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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't waste my time chatting with someone with no face pics and if they won't send them would delete before they had a chance to ask to be friends. I now won't accept friends requests unless we've met in person, too many pic collectors and timewasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they haven't sent pics and there's no prospect of meeting - message deleted.
If a meet is being discussed I will request face pics.
I never add to Friends before meeting.
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What if you've chatted for a bit??"
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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I'm talking about a scenario where I've seen maybe a couple of face pics sent privately (the computer screenshot kind) but no body pics, and there's nothing on the profile, no friends gallery, and they're asking me to add them and see all the rest of my pics without me seeing anything really 
It just feels a bit, I dunno, unequal when that happens - is it just me? I don't think they're a picture collector or anything, I just feel that it shouldn't be a one way exchange.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I’m chatting to them (and enjoying that) I’d just discuss this with them too. It may spur them to add or share more pics with goodwill or say they don’t really have any - in which case it’s fair to say that I’m not really inclined to share mine at this point, but I’d be happy to if we progressed to meeting and all went well, but that it’s just a little uneven and there’s no real need to be “friends” on here other than to share pics. If that’s not acceptable to them then they’ve kinda just told you a lot about them as a person, all useful. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If I’m chatting to them (and enjoying that) I’d just discuss this with them too. It may spur them to add or share more pics with goodwill or say they don’t really have any - in which case it’s fair to say that I’m not really inclined to share mine at this point, but I’d be happy to if we progressed to meeting and all went well, but that it’s just a little uneven and there’s no real need to be “friends” on here other than to share pics. If that’s not acceptable to them then they’ve kinda just told you a lot about them as a person, all useful. "
Yeah, they did - they blocked me for refusing their friend request lol!
I have refused a few times for that reason, I don't think I'm being unreasonable - and if those people lose interest at that point it kind of proves my point. It just doesn't 'feel' right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I’m chatting to them (and enjoying that) I’d just discuss this with them too. It may spur them to add or share more pics with goodwill or say they don’t really have any - in which case it’s fair to say that I’m not really inclined to share mine at this point, but I’d be happy to if we progressed to meeting and all went well, but that it’s just a little uneven and there’s no real need to be “friends” on here other than to share pics. If that’s not acceptable to them then they’ve kinda just told you a lot about them as a person, all useful.
Yeah, they did - they blocked me for refusing their friend request lol!
I have refused a few times for that reason, I don't think I'm being unreasonable - and if those people lose interest at that point it kind of proves my point. It just doesn't 'feel' right."
Bingo!!
I genuinely think you wouldn’t have the gut reaction to pause if there wasn’t other probably unconscious cues you’d picked up too. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd put everything in private and accept,then he'll know how annoying it is."
There isn't really much point in the friend thing other than to see pics - you can keep track of people on hotlist if you want. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If I’m chatting to them (and enjoying that) I’d just discuss this with them too. It may spur them to add or share more pics with goodwill or say they don’t really have any - in which case it’s fair to say that I’m not really inclined to share mine at this point, but I’d be happy to if we progressed to meeting and all went well, but that it’s just a little uneven and there’s no real need to be “friends” on here other than to share pics. If that’s not acceptable to them then they’ve kinda just told you a lot about them as a person, all useful.
Yeah, they did - they blocked me for refusing their friend request lol!
I have refused a few times for that reason, I don't think I'm being unreasonable - and if those people lose interest at that point it kind of proves my point. It just doesn't 'feel' right.
Bingo!!
I genuinely think you wouldn’t have the gut reaction to pause if there wasn’t other probably unconscious cues you’d picked up too. "
There is that too lol!  |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd tell them there'd be no point as my friends pics are no more explicit than my public pics!
Ps I can't believe he blocked you tbh but it saves wasting any more time."
Well exactly - the kind of reaction I would expect from someone I would want to meet is 'Oh, Ok, no problem!' or 'Oh I see your point - I really ought to find a few pics to upload' haha!
Mind you, maybe the kind of guy I want to meet has the wit to load enough bloody public pics in the first place.....   |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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We would assure them we have no naughty pics to show and if they want to see our faces just send theirs and ours will be returned.
Id suggest they hotlist us if they are that keen to keep up with what we are up to... We only add people we have actually met to our friends list... our Updates are already a good half hour read as a result!
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