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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"  "
Precisely this  I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
Fab friends, I feel more relaxed with someone I know and like and this leads to exploring different things together. Also it’s nice to be able to chat openly about all things fab. I’ve met some lovely people on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab friends, I feel more relaxed with someone I know and like and this leads to exploring different things together. Also it’s nice to be able to chat openly about all things fab. I’ve met some lovely people on here. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would prefer regular. However, although I've achieved this in the past, it seems to be impossible now . I'm probably a shit shag and a fucking awful friend, so I settle for one offs. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
Definitely one offs with separate meets unless there’s something really special and we ask if they would also be interested in a couple meet. We discuss this right at the start, it’s what works for us. As a couple we like to build on meets too it is good to build on that relationship and makes the next meet sooo much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One off"s ..we do not swing to form relationships, we have each other for that and friends and family..swinging is kept separate to or normal everyday life..this saves it getting complicated.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"
Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person "
Is that not a relationship then and not swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely one offs with separate meets unless there’s something really special and we ask if they would also be interested in a couple meet. We discuss this right at the start, it’s what works for us. As a couple we like to build on meets too it is good to build on that relationship and makes the next meet sooo much better"
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"
Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person
Is that not a relationship then and not swinging "
Not necessarily. I'd class it as a fwb scenario where you have friendship and sex but without deeper emotional entanglement. I realize many people are unable to keep the libes from becoming blurred, but for those who can, like I, it's brilliant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"
Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person
Is that not a relationship then and not swinging "
If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"
Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person
Is that not a relationship then and not swinging
If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them "
I get your point..its just not for us, we do not want to blur the lines between our swinging life and or normal life |
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One offs .
We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .
Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .
On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"
Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person
Is that not a relationship then and not swinging
If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them
I get your point..its just not for us, we do not want to blur the lines between our swinging life and or normal life "
Yes, I also get that
It could become a thin line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely regular.
BUT
Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"
Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person
Is that not a relationship then and not swinging
If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them
I get your point..its just not for us, we do not want to blur the lines between our swinging life and or normal life
Yes, I also get that
It could become a thin line"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One offs .
We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .
Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .
On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life ."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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spontaneous one-offs with random, attractive people are very intoxicating. For us, regulars become very boring.
Everyone is different and each to their own x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"One offs .
We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .
Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .
On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life ."
As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One offs .
We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .
Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .
On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .
As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon "
I can see your point about it being different for couples..there is a currant thread asking about couples meeting couples on a regular basis.. but singles meeting singles on a regular basis..is that swinging or is that a relationship.. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"One offs .
We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .
Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .
On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .
As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon
I can see your point about it being different for couples..there is a currant thread asking about couples meeting couples on a regular basis.. but singles meeting singles on a regular basis..is that swinging or is that a relationship.. "
Personally I don't think it is either, I call it just being trying to be compatible as much as possible to make the experience as good as possible for both parties but as I have practically stopped meeting I don't know anymore than that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One offs .
We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .
Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .
On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .
As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon
I can see your point about it being different for couples..there is a currant thread asking about couples meeting couples on a regular basis.. but singles meeting singles on a regular basis..is that swinging or is that a relationship..
Personally I don't think it is either, I call it just being trying to be compatible as much as possible to make the experience as good as possible for both parties but as I have practically stopped meeting I don't know anymore than that! "
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