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Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not just the guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am younger than my profile, but only by a few months  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Older or younger op |
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Yes if there’s a chance of them getting their nuts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I know a male on here says he is 37 and he is 45!  |
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Ppl lie about everything on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine says I am 26 but I am 25  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I do. Most of my personal details are incorrect, including location. For no other reason than remaining as anonymous as possible. |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
Lots of people across the board lie on here regardless of gender/sexuality etc.
Take anything you're told with a pinch of salt. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Yes.
Not always to get round filters or portray themselves as younger. Sometimes just for a bit more discretion.
Same way people often don't use real names or locations.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I know a male on here says he is 37 and he is 45! "
8 years. I know someone who has 47 on hi, he 54.
Don't see point of lying about age . A year or two out but anything over 5 years is a bit cheeky |
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"It’s not just the guys "
No I know it might not only be just the guys but I don’t have women messaging me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not just the guys
No I know it might not only be just the guys but I don’t have women messaging me lol"
I didn’t like to assume  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, they dont ask for any age verification so people can put whatever they like |
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"Yes. I know a male on here says he is 37 and he is 45!
8 years. I know someone who has 47 on hi, he 54.
Don't see point of lying about age . A year or two out but anything over 5 years is a bit cheeky"
I totally agree with you.
That’s something that should be an easy thing to be truthful about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile"
If only i were a few months older xx   |
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I dont see the point in lying about it. I'd rather people were upfront x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 45, no point lying about it but I can understand why people do.
I just don't think there's any point for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most men ive met take 5 to 10 years off. It doesnt help them as they then look older.
Its just easier sticking with the age you are.
I just want honesty x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont see the point in lying about it. I'd rather people were upfront x"
I am with friends or people I speak to privately. Otherwise it doesn’t really matter. |
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"Older or younger op"
It said 33 on his profile but doesn’t look that young. Yes I can get that some look older than their age but he looked 10/15 years plus |
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"Most men ive met take 5 to 10 years off. It doesnt help them as they then look older.
Its just easier sticking with the age you are.
I just want honesty x"
I hear you hun, I don’t see why they feel the need to lie. |
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Both of ours are out by a month or 3 ... but that's a privacy thing so people can't get our dates on birth |
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2 of the 3 women I've met had false ages on their profiles, one by 5 years & the other by 10. The latter was to protect her identity from somebody she didn't want to be recognised by so fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men ive met take 5 to 10 years off. It doesnt help them as they then look older.
Its just easier sticking with the age you are.
I just want honesty x
I hear you hun, I don’t see why they feel the need to lie. "
If people are doing it to try and make people think they’re younger then yes I agree. Pointless and stupid. |
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile
If only i were a few months older xx "
Lol I’ll wait for a message from you in a few months then shall I?? |
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"Yeah I do. Most of my personal details are incorrect, including location. For no other reason than remaining as anonymous as possible. "
I have never even gave this thought I bet lot of folk do this. |
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My age is real just the dob different.. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
If it's obvious then it's obvious.
A year or two? Can anyone honestly tell via a photo or even face to face?
I've seen women in their late forties/early fifties that could pass for 38 and men in their forties that could be in their late thirties and likewise some that could easily be 50+.
If you think they're fibbing and that's a deal breaker for you then don't engage with them. If you like what you see then is an accurate age a must?
If the site deleted everyone's age I suspect people would still make decisions on who to meet/contact based on pictures - same as it's always been.
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Yes.
Mine is less than a month out, which I view as close enough.
I sometimes get messages saying "I know my profile says I'm 36, I'm actually 24..." I block them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile
If only i were a few months older xx
Lol I’ll wait for a message from you in a few months then shall I??"
Now why would you make me wait  |
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Yes, many knock years off their real ages in here. I don't see the point.
its only a number after all. If you are going to lie about that what else are you hiding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
Mine is less than a month out, which I view as close enough.
I sometimes get messages saying "I know my profile says I'm 36, I'm actually 24..." I block them."
Iv had a few times.
It's to get round the filters. |
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"Yes.
Mine is less than a month out, which I view as close enough.
I sometimes get messages saying "I know my profile says I'm 36, I'm actually 24..." I block them.
Iv had a few times.
It's to get round the filters. "
Exactly. If your age isn't in my allowed range, I don't want to hear from you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don’t but others do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I do. Most of my personal details are incorrect, including location. For no other reason than remaining as anonymous as possible.
I have never even gave this thought I bet lot of folk do this."
I do it |
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"Yes.
Mine is less than a month out, which I view as close enough.
I sometimes get messages saying "I know my profile says I'm 36, I'm actually 24..." I block them.
Iv had a few times.
It's to get round the filters.
Exactly. If your age isn't in my allowed range, I don't want to hear from you."
Totally agree, it’s there for a reason. |
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Gosh yes so many lie about there age here . Some by 5 years and some by more . My age is real here as there is no point in lying about it. |
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I'm one digit out at each point on my date of birth for anonymity so I'm 47 not 46.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
Mine is less than a month out, which I view as close enough.
I sometimes get messages saying "I know my profile says I'm 36, I'm actually 24..." I block them.
Iv had a few times.
It's to get round the filters.
Exactly. If your age isn't in my allowed range, I don't want to hear from you.
Totally agree, it’s there for a reason. "
Its going to be a happy birthday for me lol |
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By *pril86Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve only come across a few guys that haven’t lied about their age, some even tried to backtrack after questioning as I prefer the much older guy just don’t get it either it’s just a number really |
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By *enn68Man
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
I am 52 and f...ing proud of it !!
No need to lie I am what I am ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experience males and females lie on here. Women contact me stating they are in their twenty’s or thirty’s and they are clearly not!!
I don’t care how old you are if I’m attracted to you ... then I’m attracted. I actually quite like older women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've hardly ever met a man who's the age stated. Some say 'yeah but I could pass for that!'.... Erm.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm one digit out at each point on my date of birth for anonymity so I'm 47 not 46.
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That is perfectly acceptable and I wouldn't call that being deceptive. |
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profilewell quite possibly, you dont look 33  "
Yes but that is my age. I’m here asking if ppl do lie :/ |
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I know quite a few that lie about their age. Dont see the point.
Altho 1 guy I met admitted he was 5 years younger than his profile cos he prefers older women. TBH he looks older and is very mature but he was honest b4 I even met him x |
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I do not lie but wish i had when i first joined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age is correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My age is correct "
Lies clearly 25 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% people lie, I've had messages stating men are 40, when 2 decades ago! |
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By *enn68Man
over a year ago
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"I do not lie but wish i had when i first joined."
You dont need too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've hardly ever met a man who's the age stated. Some say 'yeah but I could pass for that!'.... Erm.... "
Ill bring my passport. |
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52 years old here so can’t see any point in lying  |
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"I do not lie but wish i had when i first joined."
You most certainly don’t need to |
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"100% people lie, I've had messages stating men are 40, when 2 decades ago! "
Lol ok I’ve not had it that bad just yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met one or two that were not completely honest about their age, but nothing to extreme.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I tend to get guys who are younger than the age on their profile. Very annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I tend to get guys who are younger than the age on their profile. Very annoying. "
Hate when im just 2 years too young |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
Mines my actually real age and changes on my real life birthday. There are many men who I would agree to meet to see proof of their age  |
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"Yes if there’s a chance of them getting their nuts"
We all know that you are really 64, you don't fool us |
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Didn't occur to me (mr) to lie about my age tbh! Should I go older or younger lol  |
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Some guys tell us they do it to enhance their chances of a meet...our ages are correct though... |
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I’ve just corrected my age. I only originally put a different DOB for security reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lie. Couldn't give a rat's arse if anyone believes me or not. I'm not into giving any personal information to crazy freaks. And there are plenty on here. |
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"Yeah I tend to get guys who are younger than the age on their profile. Very annoying. "
You are gorgeous hun. Nice to put a face to the profile |
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"I’ve just corrected my age. I only originally put a different DOB for security reasons "
I do understand the DOB not being correct but not miles off the age lol |
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"Some guys tell us they do it to enhance their chances of a meet...our ages are correct though... "
Did it work for them?? |
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"I lie. Couldn't give a rat's arse if anyone believes me or not. I'm not into giving any personal information to crazy freaks. And there are plenty on here. "
I don’t think that a year or two is an issue. It’s when it goes past the point where it’s 10/20 years plus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just guys..women do that to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I lie. Couldn't give a rat's arse if anyone believes me or not. I'm not into giving any personal information to crazy freaks. And there are plenty on here. "
Once again the horrible 30 is in the way |
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"I’ve just corrected my age. I only originally put a different DOB for security reasons
I do understand the DOB not being correct but not miles off the age lol"
Mine was until today 6 months older than my real date of birth |
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By *ookMan
over a year ago
london |
I am older but look younger...experience counts but I respect age filters... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have,I'm real 23. |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
The Dungeon |
We're both 83. We have to lie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile"
Mine says 38, its correct but I look and feel 10 years older in body and 10 years younger in my mind |
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
Serendipity |
Definitely, fab age for some seems 10-15 years younger than actual age. |
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There are quite a few that lie about age and men lie about height and cock size.
It's all about getting around preferences and filters. |
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
In cave behind a waterfall on a hill |
I'm really 101 |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
A few men in my updates seem to be getting younger ,seen some.leave and rejoin a few years younger.
It will probably be to get round filters or because once they hit a certain age,their meets decrease.
Agree though no point lying when many look much older . |
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Maybe I’m too honest didn’t see point in lying if gunna show face people can image search me and see my age of other sites. But I get changing some minor details to keep anonymous but over 5 years or saying things like a couple when single guy just blatant lying.  |
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My age is correct and I’ve seen some profiles where I have doubted their age but I’m sure they had reasons to lie, if I like them it makes no difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, Really I'm 21 in 2 weeks |
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"Some guys tell us they do it to enhance their chances of a meet...our ages are correct though...
Did it work for them??"
Yes & we met them...sometimes didn't find out until then but most turned out good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some guys tell us they do it to enhance their chances of a meet...our ages are correct though...
Did it work for them??
Yes & we met them...sometimes didn't find out until then but most turned out good "
Im 35 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I'm actually 84"
89 at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sge is correct but im getting to think im too okd for this site |
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"Ppl lie about everything on here "
They totally do. It drives us nuts. I don't understand why people can't be honest. They get found out eventually |
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"Most men ive met take 5 to 10 years off. It doesnt help them as they then look older.
Its just easier sticking with the age you are.
I just want honesty x"
I've come across this a few times now, it's so off putting it becomes an instant no to playtime meets. To try to deceive me in anyway removes my ability to trust who tries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men ive met take 5 to 10 years off. It doesnt help them as they then look older.
Its just easier sticking with the age you are.
I just want honesty x
I've come across this a few times now, it's so off putting it becomes an instant no to playtime meets. To try to deceive me in anyway removes my ability to trust who tries"
No deceit here  I'm brutally honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not lying about age, but not looking my age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been told. That I lie about my age because I look a lot younger than my age.. I mean, why the fuck would anyone lie about being older?!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told. That I lie about my age because I look a lot younger than my age.. I mean, why the fuck would anyone lie about being older?!!! "
Lots do.
Iv had a few messages from guys that have been younger than their profile age. It's often to get round fillters. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
Sorry to disappoint but I am my age and yes that is my body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots do.
Iv had a few messages from guys that have been younger than their profile age. It's often to get round fillters. "
Well at my age, I definitely don't say that I'm older! |
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People seem to expect a lot from casual fucks.
Take everything with a HUGE pinch of salt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I may have missed a few years off ! Just a couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People seem to expect a lot from casual fucks.
Take everything with a HUGE pinch of salt."
Yes they expect people not to lie, so unreasonable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and am not a stockbroker either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile"
It's to be expected and is usually the case that they are a few years older than their profile states but when meeting if I like them enough I don't mind, tbh it's a slight turn on when I realise I'm younger than them as they seem to appreciate me more Xx |
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Everything on my profile is factually correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine's real. But I know plenty of people do lie about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is my true age but yeah I agree that plenty of people tell a porky or 2 on their profiles. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes Departure Lounge NN9 .Northamptonshire. |
I have met a lady on here whose profile age is 57, on her first visit she openly admitted to being 65. Makes no difference to me as I would have still made contact if her profile gave her correct age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to disappoint but I am my age and yes that is my body."
No disappointment here PP |
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I used to.. I had myself down as mid 40,s..when I changed it to my real age.. ..interest dropped considerably...lesson learnt... If you can get away with a lie ..do it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't see the point in it, I am what I am, ain't no changing it. |
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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
I met a man whose profile said he was 58, turned out he was 73. Was a fit 73, but still that's a 15 year gap. |
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I’v Come across loads that lie about age
Pardon the pun |
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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Another thing, if they're lying about their age, what other lies will they be telling. |
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Personally i dont see the point of lying ... if i claimed to be in my 20s as soon as anyone saw me it would be apparant that wasnt true ... and remembering not to say i have a child at uni is too much trouble
We have played with a wide variety of ages .. from 21 to somewhere in their 60s ..
I would be peeved if i turned up to find a late 40s couple were nearing their 70s ...
With us what we say is what you get. |
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile"
We've turned for meets and they've been about 20 years older than their profile ages and had used old pictures too - i can't understand it, do they think people will say 'oh well, we're here now crack on' We simply cut the meet short, sometimes not even staying for 1 drink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people lie about their age on here??
I’ve had messages from guys and they do not look like they’re the age stated on their profile"
Often get questioned about my age as people claim I look a lot younger. Certainly a boost to my confidence xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen some even openly admit it in their profile text and that they've dome so to dodge filters |
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A lot do it. Some to get round filters - some for vanity!
I’ve known people who shave 15+ years of their age.
One woman - one of the self proclaimed ‘milfs’ made me smile when she became 10 years younger literally overnight - quite an achievement! |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
Kettering |
I'm 65 and proud no point in lying about it you will always be found out lol |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
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Don’t see the point, as you normally send a face pic before any meeting and mine shows all 49 years.
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I chatted to a man on here who admitted to having 3 fab profiles. One his real age, one ten years younger and the other ten years older. |
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over a year ago
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Mine is real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age is accurate. Though I’m often told I don’t look my age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 32 look 52 I carry my I’d to prove I’m not as old as I look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a friend whose profile says 50 and he's actually in his 60s. He says when you're over 50 you are doomed anyway so it doesn't matter.
I'm over 50. I'm doomed
People lie about all sorts on here; it seems to be the norm. |
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By *estivalMan
over a year ago
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my age is real.to be honest once i turned 40 i pretty much stopped caring about my age |
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I'm honest about my age, but.... it rules me out of contacting many ladies.
Perhaps I'd shave a few years off if I joined again,
However... I should add that I look awesome for my age !!!
Perhaps there should be an "I look awesome for my age" option in filters?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best policy. I’ve turned a meet away before because they’ve blatantly lied about their age and used pictures that do not represent them at all - why lie?
Age is just a number and I tend to find older lovers better anyway |
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Ours are real...unfortunately it means a lot of people pass us over because of A's age |
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Ours are real....if that puts people off....that's their problem |
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"I'm honest about my age, but.... it rules me out of contacting many ladies.
Perhaps I'd shave a few years off if I joined again,
However... I should add that I look awesome for my age !!!
Perhaps there should be an "I look awesome for my age" option in filters??"
I agree ... I'm 50 but go to the gym and hope i look okish for my age ... did distress me when i tipped over from 49 to 50 as i think that does put some people off ... but their loss not mine Ms H |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't really matter until it matters though, does it? Idgaf what most ppl on here want to say about themselves unless it impacts on me or mine.... ....we are what we are innit.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why lie? Be proud of who you are. |
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Tell the truth from Start..lie takes a lies then begins another continuous |
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I won't lie about anything on my profile.
If I lie I can't complain about anyone else lying on theirs. |
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"I chatted to a man on here who admitted to having 3 fab profiles. One his real age, one ten years younger and the other ten years older. "
Are you serious?? I can’t understand why someone would do that |
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over a year ago
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"I chatted to a man on here who admitted to having 3 fab profiles. One his real age, one ten years younger and the other ten years older.
Are you serious?? I can’t understand why someone would do that "
probably to create better odds than 62.5-1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why lie? Be proud of who you are."
Completely proud of who I am. Just very weary of complete fucktards and fruitloops.
Carry on being completely honest and open with total strangers if that makes you comfortable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are attracted to an individual why should their age matter? More importantly it’s being honest about there relationship status. Surely.? |
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Age & location accurate. Never seen the point in lying. If somebody wants to sit & watch for my age to change on any one of 365 days in the year to get my DOB, best of fucking luck & get a life!
I believe honesty from day 1 builds trust & faith. I've got nothing to hide these days. |
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There are certain a lot of Peter pans on here.
Some guys are getting young by the year!
Although I believe age is just a Number.x |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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I met someone on here about 4 years ago whose Fab age was 59, she later admitted she was 64. Fast forward to this year she has re- appeared still with a Fab age of 59 but actual age 0f 68.
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I dont lie, i am currently 44.
yes my grey/platinum/whatever hair makes me appear older. |
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My age is correct, when that changes is slightly different though because no chance in hell I'm putting my real DOB on this site |
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I know a lot of profiles they are lying about their age...not sure what is the point if im honest...surely if there is 10 year difference you will notice that. Daft fuckers |
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over a year ago
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Nope |
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By *iggingMan
over a year ago
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I pressed the wrong year i am 1 Yr younger than stated but it excludes me from a lot of what people want |
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I'm 56 but you don't get that many asking that age only to 50 still he ho thats life |
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We've got nothing to lie about. Pretty sad when you have to lie about your age, especially in your 40's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course some people lie, like some tell the truth |
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over a year ago
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I've seen some profiles that state their actual age in their bio and openly admit that they entered the wrong age to dodge filters.
I do think that they're rather missed the point and are in for a massive dissapointment |
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"I met someone on here about 4 years ago whose Fab age was 59, she later admitted she was 64. Fast forward to this year she has re- appeared still with a Fab age of 59 but actual age 0f 68.
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I think probably because folks are agest with older men and women which is ashamed because they are so experienced super chilled & incredible sexy.
So many missing out many gorgeous Joan Collins on here but get passed by because of their age |
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"We've got nothing to lie about. Pretty sad when you have to lie about your age, especially in your 40's."
Different when you get past 60 and it gets harder although lots of us look much younger & we are really very fit to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of people that lie is insane! The amount of guys I’ve met that state they are 32-37 but admit to being in their late 40’s and one was even 62 which he only admitted when I met him.
I get changed your age slightly and not wanting to have your exact DOB on here.
A lot of people think oh well they will like me when they meet me or I want the younger age people.. consent matters. When you make big lies like age, relationship status etc you are removing the other persons ability to consent to having sex with. It’s something that law makers are looking at. In several countries laws have recently been changed to include r*pe by fraud and r*pe by deception as crimes. |
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"I've seen some profiles that state their actual age in their bio and openly admit that they entered the wrong age to dodge filters.
I do think that they're rather missed the point and are in for a massive dissapointment"
Why? Would they be disappointed? Folks are agest! It's the truth!
And I know it sadly been a granny I often get passed by. |
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over a year ago
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Unfortunately my age is right
What’s the point in lying
I look my age to be fair lol
So I can’t message anyone as to old
Many friends on forums men as well as women |
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Men lie on Fabguys for sure. I know someone who does it by 10 years and looks every day of his actual age. I have thought about it myself as I do look younger and no one would really know if I re-entered my 40s and avoid the contact filter a lot of people use there. But I just think I'm honest so stay honest.
Some women may do it with their own age, but I think they are less worried about a man's age than most men are in general. pt |
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As an older bird I do feel I get passed by.
Please help the aged lol me especially as I only feel 25.
If lying make me more fuckable I'm doing it |
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"The amount of people that lie is insane! The amount of guys I’ve met that state they are 32-37 but admit to being in their late 40’s and one was even 62 which he only admitted when I met him.
I get changed your age slightly and not wanting to have your exact DOB on here.
A lot of people think oh well they will like me when they meet me or I want the younger age people.. consent matters. When you make big lies like age, relationship status etc you are removing the other persons ability to consent to having sex with. It’s something that law makers are looking at. In several countries laws have recently been changed to include r*pe by fraud and r*pe by deception as crimes. "
So if someone lies about their age and they have sex with someone and they found out they could be charged with r@pe? |
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I really don't see the point of lying about your age.
I'm 55, if that's too old, fine. Just pass on by.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an older bird I do feel I get passed by.
Please help the aged lol me especially as I only feel 25.
If lying make me more fuckable I'm doing it "
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"Unfortunately my age is right
What’s the point in lying
I look my age to be fair lol
So I can’t message anyone as to old
Many friends on forums men as well as women "
We need to start a group help the aged swingers |
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I have been accused several times on here of lying about my age. i do look younger but im 32 and have no need to lie about it, feel like i should post my I.D on my profile to save arguements lol |
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"The amount of people that lie is insane! The amount of guys I’ve met that state they are 32-37 but admit to being in their late 40’s and one was even 62 which he only admitted when I met him.
I get changed your age slightly and not wanting to have your exact DOB on here.
A lot of people think oh well they will like me when they meet me or I want the younger age people.. consent matters. When you make big lies like age, relationship status etc you are removing the other persons ability to consent to having sex with. It’s something that law makers are looking at. In several countries laws have recently been changed to include r*pe by fraud and r*pe by deception as crimes. "
Charged with r@pe because they lied about their age?? Absolutely ridiculous! |
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"I have been accused several times on here of lying about my age. i do look younger but im 32 and have no need to lie about it, feel like i should post my I.D on my profile to save arguements lol"
Me too I'm soo old body gone south but not the boat race lol |
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"The amount of people that lie is insane! The amount of guys I’ve met that state they are 32-37 but admit to being in their late 40’s and one was even 62 which he only admitted when I met him.
I get changed your age slightly and not wanting to have your exact DOB on here.
A lot of people think oh well they will like me when they meet me or I want the younger age people.. consent matters. When you make big lies like age, relationship status etc you are removing the other persons ability to consent to having sex with. It’s something that law makers are looking at. In several countries laws have recently been changed to include r*pe by fraud and r*pe by deception as crimes.
Charged with r@pe because they lied about their age?? Absolutely ridiculous!"
I agree we have met lots of women and they have said they were 30 plus then said later the were in their 20tys but they were in clubs and at parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People definitely lie both ways - the guys I get messaging pretending to be older (bless ‘em ) last one I met said he was 33.. barely looked 25 when he turned up. Great kisser though |
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