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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to meet couples but now I don’t as I didn’t like the dynamics, but love a mff! To be blunt I’d prefer a woman joining me and gentleman, but this means I understand if single women feel the same, causing a catch 22 situation.
Do you as a single woman join couples or not? What are your reasons why? If you do, do you have a preference ie. your fb and invite a woman in, must be a long term couple you join, prefer 3 singles or any other reasons you have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have met couples in the past and i am in two minds whether to go for it again ..
But it would have to be a solid married couple, and id have to fancy both of them.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have met couples in the past and i am in two minds whether to go for it again ..
But it would have to be a solid married couple, and id have to fancy both of them.."
I found it hard to find couples were I fancied both, it always seemed to be one or the other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have met couples in the past and i am in two minds whether to go for it again ..
But it would have to be a solid married couple, and id have to fancy both of them..
I found it hard to find couples were I fancied both, it always seemed to be one or the other "
I hear you!
Also i like tallish women and usually he is tall and she is not.. lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I guess I'm no longer a single woman (I still meet as one though so I can still answer I think). I do meet couples but only if I like both and they both like me - it can be quite difficult to find that attraction. I don't mind long term couples or close 'fuckbuddies' I just don't want grief during or following it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess I'm no longer a single woman (I still meet as one though so I can still answer I think). I do meet couples but only if I like both and they both like me - it can be quite difficult to find that attraction. I don't mind long term couples or close 'fuckbuddies' I just don't want grief during or following it! "
That’s the thing, isn’t it. When it’s a genuine couple, you know your role as a single woman. It’s muddy waters otherwise. |
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As a single I got to a point where I'd started to avoid couples...
Now as part of one I tend to just play with couples who are like us, very secure, open minded and lots of fun...no problems anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I guess I'm no longer a single woman (I still meet as one though so I can still answer I think). I do meet couples but only if I like both and they both like me - it can be quite difficult to find that attraction. I don't mind long term couples or close 'fuckbuddies' I just don't want grief during or following it! "
I don’t know personally what I think is better, if it’s a married couple things could go wrong if it’s their first time (I had water thrown at me and him punched once). If it’s fuck buddies is it lacking intimacy. Three single could someone get left out if 2 favoured eachother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My best and worst meets have been with couples. I have a definite preference for couples where the female is the main correspondent, where she actively likes sex with women (not just a ff floorshow) and where, as much as I can discern, there’s genuine care and concern for each others desires. Well established and stable is good too.
Can be so hot fucking her while she blows him, or watching them kiss while he’s balls deep in you. |
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I’ve had a fantastic time with a few couples - usually in group situations at clubs and parties - which I prefer because it’s neutral territory and effectively a ‘safe zone’! How ever unthreatening they are (and most are absolutely lovely) if I visit a couple in their home or hotel room then there are two of them and one of me - which can be intimidating! Only done that once and it felt awkward because I’d had enough play time before they had - and I felt I had to justify myself for leaving!
Having said that - at a club or party - when there’s been mutual attraction from all parties- I’ve had some amazing fun with couples!
As I would with a guy, though, I socialise with them for a while first - essentially to make sure they’re swinging to provide the cherry on the cake rather than trying to rescue a dead relationship!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I had two meets with couples were the guy asked me to meet him behind her back afterward and also a couple of times when discussing a possible meet that the husband has said just meet me alone. Think this is what has put me off married couples, I don’t want to ruin relationships!  |
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"My best and worst meets have been with couples. I have a definite preference for couples where the female is the main correspondent, where she actively likes sex with women (not just a ff floorshow) and where, as much as I can discern, there’s genuine care and concern for each others desires. Well established and stable is good too.
Can be so hot fucking her while she blows him, or watching them kiss while he’s balls deep in you."
  I love it when I’m fingering the lady, making her squirm, whilst he’s rogering me from behind - and that grin they share with each other! I smile too - knowing that long after we’ve finished playing the thought of what we’re all doing will be turning them on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve had a fantastic time with a few couples - usually in group situations at clubs and parties - which I prefer because it’s neutral territory and effectively a ‘safe zone’! How ever unthreatening they are (and most are absolutely lovely) if I visit a couple in their home or hotel room then there are two of them and one of me - which can be intimidating! Only done that once and it felt awkward because I’d had enough play time before they had - and I felt I had to justify myself for leaving!
Having said that - at a club or party - when there’s been mutual attraction from all parties- I’ve had some amazing fun with couples!
As I would with a guy, though, I socialise with them for a while first - essentially to make sure they’re swinging to provide the cherry on the cake rather than trying to rescue a dead relationship!
Xx
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The better mffI’ve had have been in clubs. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. It can be intimidating meeting a couple on their territory and they think they can tell you what to do as they’re the ones sharing. Make me feel like a glorified sex toy! |
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"I’ve had a fantastic time with a few couples - usually in group situations at clubs and parties - which I prefer because it’s neutral territory and effectively a ‘safe zone’! How ever unthreatening they are (and most are absolutely lovely) if I visit a couple in their home or hotel room then there are two of them and one of me - which can be intimidating! Only done that once and it felt awkward because I’d had enough play time before they had - and I felt I had to justify myself for leaving!
Having said that - at a club or party - when there’s been mutual attraction from all parties- I’ve had some amazing fun with couples!
As I would with a guy, though, I socialise with them for a while first - essentially to make sure they’re swinging to provide the cherry on the cake rather than trying to rescue a dead relationship!
Xx
The better mffI’ve had have been in clubs. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. It can be intimidating meeting a couple on their territory and they think they can tell you what to do as they’re the ones sharing. Make me feel like a glorified sex toy!"
I can understand that!
It’s why I don’t say on my profile that I meet couples! If you enjoy it - but want it on everyones terms - then I’d recommend sticking to clubs and parties! Also a very easy way to make sure the female actually exists!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had two meets with couples were the guy asked me to meet him behind her back afterward and also a couple of times when discussing a possible meet that the husband has said just meet me alone. Think this is what has put me off married couples, I don’t want to ruin relationships! "
Yes. There’s lots of that . Shame when you think they’re hot and are looking forward to a good threesome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can be so hot fucking her while she blows him, or watching them kiss while he’s balls deep in you.
I love it when I’m fingering the lady, making her squirm, whilst he’s rogering me from behind - and that grin they share with each other! I smile too - knowing that long after we’ve finished playing the thought of what we’re all doing will be turning them on! "
Haha yes! That grin! And when he’s watching the two of you, trying to stay hands off so he can watch, the intensity of that look.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I’ve been seeing a guy over the last few weeks and he asked if I fancied bringing in another female and I said I would be happy to do that but it’s hard to find one that would feel comfortable with a couple who’s only fwb. He said he knew someone but He has met her in the past so I’d have to pretend I was joining them not her joining us or 3 singles. I’m actually confused how I feel about this! I flit from think ok to no from day to day  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh my gosh this is so difficult! I am part of a couple that is looking to explore more with a single lady but they are just few and far between. X "
It is so difficult, I’d love to find someone to join us but being on the other side, being a single woman joining a couple I understand their feelings of not wanting to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do understand that safety is a massive factor in this and totally understand where single ladies are coming from as they obviously would be meeting alone. That said, doesn’t make it any less frustrating |
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"I do understand that safety is a massive factor in this and totally understand where single ladies are coming from as they obviously would be meeting alone. That said, doesn’t make it any less frustrating "
Have you considered looking for one at a club or party?
A lot of the couples I’ve played with are ones who messaged me because we both happened to be attending the same club night! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I do understand that safety is a massive factor in this and totally understand where single ladies are coming from as they obviously would be meeting alone. That said, doesn’t make it any less frustrating "
Yeah safety is an issue and probably the only way around that would be a club meet, but a lot of single women don’t want to meet in clubs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do understand that safety is a massive factor in this and totally understand where single ladies are coming from as they obviously would be meeting alone. That said, doesn’t make it any less frustrating
Yeah safety is an issue and probably the only way around that would be a club meet, but a lot of single women don’t want to meet in clubs x"
That’s true also. We are looking to go to more clubs this year ( hopefully) maybe it will happen there. We are also now looking to meet other couples with a bi lady so hopefully it will happen |
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not? "
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them. |
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Do women that are in a cuckhold type of relationship meet with couples? Or is it just single guys?
Especially those that enjoy just hearing all the naughty play that has taken place, ie those that wait at home until the lady gets back from a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them."
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples. |
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples. "
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
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Great idea. Also maybe there’s couples who’s female half are happy to meet alone and they could arrange a “swap” I’ll join you two, then you join us two?! Might work for some |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
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I think it’s a great idea, we’d personally love to build up a relationship with a single female but understand that lots of women feel a bit awkward joining couples. So would be really good for us x |
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
I think it’s a great idea, we’d personally love to build up a relationship with a single female but understand that lots of women feel a bit awkward joining couples. So would be really good for us x "
Okidoke. I’ll pm the op later and see what her thoughts are! |
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"Oh my gosh this is so difficult! I am part of a couple that is looking to explore more with a single lady but they are just few and far between. X "
we have the same problem finding a local female for mff fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally love meeting couples and especially couples who haven't met with just a lady before.
Always social first after a few phonecalls and then the fun can begin.
Party's are a great way of meeting and breaking the ice but even with myself being confident I have found myself being overwhelmed being a single girl.
I think it's a great idea opening a thread like that up as it would be great for all people involved.
Oh and over the years I have only had one bad experience but it was due to alcohol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
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We like this idea, it’s so hard to meet women because of all the above, which we can understand totally but if there was a platform for this (more than our profile) women might feel differently towards us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess I'm no longer a single woman (I still meet as one though so I can still answer I think). I do meet couples but only if I like both and they both like me - it can be quite difficult to find that attraction. I don't mind long term couples or close 'fuckbuddies' I just don't want grief during or following it!
I don’t know personally what I think is better, if it’s a married couple things could go wrong if it’s their first time (I had water thrown at me and him punched once). If it’s fuck buddies is it lacking intimacy. Three single could someone get left out if 2 favoured eachother? "
Water thrown and punched?!!
Hope you were ok and you have them a piece of your mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've played as a single female and met couples, but it's not easy finding the right couple. I am fortunate in that I have found a very special couple who I play regularly with both on my own and with my partner.
I'm bi so I want to enjoy both the man and the woman, but I've come across a few different issues.
A) finding a couple where I fancy both
B) women sometimes pretended to be bi, just to please their man, or fulfill his fantasy of having 2 women,that feels awful on the single female
C) the couple have too many boundaries, eg the man isn't allowed to kiss/give oral/have full sex with the single female
D) the couple gave jealousy issues with each other
E) the man ends up wanting to see the single female behind his partners back
These are just a few that I've thought off the top of my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Regarding the proposed thread. It would be nice also to hear from couples who do have success with inviting women in. I’ve met twice with a fabulous couple who are fantastic at flirting, building anticipation, incredibly welcoming, genuine and sexy. It’s a privilege to meet them and it would be interesting to hear their thoughts on how they go about making their sex partners welcome. The guys they play with feel the same too it seems from the veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to meet couples but now I don’t as I didn’t like the dynamics, but love a mff! To be blunt I’d prefer a woman joining me and gentleman, but this means I understand if single women feel the same, causing a catch 22 situation.
Do you as a single woman join couples or not? What are your reasons why? If you do, do you have a preference ie. your fb and invite a woman in, must be a long term couple you join, prefer 3 singles or any other reasons you have "
Nope. I’m not that interested in women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I guess I'm no longer a single woman (I still meet as one though so I can still answer I think). I do meet couples but only if I like both and they both like me - it can be quite difficult to find that attraction. I don't mind long term couples or close 'fuckbuddies' I just don't want grief during or following it!
I don’t know personally what I think is better, if it’s a married couple things could go wrong if it’s their first time (I had water thrown at me and him punched once). If it’s fuck buddies is it lacking intimacy. Three single could someone get left out if 2 favoured eachother?
Water thrown and punched?!!
Hope you were ok and you have them a piece of your mind."
He was punched not me. I just called a taxi and got out of there ASAP. We remained friends but it put me off for years |
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
I think it’s a great idea, we’d personally love to build up a relationship with a single female but understand that lots of women feel a bit awkward joining couples. So would be really good for us x
Okidoke. I’ll pm the op later and see what her thoughts are! "
To all who may be interested, I’ll be starting a (hopefully long running) thread in the next day or two! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I originally joined the site three years ago, I did look for couples. I had a few socials but I never found both people equally attractive. Added to that, in two out of three cases, the male halves came onto me in private and told me how they'd already cheated on their other halves even though they hardly knew me and I just didn't want to be a part of it.
I'd rather have a ffm with two single friends where we all fancy each other. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I originally joined the site three years ago, I did look for couples. I had a few socials but I never found both people equally attractive. Added to that, in two out of three cases, the male halves came onto me in private and told me how they'd already cheated on their other halves even though they hardly knew me and I just didn't want to be a part of it.
I'd rather have a ffm with two single friends where we all fancy each other. "
I think that’s my frame of mind now, don’t want the couple dictating what I can and can’t do!
Maybe we should start a thread for swingles that want fun with multiple other swingles |
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"When I originally joined the site three years ago, I did look for couples. I had a few socials but I never found both people equally attractive. Added to that, in two out of three cases, the male halves came onto me in private and told me how they'd already cheated on their other halves even though they hardly knew me and I just didn't want to be a part of it.
I'd rather have a ffm with two single friends where we all fancy each other.
I think that’s my frame of mind now, don’t want the couple dictating what I can and can’t do!
Maybe we should start a thread for swingles that want fun with multiple other swingles "
Hey - I’m good with both!  |
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Generally avoid them on here. Too many rules, secret codes and left feeling like a performing seal.
In clubs, not a problem (though once had a woman freak out for kissing her fella, after she told him to) |
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"I have met couples in the past and i am in two minds whether to go for it again ..
But it would have to be a solid married couple, and id have to fancy both of them..
I found it hard to find couples were I fancied both, it always seemed to be one or the other "
We have this with couples or couples have the same with us. Like me but not my partner.. That’s why we mainly play with guys the dynamics much easier and happy for T to go off and play with single ladies if he wants to which is rarely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have any new threads been started yet? Xx
Nope - literally just finished work!
When I get home the laundry, the duster and the vacuum cleaner will be staring at me! "
Oh the joys!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It does suck to read about all the bad experiences some couples have when meeting women as we feel like it makes it harder for the rest of us who are genuine and just want all of us to have fun together. We'd love to have more FFM meets, or even find someone regular but alas it is such a task.  |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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Ladies joining us is definitely something we are keen on but I was very conscious that as we aren't a "proper couple" it may put some off. This thread has made me a little more optimistic at least. |
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"Ladies joining us is definitely something we are keen on but I was very conscious that as we aren't a "proper couple" it may put some off. This thread has made me a little more optimistic at least."
You may not be a ‘proper’ couple but you look like you are because of the chemistry between you
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
I think it’s a great idea, we’d personally love to build up a relationship with a single female but understand that lots of women feel a bit awkward joining couples. So would be really good for us x
Okidoke. I’ll pm the op later and see what her thoughts are!
To all who may be interested, I’ll be starting a (hopefully long running) thread in the next day or two! "
I think this is a fantastic idea, I hope it’s successful and everyone benefits from it. I’ll keep an eye on it, I like a happy ending |
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"Do you as a single woman join couples or not?
And if you do, please consider us
Seriously, I think it's something that doesn't get talked about enough. Hats off to those that do and can make it work for them.
I’m on the forums all the time and there’s always threads about couples looking for women but never women discussing what they want or don’t want when meeting couples.
Well - we’re on about thread no 700 or so in the bbw and admirers threads - where’s the harm in having a long-running couples and single females thread? If enough used it over a series of threads - it would be a great way for couples and fems to develop a rapport!
When the fem felt comfortable she could then pm the couple - or invite them to pm her!
It would help forum couples too as hopefully they’d no longer have to ‘prospect ‘ by sending out loads of messages to ladies who may not be remotely interested!
What do we think?
Do people like this idea?
I think it’s a great idea, we’d personally love to build up a relationship with a single female but understand that lots of women feel a bit awkward joining couples. So would be really good for us x
Okidoke. I’ll pm the op later and see what her thoughts are!
To all who may be interested, I’ll be starting a (hopefully long running) thread in the next day or two!
I think this is a fantastic idea, I hope it’s successful and everyone benefits from it. I’ll keep an eye on it, I like a happy ending "
Oh god, I didn’t mean ‘a happy ending’ |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"Ladies joining us is definitely something we are keen on but I was very conscious that as we aren't a "proper couple" it may put some off. This thread has made me a little more optimistic at least.
You may not be a ‘proper’ couple but you look like you are because of the chemistry between you
Hat? "
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I really enjoy a mff but do find as a single lady it’s a bit intimidating have got round that a few times by meeting in clubs then there is no pressure to play either party can socialise elsewhere if the chemistry isn’t right.
Finding couples where I find both attractive can be a problem though! |
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"Ladies joining us is definitely something we are keen on but I was very conscious that as we aren't a "proper couple" it may put some off. This thread has made me a little more optimistic at least."
Yourself and your friend will have no problems in finding a single lady to join you, I've seen your profile, your both hot as f*ck! |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"Ladies joining us is definitely something we are keen on but I was very conscious that as we aren't a "proper couple" it may put some off. This thread has made me a little more optimistic at least.
Yourself and your friend will have no problems in finding a single lady to join you, I've seen your profile, your both hot as f*ck! "
Thank you that's really nice to hear, now to find a single lady who does meet that thinks so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love an FFM but Mr M only plays with me.
Mrs M x
So that wouldn't be a FFM then.
2 fems 1 male in whatever format?
It's still an FFM "
Not if the man doesn't play with the single female. It's fem on fem play. |
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"Ladies joining us is definitely something we are keen on but I was very conscious that as we aren't a "proper couple" it may put some off. This thread has made me a little more optimistic at least.
Yourself and your friend will have no problems in finding a single lady to join you, I've seen your profile, your both hot as f*ck!
Thank you that's really nice to hear, now to find a single lady who does meet that thinks so "
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Great thread OP. There are so many issues in here that I'd never considered. As a hotwife couple I (or we) have tried most dynamics and enjoyed them all for different reasons. If we meet together that grin is definitely firm and present for both of us ! I've met couples alone and they have been genuine, lovely and experienced couples who clearly enjoyed me being thier guest.
On the other side now I'd love a single bi female to join us (and maybe another male friend) for a mmff but as I know after being on Fab on and off for several years this is damn near impossible.
A club visit would be ideal but couples and single women night wouldn't let 3 of us in !
If I choose to meet a couple again I will approach it differently. Thanks |
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