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What do you wink for?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it."
I spent years thinking I was out of most girls league all through my 20s. In my 30s I changed to fuck that. I’m great. I may not be their type but I’m certainly not out of anyone’s league. Neither are you or any other man on here. Be confident and know you the fucking man   |
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" Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it.
I spent years thinking I was out of most girls league all through my 20s. In my 30s I changed to fuck that. I’m great. I may not be their type but I’m certainly not out of anyone’s league. Neither are you or any other man on here. Be confident and know you the fucking man "
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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I hardly ever wink.
If the picture is nice regardless of whether there is something possible from it I do leave a picture like. The Lady went through effort to get the picture right that attracted me.
Happy swinging in 2020 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hardly ever wink.
If the picture is nice regardless of whether there is something possible from it I do leave a picture like. The Lady went through effort to get the picture right that attracted me.
Happy swinging in 2020"
Yeah I leave a like but believe it or not many woman don’t get nice compliments. Sure they get loads of hey babe or great tits. But if you see something in a photo you like. Let them know what it is. Be classy and charming. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance) "
Ah like a bookmark. Can you search for sent winks though to keep track? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance) "
So if I get a wink I’m to message you or wait on the reserves ?  |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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If I like someone's profile but not sure if I am what they are looking for.
It's lazy perhaps,but I prefer to think of it as not intrusive. I don't want to hassle people if they're not interested |
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"Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance)
Ah like a bookmark. Can you search for sent winks though to keep track? "
You can't actually - but I mostly get a message if i've winked at someone. If not, I don't do it often and remember the username to send a message later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away. "
Tuesday i can't wink at you... you've broken my winkety-wink  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away.
Tuesday i can't wink at you... you've broken my winkety-wink "
Same. Leave them a forum wink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to know why people use the wink on here?
When you send a wink what are you hoping for in return ?"
Its an ice breaker
It says you are interested
Most guys moan about everything |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Curious to know why people use the wink on here?
When you send a wink what are you hoping for in return ?
Its an ice breaker
It says you are interested
Most guys moan about everything "
You ain’t moaning about guys moaning are you?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A wank would be nice in return but no one takes notice of them
Gave ya a wink instead
Very kind of you "
She’s gonna wink us all off. Merry bloody Christmas  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wink to show interest.
We’ve lately had a few profiles wink us then a minute later send friend invites and don’t reply to messages"
Yeah a wink and a friend invite before a conversation is like someone trying to ram their cock through your letter box. |
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"To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away.
Tuesday i can't wink at you... you've broken my winkety-wink "
Oh I am so sorry hun I think I fixed it for you though I am not very good with these things wink away xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it.
I spent years thinking I was out of most girls league all through my 20s. In my 30s I changed to fuck that. I’m great. I may not be their type but I’m certainly not out of anyone’s league. Neither are you or any other man on here. Be confident and know you the fucking man "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you 
Ah the game of life "
Messages darlings
Can't be prompt
Or timed
Most people don't even check their profiles |
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Yes I am sorry to the guys my man filter is up. Nothing against you all I am sure you are all wonderful it is just if I take it down I will get a hundred emails in the next fifteen minutes. If we had an inbox that could filter contacts and non contacts it would not be so much of an issue xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I am sorry to the guys my man filter is up. Nothing against you all I am sure you are all wonderful it is just if I take it down I will get a hundred emails in the next fifteen minutes. If we had an inbox that could filter contacts and non contacts it would not be so much of an issue xxx"
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We were on the cams once and had the filters open. We literally had thousands of views on the profiles hundreds of winks as well as hundreds of emails. It went crazy. We were only on for a few hours lol. We don't do it very often, it is fun when we do chatting to people but it is one crazy experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only sent my first wink today as I am getting more confident in the site. Sent a few messages last week and got some read.. I thought that was cool, but I am not great at this stuff so... maybe a few more might help? I hope I get noticed.. but my profile is crap so.. not sure |
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"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you "
The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!?  ” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...
This is a great post cuz some people say on their profile they just delete winks like it’s a nuisance I guess, which is a shame....We personally wink to gauge interest as mentioned above. We don’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea so if we do wink it’s out of genuine interest based on what we’ve seen on profile and what we’re looking for, with the hope that if it is reciprocated. Its a good icebreaker for conversations that hopefully leads to positive interaction. It’s just another form of (non-verbal) communication that has its benefits I guess; some would disagree and that’s fine too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think winks are like little SONAR pings you fire 1 off at a profile in the hope that the owner(s) of said profile will return the wink thus giving confidence to spark up something.
But it's late and I'm rambling ha highland park you bad bad tipple!
Happy Christmas x |
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"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you
The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!? ” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...
This is a great post cuz some people say on their profile they just delete winks like it’s a nuisance I guess, which is a shame....We personally wink to gauge interest as mentioned above. We don’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea so if we do wink it’s out of genuine interest based on what we’ve seen on profile and what we’re looking for, with the hope that if it is reciprocated. Its a good icebreaker for conversations that hopefully leads to positive interaction. It’s just another form of (non-verbal) communication that has its benefits I guess; some would disagree and that’s fine too! "
I agree with you and few times happened to me they send me wink after they fab my pictures they send msg and after they hide their profiles ?? |
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"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you
The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!? ” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...
This is a great post cuz some people say on their profile they just delete winks like it’s a nuisance I guess, which is a shame....We personally wink to gauge interest as mentioned above. We don’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea so if we do wink it’s out of genuine interest based on what we’ve seen on profile and what we’re looking for, with the hope that if it is reciprocated. Its a good icebreaker for conversations that hopefully leads to positive interaction. It’s just another form of (non-verbal) communication that has its benefits I guess; some would disagree and that’s fine too!
I agree with you and few times happened to me they send me wink after they fab my pictures they send msg and after they hide their profiles ?? "
Madness...and the thing we always say is, if you won’t do it in person why do it on a chat room or whatever. It’s just so rude and impolite- but those behaviours are “cool” nowadays I guess. Getting old! #ghostingissoooocool (smh) |
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"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you
The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!? ” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...
This is a great post cuz some people say on their profile they just delete winks like it’s a nuisance I guess, which is a shame....We personally wink to gauge interest as mentioned above. We don’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea so if we do wink it’s out of genuine interest based on what we’ve seen on profile and what we’re looking for, with the hope that if it is reciprocated. Its a good icebreaker for conversations that hopefully leads to positive interaction. It’s just another form of (non-verbal) communication that has its benefits I guess; some would disagree and that’s fine too!
I agree with you and few times happened to me they send me wink after they fab my pictures they send msg and after they hide their profiles ??
Madness...and the thing we always say is, if you won’t do it in person why do it on a chat room or whatever. It’s just so rude and impolite- but those behaviours are “cool” nowadays I guess. Getting old! #ghostingissoooocool (smh) "
I do agree with you is quite rude even knowing not everyone is everyone's cup tea but |
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