TO THE NEWBIES...........
ITS LIKE PAINTING THE FORTH BRIDGE .."
I have a bit at the bottom of my profile referring people on to this post View... some do read it and have mailed me or spoken to me in the room saying thanks for the link...you are getting through to them...just very slowly xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldnt agree more with views statement ...
if i ever had an issue within Fab and needed advice, this is the guy i would turn too for help,
reason being ..HES THE RULE BOOK
This guy actually whispered a female praised me up too her , and a week later i met her,
What guy on here would do that .
VIEW WOULD .....
View thats £20.00 ya owe me
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my advice is......
chat in the room and get to know folks
say hi to all ..... and chat away and get to know folks....
dont hit on every couple or fem the sec they come in.....
dont expect sex within 20 mins.... yu might get some but unlikely...
be different..... stand out in someway
there are hundreds of single guys ..... so be different....
have pics ..... and not cock only ..... many dont like cock pics..... and a guy in pants is attractive lol .. trust me I look at em
be uber respectful to ladies..... treat them as such and not pieces of meat....
I watch everyday when lovely ladies on cam and the faceless wankers come in. and hassle them in whispers.. ask to whisper it is polite to do so....
if a lady is 'new' on the site...... dinna pounce like a pack of baying wolves.... welcome her to the site and let her settle in...... ffs, how scary can it be to have 20+ whispers for sex within a few mins of first entering. the room..
go to socials, lunches and meet folks socially....... they are ideal to get to be known ......
I personally dont write to couples/fems asking for meets .....
having been part of a couple on here, its a volume game with some guys.... they hit every new couple/fem wi same mail content, read every profile, digest information..... write message tailored around what couples/fems are looking for ( not what yu want) ....
and if they say no single guys.... ffs dont write to them .....
dont have a chip on yur shoulder as a single guy...... there are couples looking for single guys out there....
I watch one guy every day ....
he says 'hi , then yu have mail x'.....
then moves to next couple and says 'hi, then yu have mail x 'and guess what.... he moves to next couple and says 'hi..... lol .... yu have mail' x gives a desperate impression and disrectful in the extreme ....
.... expect to travel to meet folks.. many guys expect the fems/couples to travel to them... one guy asked mrs view and i to drive to largs from forfar, we had to book a hotel, and he would pop roond for an hour.... 350 miles and hotel cost for us.... and he didna even have a 14inch cock lol ...........
dinna strop if yu dont get a reply...... it goes with the territory..... some will reply others wont.... let it go....
be honest on yur profile.... if yu married, say it ...... folks meet married guys..... again honesty is best policy ....
but most of all........
be nice...
honest.......
respectful to all.......
if yu make a mistake...... apologise
have a laugh......
speak today for a possible meet next week ..... no the next 20 mins cause yu passing the end of the road lol and its yur lunchtime ......
I wish yu well.......... I am a player and I know it and am honest about it .... and this life is great ... when yu go into with your eyes open ......
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Think it's time to dust this down and display it again as there are a lot of people just not getting the message.... two words.... RESPECT PLEASE....it really does go a long way to being noticed xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol agreed Laine....
might also be useful for one of the 'sisterhood' to do single fem guide.
xxx
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Much of what you originally posted is applicable to single fems and couples also, but it is worrying when some single fems leave themselves wide open for abuse through being d*unk. I have noticed posts being made by fems while d*unk and leaving themselves wide open for more than verbal abuse, I have been in the chatroom when fems have been d*unk and giving out their addresses to guys they have never met, a memorable one was a fem giving phone instructions on how to get to her house and forgetting she was on cam and audio, any number of guys could have turned up at her door.
It's a jungle out there for fems but for guys getting mixed signals from d*unk females then it's just as bad.
xxxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just purposely bringing this super guide back to top of list for all the single guys either new to scene or indeed not new but still making an arse of it, can only help. |
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"it really should be mailed to new accounts as a newstart guide shouldnt it x"
Aye - when are View's words of wisdom gonna get stuck in stone/ stickied/ made permanently available somewhere on the site. I think this is the second or third time I've seen this crib sheet in about 7 months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tactically brought this super guide back to top of the list because there seems to be an epidemic of guys doing nuthing but hastling folks and gettin it all so wrong.
Might be the best thing you do guys,is to read it !!
T xx |
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Glad to c this post back on the top of the forums .
the guys who wrote it is one of the most respected guys on this site by males as well as females
single guys do urself a favour n read and follow some of the tips xxx
luv jacs
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By (user no longer on site)
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got to agree with you like2see and cumplaywithme the newbies should all be made to read this, and remember there are a few things in Views post that could be relevant to more than just single guys, couples femmes also have a wee read.
Love Laine xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i gotta agree this post is bril
but wat u got remeber 2 its no all
single guys who give bad impressions off
it can be cpls an some fems 2 an heres why
1)fems pics? arent wat they look like
in person an not only me has noticed
that so all pics should be updated but up 2 them 2 do that
2)fems again? some fems are user's
3)fems again? some fems cant see
shit go by them but they want it
4)fems again? says in profile they str8t
so why live in a bi fems profile..as in perving lol
1)cpl? are time wasters just the same
as everyone else.
not once have i ever had trouble with a guy its been with cpls an fems..soz but with me wat u see is wat u get..now rant over lol tc u lit an have safe fun
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By (user no longer on site)
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well said hun
just wish some guys would sit up and listen......oh and to add one to ur list
just cos a guy emails us doesnt mean we have to meet them......we can be genuine and not mee every guy that emails us......
have fun all xx |
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Bouncing this back to first page i hope,for the single guys who after their busy half hour of pestering every fem/couple they can see in the room and walk away scratching their heads beating themselves up wundering why they aint got a meet within the hour, maybe just read this guys.  |
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"my advice is......
chat in the room and get to know folks
say hi to all ..... and chat away and get to know folks....
dont hit on every couple or fem the sec they come in.....
dont expect sex within 20 mins.... yu might get some but unlikely...
be different..... stand out in someway
there are hundreds of single guys ..... so be different....
have pics ..... and not cock only ..... many dont like cock pics..... and a guy in pants is attractive lol .. trust me I look at em
be uber respectful to ladies..... treat them as such and not pieces of meat....
I watch everyday when lovely ladies on cam and the faceless wankers come in. and hassle them in whispers.. ask to whisper it is polite to do so....
if a lady is 'new' on the site...... dinna pounce like a pack of baying wolves.... welcome her to the site and let her settle in...... ffs, how scary can it be to have 20+ whispers for sex within a few mins of first entering. the room..
go to socials, lunches and meet folks socially....... they are ideal to get to be known ......
I personally dont write to couples/fems asking for meets .....
having been part of a couple on here, its a volume game with some guys.... they hit every new couple/fem wi same mail content, read every profile, digest information..... write message tailored around what couples/fems are looking for ( not what yu want) ....
and if they say no single guys.... ffs dont write to them .....
dont have a chip on yur shoulder as a single guy...... there are couples looking for single guys out there....
I watch one guy every day ....
he says 'hi , then yu have mail x'.....
then moves to next couple and says 'hi, then yu have mail x 'and guess what.... he moves to next couple and says 'hi..... lol .... yu have mail' x gives a desperate impression and disrectful in the extreme ....
.... expect to travel to meet folks.. many guys expect the fems/couples to travel to them... one guy asked mrs view and i to drive to largs from forfar, we had to book a hotel, and he would pop roond for an hour.... 350 miles and hotel cost for us.... and he didna even have a 14inch cock lol ...........
dinna strop if yu dont get a reply...... it goes with the territory..... some will reply others wont.... let it go....
be honest on yur profile.... if yu married, say it ...... folks meet married guys..... again honesty is best policy ....
but most of all........
be nice...
honest.......
respectful to all.......
if yu make a mistake...... apologise
have a laugh......
speak today for a possible meet next week ..... no the next 20 mins cause yu passing the end of the road lol and its yur lunchtime ......
I wish yu well.......... I am a player and I know it and am honest about it .... and this life is great ... when yu go into with your eyes open ......
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Had to ping this back up to front page as some are sounding,well,more than lost as to how to be a solo swinger.
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we cannot agree more with the part about reading the profile.
if a couple says no single guys it does not matter how big your cock is or how many times you can do it.
our profile advises against one liners but some guys send "want to have fun now" which is very offputting
we asked the last one if he read the profile after his repeated oneliners and he replied that he had - so he read the profile and decided it did not apply to him.
people who ignore the profiles when making contact just waste it for the guys who are genuine |
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over a year ago
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"as i said buddah..... they should read the profile...... check sexuality and respect that ........
place for us all here ...... and they should not cross boundaries......
they dont help wi the sad assumption by some that all bi guys wanna suck every str8 guys cock ...... THIS ONE DOESNA .
never crossed a boundary ever ..nor will I ... "
we agree and if bi why not admit it on the profile?
and couples who are str8 - we are both bi but we respect that most guys and some fems are str8 - we never cross the line if we are told you are str8 |
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thanks view for good advice. But finding it twice as hard as I'm in a wheelchair, though to be fair have chatted to a few who dont care about it, so there is a chance. Thanks again view  |
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Its a fantastic guide on how to conduct yourself in the site, wonder what lady may be equally as qualified, and impartial to create a guide for single fems to have fun and cope with all things swing site-wise on here.
Single guys are plentyfull,and its cool so many single fems are enjoying site too, but equally some may benefit from bit guidance,just a suggestion,
T xx |
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"thanks view for good advice. But finding it twice as hard as I'm in a wheelchair, though to be fair have chatted to a few who dont care about it, so there is a chance. Thanks again view "
welcome jazzef, hope you enjoy fab and have a lot of fun.
it's about the man not a chair.. lots of great people on here so onwards and upwards I say dude .
best wishes.. |
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"yep like2see glad ye did -always send newbie guys here to check it out---good sound advice.
then of course i shag them lol   "
Damn! Never came to this page as a newbie a few months back, missed out on the newbie shag there!!!   |
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i have followed all of garys advice without the help of gary , i dont need gary or any 1 else to tell me how to behave in a chat room , but where has it got me , no sexual meets from this site since mine and jaqs social @ the start of july, and me takin the hump. wonder how many days this wil last b4 it gets deleted maybe 2 lol or will it join my other post in the bin after a day |
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"i have followed all of garys advice without the help of gary , i dont need gary or any 1 else to tell me how to behave in a chat room , but where has it got me , no sexual meets from this site since mine and jaqs social @ the start of july, and me takin the hump. wonder how many days this wil last b4 it gets deleted maybe 2 lol or will it join my other post in the bin after a day "
am I reading this correctly...
1... you having a go at me despite me posting on your previous posts wishing you well whatever you do..
2... complaining because you post twice recently and you haven't had a meet as a result..
here's my reply........
dinna start on me..
make yur mind up, yu going or not..
stop fecking moaning..
and stop turning from a really nice lad into a whinging twerp cause he no had his leg over.
06.33 am ........ ffs and I am now grumpy..... |
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"i have followed all of garys advice without the help of gary , i dont need gary or any 1 else to tell me how to behave in a chat room , but where has it got me , no sexual meets from this site since mine and jaqs social @ the start of july, and me takin the hump. wonder how many days this wil last b4 it gets deleted maybe 2 lol or will it join my other post in the bin after a day
am I reading this correctly...
1... you having a go at me despite me posting on your previous posts wishing you well whatever you do..
2... complaining because you post twice recently and you haven't had a meet as a result..
here's my reply........
dinna start on me..
make yur mind up, yu going or not..
stop fecking moaning..
and stop turning from a really nice lad into a whinging twerp cause he no had his leg over.
06.33 am ........ ffs and I am now grumpy....."
ffs view u bitch better than me lmao xxxxxxxx |
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"..... ffs view u bitch better than me lmao xxxxxxxx
cheers darling.... it's a public service I provide ..... "
and that goes for my shagging also .......... |
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"..... ffs view u bitch better than me lmao xxxxxxxx
cheers darling.... it's a public service I provide .....
and that goes for my shagging also .......... "
 wondering now if view is free if he is a public service |
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"..... ffs view u bitch better than me lmao xxxxxxxx
cheers darling.... it's a public service I provide .....
and that goes for my shagging also .......... "
lol so ave heard lmao xxxxxxxx |
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Whilst I admit that some single guys need advice as how to conduct themselves, may experience of some (not all) women on this site makes me think its not always the single guy whose at fault.
Case Study 1
I was contacted by a woman about a month ago. She sent me a pic and said to me to tell her there and then if I wasn't interested, so as to not to waste her and my time. I said I was and we had a chat and a flirt on MSN and cam one Sunday morning. The impression I got was that we got on fine. I sent a couple of emails during the following week. No replies back. Whose wasted whose time there then?
Case Study 2
Again another woman emailed me and sent a pic on request. Again we had a chat on MSN for a bit and she gave me, without me asking, her mobile number. We texted a few times, just general chit chat and kind of half arranged to meet up socially one Saturday, she called off but as we hadn't made definate plans, no big deal. She did say she was keen to meet though. A subsequent email and text since have both been met with stoney silence.
On both occasions I feel I acted properly, treated both of them with the same respect I would have expected in return. I appreciate that single women get loads of abuse so i didn't push for a meet or bombard them with texts and emails. Yet what do i get for being "nice"? Nothing.
I'm not saying as a result I/we should be nasty to single women but there aren't that many in my area on this site, and when the ones you do interact with mess you about and waste MY time is it any wonder us single blokes get pissed off. |
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Learn to take "Thanks but no thanks" for an answer without demanding to know why, then being an insulting arsehole when you can't change their mind. Is it any wonder ignoring is so much easier?
Since I became a tgirl I've learned what women have to put up with 24/7 and it often makes me ashamed of my true gender. |
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It can be a wee bit of a pain getting hassled by guys who just dont take thanks but no thanks as a response. Some mods are pretty good in the room, doing their utmost to follow all convos and assist in clearing out the trash when neccessary. Socials seem to be the way to go to meet people, this way you can also get a pretty good impression about what the person or people are like in the real world - away from the protection of their pcs - if they still behave like dipshits, chances are they ARE dipshits! |
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"Just thought i would bump this up a bit as a lot o guys been asking for advice.. read this and you wont go wrong "
Ahh, good work Hoops, wondered where that cracking thread had gone, ty
T xx |
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