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Wife's who didn't want to swing but you did for husband
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. |
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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "
It's concerning and a situation I avoid as hard as I can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "
Seen this too, really just don’t understand it. And the d*unk thing at clubs really irks me too; regardless of whether it’s Dutch courage you should make sure you’re always in control. |
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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "
All the negative behaviour I've seen in clubs has been from couples falling out "He's a fooking liar! We agreed about this!".....and cue wife storming out |
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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "
Nothing as unattractive as a woman too d*unk to walk in her heels..... |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples .. "
But is it that simple? What if one of you wants to carry on? |
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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples ..
But is it that simple? What if one of you wants to carry on? "
Yes it is that simple |
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"Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples ..
But is it that simple? What if one of you wants to carry on? "
Then we would have a conversation about it and work it out together hopefully ,till then its good for us both ..  |
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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "
Oh yes....we sit and people watch when we want a break from playing...and it happens a lot more than you think it does...  |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?
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Is one of you not being pressured in do doing what you do not want to do? ie not playing? Does it not work both ways? |
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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "
I've seen this so many times....I avoid like the plague.
And the d*unk people are the main reason that I avoid clubs |
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"How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?
Is one of you not being pressured in do doing what you do not want to do? ie not playing? Does it not work both ways?"
No. Not playing is the default. |
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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?
Is one of you not being pressured in do doing what you do not want to do? ie not playing? Does it not work both ways?"
Its different relationship dynamics. I'd rather feel my views are respected and he's not desperate enough to have to stay and play when I didn't want to and visa versa. Our relationship takes priority but ultimately it's about communication. |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
Portsmouth |
I decided to swing, and hubby completely understands and would never push me into anything. It's me on here 99 percent of the time, unlike a lot, and will always prove it on the phone fem to fem only. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow... personally id have more respect for her than to push her into it... she should never do this just to make you happy. 'Caught the bug'??? Sorry pal but this has utter disaster written all over it. |
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