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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?
Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some messages of new people are so lacking confidence i feel like replying telling them but, its something that they have to find out feel for themselves
like when you get asked can i improve on my profile only the person knows that not a stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get quite a few messages from newbies.. 
If I get a message that was perhaps okayish but profile was naf.. then I will point out a few things.
I also sometimes advise guys that send me.. "I am new here, and would like to fuck you" type messages.. I point out that they are going to remain swinging virgins forever with messages like that.
cali. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all started somewhere and sometimes if they're asking for advice ill give it,but that depends on what they're asking really,but I won't get too drawn into the chat,they need to be able to use their initiative and work it out for themselves too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if they wink or send an uninvited friends request, i will ignore
if they take the trouble to message me, i will respond, even if it is just a polite 'no thanks' |
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"Ill also sometimes pm from a forum thread if it looks like they're getting a hard time after asking a simple question on here"
Ooooh must make a note to alter my strategy.
I remember when i was new, i noticed a poster offer help on a thread. So i messaged, politely i think, seeking some advice/help for myself.
The reply was something like "you don't need any ****ing help".  happy days.
That said, a number of doctors, specialists, disagree.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill also sometimes pm from a forum thread if it looks like they're getting a hard time after asking a simple question on here
Ooooh must make a note to alter my strategy.
I remember when i was new, i noticed a poster offer help on a thread. So i messaged, politely i think, seeking some advice/help for myself.
The reply was something like "you don't need any ****ing help". happy days.
That said, a number of doctors, specialists, disagree. "
You did'nt though! you were joining in making people laugh and it was like you had been here ages
help indeed!
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"Newbies are the life blood of this site.
Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd."
Ever thought there'd be more room for newbies IF those who we're leaving actually got on and did it  |
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"Newbies are the life blood of this site.
Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd.
Ever thought there'd be more room for newbies IF those who we're leaving actually got on and did it "
Shut it Mushy!!!
I'm leaving! It's just taking more time than I had thought! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Newbies are the life blood of this site.
Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd."
Do you work as a salesman for them old biddy chariots??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fresh meat, erm, I mean newbies are great for the scene.
Who wants to bang the same hole every meet?
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By the way, it's my attempt at a joke  |
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Unless they're abusive I try to offer advice and guide them in the right direction the main reason being we all have to start somewhere, we were all there once and... there are so many moans and complaints on here about messages being wrong, badly worded, short and abrupt that really we should let people know our expectations? |
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"...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?
Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead?"
I don't think I take much notice of how long someone has been on the site when I look at their message.
If someone asks for advice in a message, I will more than likely answer their questions. But I am unlikely to start preaching at them just because they don't do things the way I like.... that's what the forum is for
If you give people pointers it is important to remember they are only your preferences, the next person they message might like things done a different way..... after all, "fancy a shag" messages do work with someone people. |
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"...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?
Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead?
I don't think I take much notice of how long someone has been on the site when I look at their message.
If someone asks for advice in a message, I will more than likely answer their questions. But I am unlikely to start preaching at them just because they don't do things the way I like.... that's what the forum is for
If you give people pointers it is important to remember they are only your preferences, the next person they message might like things done a different way..... after all, "fancy a shag" messages do work with someone people."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had spells, on & off, where I've blocked newbies, as I've found them to be mainly fantasists/timewasters. {Usually unblocked when one has caught my eye! Lol}
I've met some, given advice to some, blocked a lot more. Had one only the other day. 2 days on site, Gold member, returned a couple of messages, realised he was a dick, told him & blocked. 'User no longer on site' an hour later! One thing I have noticed though, is despite the number I block, my 'block list' doesn't seem to get any longer, as many are the same people returning to the site under another name. |
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