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How to get your first meet ?
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Get yourself to a social and if there are none nearby that appeal to you then organise one for yourself and invite everyone, not just the category you want to play with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First off search the forums looking for first meet, profile advice, first messages etc. Make sure your profile and pictures are as good an advert as possible, and your messages are personal friendly funny and appropriate.
Then get out to clubs, and socials, get known. After that, good luck, and lucky timing is all you need. |
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"Get yourself to a social and if there are none nearby that appeal to you then organise one for yourself and invite everyone, not just the category you want to play with.
Best wishes. Let us all know how it goes. "
Among the piss taking, a nugget of wisdom.
^this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders
What if you have virgin?
You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote"
Or use them both? It better with 2 isn’t it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders
What if you have virgin?
You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote
Or use them both? It better with 2 isn’t it? "
You’re a genius! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders
What if you have virgin?
You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote
Or use them both? It better with 2 isn’t it?
You’re a genius!"
Haha....can I get that in a verification? |
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Less dick pics, more face pics.
Go to a club and be yourself and talk to people.
I don’t think I’ve ever had a single meet off fab but that said, I don’t use it for that. Clubs are where it’s at for me. |
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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago
Manchester City Centre |
Top tip...
Most women will know you have a cock, and will know what one looks like...
As much as you might be amazed by your own cock... it’s not really what girls (or guys) want to see...
Try having normal photos, and only send a cock pic if someone specifically wants to see it... which will be rare
In my experience, girls will want to see what you look like before they decide that they want to see your cock... so don’t put them off
Keep it hidden, and be normal
Other than that... it’s difficult to get things moving... I haven’t been to a club yet, but I’ve found chatting on the forums and being positive really helps
Be genuine, original, and be yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's one tip - ingore the majority of the forum dwellers as a good number of them are just point-scoring sycophants.
But there are some decent people here, you just need to figure out those that make up the forum clique... |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Look to get my first meet how and what will help me "
Hi op
Most people will say go to a club.
But if you don't drive or no wear thar are its kind of pointless saying go to a club.
My best advice is find a groop social that is near you or you can get to / travel to. That way you will probably end up with 4-5 verys at 1ce. 
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"Here's one tip - ingore the majority of the forum dwellers as a good number of them are just point-scoring sycophants.
But there are some decent people here, you just need to figure out those that make up the forum clique..."
I see what you did there.
*applauds slowly..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try clubs and socials; you have(based on your stated location) a well established club practically on your door step. Talking to real people is a heck of a lot easier than living behind your virtual comfort blanket of a phone/tablet/computer.
Also don’t be a dick. By that I mean, understand that ownership of a penis is pretty much expected of blokes, photographic evidence is not always required. Some may ask to see before meeting as they like to know what might be on offer.
Have photos other than your todger. This doesn’t mean a need to post face pics. Last time I checked, men have more body parts than a face and a penis. Torso pics, clothed body, suits, sports gear etc seem to go down well.
Read profiles and respect their content before messaging.
Mostly, get yourself to a club or organised social.
Have fun. |
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Get rid of the dick pics, especially the one where the member looks less than healthy. It could just be bad lighting and poor photography but that dick does not look well. In any case, most ladies are more interested in what's attached to the dick.
You need to indicate what (other than a worryingly red penis) you bring to the table. Why should a lady reply to you, rather than the other twenty guys who message her between now and her lunch break? |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
Message, pick yourself up after rejection, message someone else.....repeat until you find someone you can click with and they click with you.
Be nice and respectful and eventually it'll come good.....and maybe a better selection of pics? Just saying  |
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