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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers."
It's at that moment I tell them to fuck off and stop being hypocrites.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we say won't meet over 50s but ya never know there may be one that comes along that we are able to see past a number to meet
you set out your rules when you start but you find after time they become more flexable, you have ideals but as time goes on you find that your being rediculously tight in your ideals
maybe they played unwittingly with some smokers at a club or party at some point only afterwards finding out they smoke and now realise that not all smokers smell like an ashtray so decided that they can bend a touch now
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even had one couple say as long as you dont smoke when we are playing, hang on yes we do smoke but we can go a while without a cig  "
oh I can't go that long. so I look for men with flat heads, I always find that helpful so the ashtray doesn't fall off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers."
yes all the time, whenever i point out i smoke they will say 'oh i'll over look it for you as i really want to meet you' 
even had one today say when i said i smoke and you dont meet smokers, thats ok i smoke really i only put that so as not to put none smokers off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even had one couple say as long as you dont smoke when we are playing, hang on yes we do smoke but we can go a while without a cig "
you mean you can go a whole shag without a fag? blimey your half way to packing up lol
to be honest if i meet none smikers i tend not to smoke on a meet so long as they are fine about the fact i smoke and dont start making demands, if i spoke to someone who told me i couldnt have a fag if we met id tell them where to get off, either that or meet them and chain smoke lol |
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"Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers."
Several times.Would be better, if they have this "rule" that they are willing to "bend", to then qualify it with whats OK and whats not on their profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have had that alot of time why dont they just put will meet smokers meet one couple had dont meet smokers and smoked their selfs when asked they said it was for people who dont smoke |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We get this quite alot. Even had so called none smokers, who will meet smokers, offer us a cigarette on a meet lol"
or you meet them and they put a box on the side and say we only smoke when we meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers."
Isn't that a bit like people who put "no single guys" then somewhere else say "we'll find you"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I point it out to 'won't meet smakers' that contact me, they normally say "oh I didn't realise that was on there, I have no problem with smokers, I must change that" and nyes I have had a few non smokers turn up with ciggies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers.yes all the time, whenever i point out i smoke they will say 'oh i'll over look it for you as i really want to meet you'
even had one today say when i said i smoke and you dont meet smokers, thats ok i smoke really i only put that so as not to put none smokers off "
I have met a few non smokers who are happy to light up if I do. I agree they won't state it on their profiles so they dont narrow their chances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Straight men who suck cock, couples who are actually singles, 'Condom always' who sometimes go bareback and non smokers meeters who may just meet smokers. Do people actually believe everyone is totally honest on here! Some deceive, others have a change of heart and it can be a fine line between the two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight men who suck cock, couples who are actually singles, 'Condom always' who sometimes go bareback and non smokers meeters who may just meet smokers. Do people actually believe everyone is totally honest on here! Some deceive, others have a change of heart and it can be a fine line between the two."
nah i dont believe anythi9ng i read on here
only people on here who are honest are cheating men cause noone lies about that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you had ppl that dont smoke and dont meet smokers, start chatting and want to meet you, then when you say you smoke and they dont meet smokers they say '' we will over look it '' so why not just say will meet smokers.
Isn't that a bit like people who put "no single guys" then somewhere else say "we'll find you"?"
I think your last paragraph is just people politely, but awkwardly, trying to say "don't call us, we'll call you" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight men who suck cock, couples who are actually singles, 'Condom always' who sometimes go bareback and non smokers meeters who may just meet smokers. Do people actually believe everyone is totally honest on here! Some deceive, others have a change of heart and it can be a fine line between the two."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight men who suck cock, couples who are actually singles, 'Condom always' who sometimes go bareback and non smokers meeters who may just meet smokers. Do people actually believe everyone is totally honest on here! Some deceive, others have a change of heart and it can be a fine line between the two.
nah i dont believe anythi9ng i read on here
only people on here who are honest are cheating men cause noone lies about that lol"
Actually you may just have discovered something there. The men who admit to it are probably the most honest with others if not their wife. How strange is that then you think about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can't believe people hide the fact they smoke on fab, how stupid is that.If i want a fag i'll have a fag and if i meet people who dont smoke its their choice, because i will smoke in my own home and if people dont like it tough.  |
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"Actually you may just have discovered something there. The men who admit to it are probably the most honest with others if not their wife. How strange is that then you think about it."
yet they are generally regarded as the lowest of the low on here lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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It is not always clear cut - neither of us smoke but we would be ok meeting considerate smokers - not keen on going into a smoking environment though, for example into somebody's living room where it is their perfect right to smoke. |
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