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Have you ever come across a profile where you recognise or know the person?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.
I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise.In all my years on here I've never saw anyone I know or recognise away from fab   "
That's because everyone you know is already on Fab. Ya wee minx.  |
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"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.
I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise.In all my years on here I've never saw anyone I know or recognise away from fab
That's because everyone you know is already on Fab. Ya wee minx. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes . There's always gonna be someone that pops up that you know. If they message and send a face pic , I always send one back. I think it's more courteous than telling them you know them and not letting on who you are ! |
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I'm super surprised at how many have never met anyone they knew! Jeez, there's been like five people I've known within one or two streets of me lol. I've spoke to loads of people I know, loads of people I went to school with. Never actually went there with anyone from school, but it's always been funny to catch up in that way afterwards lol xx |
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By *enie90Woman
over a year ago
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I haven’t actually. Funnily enough though I was talking to this couple on fabs but we had decided not to meet up because the lady wasn’t into me but the guy was and I didn’t feel comfortable meeting up with just the guy. And then a couple of weeks later on a random weekday in the middle of London at a cafe nero I ran into him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few of my ex's in ninja mode trying to keep tabs on what I'm up to, always catch them out though..
Also 1 person who is pretty famous in the media but ofcourse I ain't saying who they are, discretion is paramount if you're on Fab... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely been a few. Difficult though as there’s not many people in their early 20’s that are completely open about being on FAB. Discretion is always a good sign of respect on these kind of sites(in my opinion). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two. One recently is the male of a couple on here that I play golf with (very distinctive tattoos) and the other a single guy I used to work beside. I never said anything as both were rather indiscreet. |
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A few I know on here. Some from work and some exes friends which was awkward. Best not to say in that circumstance I find!
I did message girl that I thought was from work but they disappeared soon after so never found out! |
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In all our years of attending clubs and being on here we've never recognised anyone from our real world  . We must just not know enough cool people...
I know the conventional wisdom is to leave folk alone but if anyone knows us IRL and is staying away out of politeness, come say hi! |
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By *YOGOMan
over a year ago
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We are all adults, why would you have an issue with someone looking for the same thing as you. Leave yer high morality of others on the back burner, lest they judge you the same way. Mutual Discretion, it's basic manners.
"Yeah, 2 people.
Would never say anything, what people do is their own business.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Best Friends younger brother is on this too & he has always had a bit of an infatuation with me, he started messaging saying he wanted to perform Oral & give himself to me...
Still states he’s in love with me.
As his brother has no clue Ive kept it to myself. |
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Yea, was a disaster lol. Saw the profile of a mates daughter. Couldn't send her a message on here as was outwith her age range. So sent her a message on Snapchat she's now hidden her profile on here so I cannae even perv over her pics anymore lol |
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I’ve recognised a good few folk. People I’ve worked with, went to school with years ago. Nobody has ever recognised me that I know of, would be hot though. I tend to give total discretion when on here. What you do in your spare time is your business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a message from a girl who used to be on here.
Said she used to go to school with me.
Wasnt sure who she was at first as she never had any face pics public but she told me her name and showed me her pics to prove it was her.
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Yeah guy next door when I lived with my mum still, came up on the online now section, still just blocked and moved on.
Came across a woman recently who went with a guy I know and used to have her on FB, great to put a pussy/naked body to the face tbh  .
And 1 half of a couple who claimed she knew me from being 2 years above at school lol |
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Yep many times but give people the same respect you want and everything is cool.
I once met a couple and new the guy, It was his wife that had done the communication part, spur of the moment meet couple of messages and I turned up at the door to his surprise but everything worked out lol
We all have some interesting fab stories the good the bad and the ugly  |
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Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol. "
That's a wee bit creepy  |
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By *hebirdsMan
over a year ago
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"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.
That's a wee bit creepy
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Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.
I would do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.
That's a wee bit creepy
Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.
I would do the same."
It's a power move
He could have said nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup theres been a few only last week i had a message from my cousins boyfriend whom she has 2 children to one only a few months old, dilemma.. hes blocked for now.. |
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By *hebirdsMan
over a year ago
Haddington |
"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.
That's a wee bit creepy
Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.
I would do the same.
It's a power move
He could have said nothing "
Suppose but his motive appears to be genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.
That's a wee bit creepy
Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.
I would do the same.
It's a power move
He could have said nothing
Suppose but his motive appears to be genuine."
He couldve just blocked them, its their choice if they have their pic on they obvs have nothing to hide.. they are adults after all |
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Had a lady at work quote something to me ‘from my profile.’ Nothing sexual. It took me by surprise and then she said it again whilst with another lady that worked directly for me. Which then made me wonder if it had been from fab. As if it had been she would have had to admit she had seen it to a work colleague. When I asked in passing where did you hear that. She didn’t say. It was a very odd situation as we always got on with each other?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of times. Hence face pictures from the off are an absolute no no until a bit of chat has established and we can both work out the chances, mutual friends etc. If not the chances of others around you finding out you are on here looking for sex is very high indeed tbh as has happened to me. This is why I prefer to search a bit of distance away from where I live. Makes life sooooo much easier. I see a lot of newbie ladies don't accept this and incorrectly assume you must be married or attached. It's just called privacy and discretion and very sensible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.
I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise."
Yes and my friends mother her secret is safe with me though. |
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"Lots of times. Hence face pictures from the off are an absolute no no until a bit of chat has established and we can both work out the chances, mutual friends etc. If not the chances of others around you finding out you are on here looking for sex is very high indeed tbh as has happened to me. This is why I prefer to search a bit of distance away from where I live. Makes life sooooo much easier. I see a lot of newbie ladies don't accept this and incorrectly assume you must be married or attached. It's just called privacy and discretion and very sensible."
Who cares as long as your all on for the same thing, we've had plenty recognise us over the years. We've nothing to hide it's all just some fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree, as above. I’ve noticed a few, but I will add that it’s an eye opener how some people portray their lives on social media etc. that said, I’d never out anyone. Each to their own, live and let live. |
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Nope, but I have messaged someone who recognised me from work, but I have no idea who they were (lot if employees). But they didn't want to mix work with fab, which is sensible enough, but left me not knowing who knows me |
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Yes quite a few.. I was messaging a very nice profile of a single lady. When the coin dropped for both of us we know each other from outside of the fab world.. we left it at that.
Another is a very attractive lady who works where I deliver. She caught my eye one day and most of her posts are around her work.
I’d love to say hi but don’t want to alarm her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, my brother and his missus. Quickly hit the block button on that 1  "
Offft defo did right thing there
We have seen quite a few people , blocked some but put some in hotlist  , isa  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.
That's a wee bit creepy
Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.
I would do the same.
It's a power move
He could have said nothing "
Yep, fully agree. Power move, let’s just tell them I know them and quite possibly make them worry. Poor approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of times. Hence face pictures from the off are an absolute no no until a bit of chat has established and we can both work out the chances, mutual friends etc. If not the chances of others around you finding out you are on here looking for sex is very high indeed tbh as has happened to me. This is why I prefer to search a bit of distance away from where I live. Makes life sooooo much easier. I see a lot of newbie ladies don't accept this and incorrectly assume you must be married or attached. It's just called privacy and discretion and very sensible.
Who cares as long as your all on for the same thing, we've had plenty recognise us over the years. We've nothing to hide it's all just some fun."
Two replies above proves my point. This is the kind of thing that happens too easily if you throw your faced pictures around or have them public. It's not nice. |
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Who cares as long as your all on for the same thing, we've had plenty recognise us over the years. We've nothing to hide it's all just some fun.
Two replies above proves my point. This is the kind of thing that happens too easily if you throw your faced pictures around or have them public. It's not nice. "
But that makes it out like your doing something wrong, or dirty something that you feel you should be hiding. Who cares really, it's your own life, and unless you're cheating / doing something behind someones back then what's the issue?
My point being they are on here too if they have found you, and if someone wants to say "I know you but I'm not saying who I am" then more fool them. Wouldn't lose any sleep over it. |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol"
Why?!  
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
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Sniff their sofa if they let you in the house?
Lick their bath sponge when you visit the bathroom?
Search the bin for any used tampo….no no, that’s plenty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t actually. Funnily enough though I was talking to this couple on fabs but we had decided not to meet up because the lady wasn’t into me but the guy was and I didn’t feel comfortable meeting up with just the guy. And then a couple of weeks later on a random weekday in the middle of London at a cafe nero I ran into him!"
Did anything come of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
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Lol |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
Lol"
Seriously. Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
Lol
Seriously. Why? "
Seriously, you are asking why? Don't you think the entire premise of this thread is that there's an element of turn-on to seeing someone you recognise, or even being recognised? Love it when FAB gets all moralistic  |
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
Lol
Seriously. Why?
Seriously, you are asking why? Don't you think the entire premise of this thread is that there's an element of turn-on to seeing someone you recognise, or even being recognised? Love it when FAB gets all moralistic "
No….I doubt any unsuspecting woman that you know, would want you eyeballing them or even approaching them because they are on fab.
Nothing to do with morals, more about boundaries! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
Lol
Seriously. Why?
Seriously, you are asking why? Don't you think the entire premise of this thread is that there's an element of turn-on to seeing someone you recognise, or even being recognised? Love it when FAB gets all moralistic
No….I doubt any unsuspecting woman that you know, would want you eyeballing them or even approaching them because they are on fab.
Nothing to do with morals, more about boundaries!"
"Eyeballing", "approaching" you've just made this up haven't you. There was no suggestion of either, but crack-on, I hope you have a pleasant day |
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
Lol
Seriously. Why?
Seriously, you are asking why? Don't you think the entire premise of this thread is that there's an element of turn-on to seeing someone you recognise, or even being recognised? Love it when FAB gets all moralistic
No….I doubt any unsuspecting woman that you know, would want you eyeballing them or even approaching them because they are on fab.
Nothing to do with morals, more about boundaries!
"Eyeballing", "approaching" you've just made this up haven't you. There was no suggestion of either, but crack-on, I hope you have a pleasant day "
Your creepy response prompted my reaction.  |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol
Why?!
So you can approach them in the street?
Knock on their door?
Lol
Seriously. Why?
Seriously, you are asking why? Don't you think the entire premise of this thread is that there's an element of turn-on to seeing someone you recognise, or even being recognised? Love it when FAB gets all moralistic "
The premise of the thread was to ask if you had come across a profile where you recognise or know the person.
Not ‘have you actively gone looking for ppl you know’
Very stalkerish behaviour in the making! |
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"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.
That's a wee bit creepy
Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.
I would do the same.
It's a power move
He could have said nothing
Yep, fully agree. Power move, let’s just tell them I know them and quite possibly make them worry. Poor approach"
I don’t mind people recognising me but if they make contact they should let me know who they are. Some friends and family know I’m on here but’t exactly want it public knowledge especially around my sons.
One guy messaged a year or two ago saying he knew me. I didn’t respond as thought it a wind up. This year he made a new profile and messaged again giving some personal details from my youth suggesting he may know me. I politely said it would be nice if he introduced himself so we both know who we are - he declined and said it’s ok youre not that bonnie anyway!
Definitley a power thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol"
What a strange little man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never recognised anyone but have sent a face pic to a lady and been told she knows me and then blocked I understand it and don't blame her for it, but little disconcerting wondering who she was. |
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"I've never recognised anyone but have sent a face pic to a lady and been told she knows me and then blocked I understand it and don't blame her for it, but little disconcerting wondering who she was. "
If that was me I would just say thanks but no thanks then block you - why say they know you and not say who they are |
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