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Difference between male and female orgasms
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ever wondered what the opposite sexes orgasm actually feel like, are they the same, similar or totally different. Purely the actually feeling, guess there’s no way we will ever know ?! |
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There’s probably more similarities than differences, a bloke’s orgasm can be quite mild if you’re just throwing one over the thumb to pass the time or can be really intense when the foursome you’ve enjoyed for the last couple of hours comes to a, errr, climax. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve often wondered whether the orgasm from pegging (which friends say is more of an all body experience) is closer to a female orgasm than the male ejaculation orgasm. |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
A world all of his own |
"I’ve often wondered whether the orgasm from pegging (which friends say is more of an all body experience) is closer to a female orgasm than the male ejaculation orgasm."
Having had a prostate orgasm, sweet mother of god I had to be peeled off the ceiling  if that's a female orgasm, you're all lucky bastards  |
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"I've heard that a man's orgasm is kind of like a clitoral orgasm.
How someone worked that out I do not know. "
I think I heard, its because the clitoris and the male glans are coming from the same starting point when a baby develops in the womb. The clitoris has more nerve endings in a much smaller space whereas the glans has less over a bigger area. The pleasureable feeling from them is similar, though more intense and sensitive in the clitoris. Its also the reason why blood flow increases to both when aroused, to increase the sensitivity even more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to be a man for a day, just to see what sex feels like. I can't imagine a make orgasm is anywhere near as good as a women though. For starters they don't last as long as a woman's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wondered yes but orgasms are different for different people never mind just man and woman so i tend not to worry about it if were both a smiley exhausted mess after then im happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.
I need to put a towel down for that very reason 
Not my bed, I don't care  "
They think I’m squirting but I pee like a fountain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My big problem with answering this question is that I have various different types of orgasms due to a variety of differing factors. I presume men do too, at the very least a potential distinction between ejaculation, and the type of orgasm that potentially can be shown to be distinct from typical ejaculation through say tantric non-ejaculating orgasm or ruined orgasm type practices. I would guess there’s likely some variety even in the orgasm associated with ejaculation for men, in the same way I can experience differing orgasms from the same stimulation depending on factors such as my state of relaxation, intensity of a scenario, or feeling for my partner and so on (where the variance is *not* whether it’s a vaginal, clitoral or anal orgasm, which are also all different sensations).
So in short, I ain’t got the foggiest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes ive often wondered
I kind of presumed the female one is better !
Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?"
Cause of the multiple orgasm thing, plus Sally in ‘When Harry met Sally’ seems to be having fun in the diner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.
I need to put a towel down for that very reason
Not my bed, I don't care
They think I’m squirting but I pee like a fountain. "
That's you off my hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.
I need to put a towel down for that very reason
Not my bed, I don't care
They think I’m squirting but I pee like a fountain. "
Why am I still turned on by this?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes ive often wondered
I kind of presumed the female one is better !
I kind of presumed the male one is better."
We should get in bed and find out.
Purely for science of course  |
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"Yes ive often wondered
I kind of presumed the female one is better !
I kind of presumed the male one is better.
We should get in bed and find out.
Purely for science of course "
How are we going to decide though,who screams the most? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end."
I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end.
I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy "
This. Is. Epic.
I won’t ever be able to write another smut scene without thinking of tingling, dancing joy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes ive often wondered
I kind of presumed the female one is better !
I kind of presumed the male one is better.
We should get in bed and find out.
Purely for science of course
How are we going to decide though,who screams the most?"
I haven't thought that far ahead. Suppose we could just play it by ear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end.
I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy "
This is pretty much it, just want to reach the end point as soon as possible, then clean up and get on with the rest of my day. |
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
In cave behind a waterfall on a hill |
"I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end.
I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy "
I'll never be able to listen to dancing in the dark again.... |
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By *luteguyMan
over a year ago
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"I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end.
I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy "
That’s a pretty good description |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I had my own cock to find out..just for a day you can piss standing up and play ‘which tile can I hit?’ In the shower  "
Not a penis only activity.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?
My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op. "
 hope he feels better now, sending him virtual hugs xox |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?
My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op. "
When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?
My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.
When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door. "
Which brand was it ? |
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"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?
My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.
When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door. "
Did they make your arms stick out to the side like wings or rounded in front of you like you were holding a large invisible barrel question mark |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?
My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.
When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door.
Did they make your arms stick out to the side like wings or rounded in front of you like you were holding a large invisible barrel question mark"
They were like an X across my chest, I’d be fucked if I fell over, but on the plus side they were already broken. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?
My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.
When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door.
Which brand was it ? "
Smeg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes ive often wondered
I kind of presumed the female one is better !
Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?
Multiple and different types of orgasm maybe? "
I think that when we talk this subject we should separate being in an orgasmic state, from having a peak climax.
Once you learn how to achieve a better otgasmic state, the the climax that follows will always be better.
As this is a state change, so it makes no difference what sex you are, men are also more than capable of multiple non-ejacultory climaxes, if they are prepared to work on it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes ive often wondered
I kind of presumed the female one is better !
Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?
Multiple and different types of orgasm maybe?
I think that when we talk this subject we should separate being in an orgasmic state, from having a peak climax.
Once you learn how to achieve a better otgasmic state, the the climax that follows will always be better.
As this is a state change, so it makes no difference what sex you are, men are also more than capable of multiple non-ejacultory climaxes, if they are prepared to work on it.
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Mate, I just want to blow my beans, tap my cock on the outside of the vagina a few times then get on with the rest of my day, I’m not bloody Sting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession. "
I’ve found that men can do it too if they allow it, yes they will go soft (some) as thats physical, but given a few mins of massage and continuity and they are ready to go! Total myth that men cum once and that’s it for ages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession.
So you tell us, but I think it’s an urban myth."
Me too! I’ve had 6 times in a few hours, so I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession.
I’ve found that men can do it too if they allow it, yes they will go soft (some) as thats physical, but given a few mins of massage and continuity and they are ready to go! Total myth that men cum once and that’s it for ages!"
If you get the mind state in just the right place, men can ejaculate whilst still soft,
But, full body male orgasms are better than most ejaculaions anyway.
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I’m permanently (almost) locked in chastity and on the rare occasions I am released I’m not allowed to wank..... I don’t miss conventional male orgasm/ejaculation when she fucks and fists me I have amazing orgasms which last for ages and even 30 mins after I get orgasmic spasms. I never feel that I have cum so I never feel the ‘spent’ feeling I did when I used to cum. Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m permanently (almost) locked in chastity and on the rare occasions I am released I’m not allowed to wank..... I don’t miss conventional male orgasm/ejaculation when she fucks and fists me I have amazing orgasms which last for ages and even 30 mins after I get orgasmic spasms. I never feel that I have cum so I never feel the ‘spent’ feeling I did when I used to cum. Just saying "
Sounds like you need a wank dude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My big problem with answering this question is that I have various different types of orgasms due to a variety of differing factors. I presume men do too, at the very least a potential distinction between ejaculation, and the type of orgasm that potentially can be shown to be distinct from typical ejaculation through say tantric non-ejaculating orgasm or ruined orgasm type practices. I would guess there’s likely some variety even in the orgasm associated with ejaculation for men, in the same way I can experience differing orgasms from the same stimulation depending on factors such as my state of relaxation, intensity of a scenario, or feeling for my partner and so on (where the variance is *not* whether it’s a vaginal, clitoral or anal orgasm, which are also all different sensations).
So in short, I ain’t got the foggiest. "
you have hit the nail in the head. I think orgasms differ greatly from person to person, regardless of sex, and for the person themselves the experience can be greatly different.
For me, some orgasms to explode from the prostate area, at other times it is the head of the penis where it is centered.
Every partner I have ever been with seemed to orgasm differently in terms of intensity and frequency. |
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"I’m permanently (almost) locked in chastity and on the rare occasions I am released I’m not allowed to wank..... I don’t miss conventional male orgasm/ejaculation when she fucks and fists me I have amazing orgasms which last for ages and even 30 mins after I get orgasmic spasms. I never feel that I have cum so I never feel the ‘spent’ feeling I did when I used to cum. Just saying
Sounds like you need a wank dude."
Dude... I’m good |
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