I believe ladies don't receive enough compliments and that shows with all the self doubt and insecurities flying about so I always try and throw compliments in, maybe too much.
It's nice to receive the odd one too but I don't give them so that I can get them. It's just the nice thing to do x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you give or receive more?
Which do you prefer if either?
It's always nice to receive, so I give.
Cracking tits, by the way!  "
Why thank you Ms Luscious Lips  |
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"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is "
I don't think you should be skeptical.. Your a cracking looking lady |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I believe ladies don't receive enough compliments and that shows with all the self doubt and insecurities flying about so I always try and throw compliments in, maybe too much.
It's nice to receive the odd one too but I don't give them so that I can get them. It's just the nice thing to do x"
You'd be surprised how many we get around here! I always wonder how many other girls have had the "oh wow, youre the most beautiful woman on the site" mail before me.
I guess that's what makes us skeptical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is
I don't think you should be skeptical.. Your a cracking looking lady"
....what’s your motive?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone in a shop came up to me today and said I had a nice accent....I didn’t know how to take it 
I definitely prefer to give unless it’s for something I’ve actually done... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you give or receive more?
Which do you prefer if either? "
Human nature generally gives more. Few know how to receive well they think they the owe the other person instead of seeing as it is...a gift given freely by the other and should therfore be received without the feeling of owing.
If one refuses a gift given freely... in turn one is actually preventing a blessing the other gets by giving generously without expectation.
Learning to recieve properly is one of the hardest lessons we learn. |
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"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is
I don't think you should be skeptical.. Your a cracking looking lady
....what’s your motive?!"
(Mr here) honestly it makes me feel good to give a compliment to someone I think deserves one, it's not necessarily to get browny points and sex is not always the motive..for me generally it's just nice to be nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I give a lot of compliments but I don't like reciving them
Your not getting a compliment.. You'll be looking for a motive as well  "
I don't want a compliment and I have no motives or motivation lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.
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A compliment is not honest then and always has an agenda? I'd beg to differ. I send a message to people that I'd possibly never need and tell them I like their latest pic and explain why...
So you're saying my compliments about your pics to you have been wasted breath? |
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"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.
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That pretty much is a compliment... |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I get somewhat awkward at both giving and receiving them!! Unless I'm particularly comfortable with someone I always fear coming across as insincere when giving them, and get very coy and don't know how to respond when I receive them. |
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"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.
That pretty much is a compliment..."
Yes I know, sorry I explained really badly.
I have this strange thinking that the word 'compliment' means they don't mean it. I know I'm odd. |
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"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.
That pretty much is a compliment..."
It’s exactly what a compliment is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.
That pretty much is a compliment...
Yes I know, sorry I explained really badly.
I have this strange thinking that the word 'compliment' means they don't mean it. I know I'm odd."
More insincere flattery like. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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I take pleasure in giving compliments and know it gives people a boost.
I am learning to accept compliments. As someone with low self esteem, it's easy to dismiss them.
I realise that it is like being given a gift. So if you don't accept it, it's like handing back a present someone has chosen for you.
Even if it feels uncomfortable initially, I try to thank people and accept what they say. |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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Often send a message to others to compliment them on their profile and photos. Doesnt take much to let someone know they look great an say thanks for sharing. But can honestly say never had a compliment myself. But then i dont see myself as anything special to warrent one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (female) am rubbish at receiving compliments, but that being said I am getting better and actually believing what’s being said ! I like to compliment people as it brightens up their day and makes them feel better about themselves! |
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As nasty as it sounds it's the truth that when people are after something they will say or do anything.
That includes sending a lie/compliment to someone when they don't mean it just to get sex.
There's a lot of that here where desperate guys will say someone's the most stunning person ever even though they think there a minger just to empty there balls in them. |
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"As nasty as it sounds it's the truth that when people are after something they will say or do anything.
That includes sending a lie/compliment to someone when they don't mean it just to get sex.
There's a lot of that here where desperate guys will say someone's the most stunning person ever even though they think there a minger just to empty there balls in them."
I don't think that's just here it's everywhere..though im not going to vouch for the "mingers" but maybe they're happy enough with that...  |
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"As nasty as it sounds it's the truth that when people are after something they will say or do anything.
That includes sending a lie/compliment to someone when they don't mean it just to get sex.
There's a lot of that here where desperate guys will say someone's the most stunning person ever even though they think there a minger just to empty there balls in them."
Thats not true at all theres people on here scattered all around the world i know il never meet i give them compliments all the time theres no agenda im just being a decent guy
Granted im atracted to them but i have nothing to gain what so ever appart from i feel like a good bloke its not that i wouldnt want to get with them as with some i would but in most cases thats not a possibility |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not great with taking compliments.. pretty just say thanks lol I always compliment someone whether it be from their nice hair to sunny personality "
Same here , let any comp whizz last and don’t generally acknowledge them as don’t know how to (if I even realise it’s been a comp)   |
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