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"What could you say to find out if a person is agreeing with you because it may be easier to do just that for them?"
.......ask them if this is the case? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ask them if they think you jumping off a cliff is a good idea because you really think its a good idea you just need someone elses opinion.."
You don't think thats a little too subtle? |
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"ask them if they think you jumping off a cliff is a good idea because you really think its a good idea you just need someone elses opinion..
You don't think thats a little too subtle?"
Yes.....so just jump off the cliff and see what their reaction is to that.
*Disclaimer.....at no point did I mean to suggest that this man really jump off a cliff
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"ask them if they think you jumping off a cliff is a good idea because you really think its a good idea you just need someone elses opinion..
You don't think thats a little too subtle?
Yes.....so just jump off the cliff and see what their reaction is to that.
*Disclaimer.....at no point did I mean to suggest that this man really jump off a cliff
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ask them if they think you jumping off a cliff is a good idea because you really think its a good idea you just need someone elses opinion..
You don't think thats a little too subtle?
Yes.....so just jump off the cliff and see what their reaction is to that.
*Disclaimer.....at no point did I mean to suggest that this man really jump off a cliff
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as if i would!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes its best to agree with someone rather than oppose them, sometimes one is battling a losing war, I do that every time I have a conversation with my mother, the phone is on hands free and every now and again I just say "oh right" or similar
I think I would feel a bit off if it was the other way around but I don't think that people do it to me |
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"What could you say to find out if a person is agreeing with you because it may be easier to do just that for them?"
Why torture yourself and them ?
The fact is that you THINK they just agree with you for ease. Whose ease? Theirs ? Yours ?
If they do it - Why do they do it?
Cos they find speaking their mind difficult or because you go off at the deep end at the truth and they can't handle the hassle ?
DON'T ANSWER ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS.
None of the above matters really. What matters is that deciding what is right is YOUR responsibility not theirs. Assuming the issue is about you.
Putting responsibility on someone else and then adding an extra layer of angst is enough to make anyone agree for a bit of peace.....
YOU DECIDE. Regardless of what they say or what you THINK they THINK. k
Talk about creating difficulties. |
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"What could you say to find out if a person is agreeing with you because it may be easier to do just that for them?
Why torture yourself and them ?
The fact is that you THINK they just agree with you for ease. Whose ease? Theirs ? Yours ?
If they do it - Why do they do it?
Cos they find speaking their mind difficult or because you go off at the deep end at the truth and they can't handle the hassle ?
DON'T ANSWER ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS.
None of the above matters really. What matters is that deciding what is right is YOUR responsibility not theirs. Assuming the issue is about you.
Putting responsibility on someone else and then adding an extra layer of angst is enough to make anyone agree for a bit of peace.....
YOU DECIDE. Regardless of what they say or what you THINK they THINK. k
Talk about creating difficulties. "
She was talking to another person and she said that she agrees with this guy. And this girl agrees with me I was wondering if for the same reason |
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