"Not my kinda scene mate"
Fair enough if you don’t want to go to a social, but surely you could meet someone for a coffee. If it’s anything like up here, the social organisers are willing to meet people to sell tickets. Blam, verified. |
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"My profile has been added to and taken away,updated/downgraded for years, can't even get a view without that tick due to alot of fake profiles in local area that are just after nudes "
You might have added to and taken away and what ever else still doesn't mean it was any good, most men on here find something else to blame for not getting any action you sound just like one of them.
You've been told what to do it's up to you if your gonna step up to the plate or just bitch and moan with the rest of them. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Not my kinda scene mate"
Just a thought, if you limit yourself with not going to meet like minded people in a public place, are you open to this lifestyle?
We all play (well most) in different ways, however, and this could just be me, you do need a open mind that has massive world of possibility, not a world of necessity.
Hey, don’t know you, just an observation of successful people on the site.
Hope it works out, have fun. |
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OP as a male on this site it takes a lot of effort and perserverance if you can’t be arsed to have a social meet or go on cam then it’s going to be much harder for you than most to get verified
You’re the one standing in your own way in regards to getting verified |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Not my kinda scene mate
What is it about organised swing/fab socials that doesn’t appeal? "
I'm surprised actually as these are often the quickest and easiest way to get verified, especially for single men. |
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"Not my kinda scene mate"
Meeting people socially is not your kinda scene.
One night stands aren't for you.
So you won't meet people socially and you won't meet people for a fuck.
How the heck do you expect to meet anyone if you aren't prepared to meet anyone 
I'm proper confused dude.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My job, need discretion in my local area "
Well, you’re going to struggle to get a verification without meeting another person. Go to an organised social out of area if it’s just the very you’re after.
(If, being from Tidworth, you work for a large organisation which until recently promoted people considering working for them to “Be the Best”; don’t fret - a large chunk of Fabbers come from that background too.) |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"My job, need discretion in my local area "
Tell that to all the other squaddies on here who are going ok 
Go out and get a webcam and get cam verified if it means that much to you.
Your profile and green arrow wont be helping.
You dont know that you've had no views as most view in ninja mode |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this one of those 'I'm not getting any and it's everyone else's fault' threads? "
No it seems to be I am on house arrest and cant go and buy a €10 webcam in tesco but really want someone to just tick my green box thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My job, need discretion in my local area
Well, you’re going to struggle to get a verification without meeting another person. Go to an organised social out of area if it’s just the very you’re after.
(If, being from Tidworth, you work for a large organisation which until recently promoted people considering working for them to “Be the Best”; don’t fret - a large chunk of Fabbers come from that background too.)"
That was my thoughts exactly, some locations just scream likely occupation.
Ginger |
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I go to Sussex Socials. There’s no neon sign saying ‘swingers here’ - just people in a pub. If you’re keen to be verified you can pick up 10 in a couple of hours plus make contacts for weeks of sex later.
Your choice..... |
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"Yea of course, but I'm on about events and munches, like I've said I've try to get meets but locals only meet verify users, maybe I should move lol "
Why you looking for locals?
You said you couldn't go to a social in your area because you had to be discreet.
Seriously make up your mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well cheers for the advice guys "
Will you act upon the advice given tho? To many times I see thanks for the great advice only to see the same thread 1 week later? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not like that down here and users won't even view you without verification "
Hi were organising a social meet on Saturday 31st March at a private venue in Leicester city centre. A buffet is provided, music, party games and Easter raffle. Couples £5 single guys £5 single ladies free. Would love it if you could make it and come and meet us and lots of others. Let us know if interested xx
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"Not like that down here and users won't even view you without verification Hi were organising a social meet on Saturday 31st March at a private venue in Leicester city centre. A buffet is provided, music, party games and Easter raffle. Couples £5 single guys £5 single ladies free. Would love it if you could make it and come and meet us and lots of others. Let us know if interested xx"
There ya go dude. You have 2 weeks leave so no excuse not to go  |
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I was at a social last night in Liverpool. It was just a group of people meeting in a bar for a few drinks & a laugh. There was a band on, it was busy ... one single guy who came said to me ‘I was stood here for 5 minutes trying to figure out which group you were’
I responded ‘it’s amazing how much we look like normal people isn’t it’
We were just a group of people in a bar, like every other group of people - we weren’t wearing badges that said ‘swinging social’ or carrying clumps of pampas grass for easy ID
A social is not a risk of being outed; it’s a afternoon / evening in a pub with people who have the same interests |
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