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over a year ago
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"I think lust top trumps love every time.. that raw, animal feeling is just the best thing.
So how does lust feel to you?
Or are you more of a lovey dovey romantic?
Do tell "
Good thread. This confuses me, I've loved someone but not lusted them and I've lusted someone and the sex has been amazing but I never fell in love with them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its definitely Lust at first sight not love at first sight for sure
Lust is my preference.... love didnt work out too well once the lust had gotten up and buggered off!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a place for both, with the right person(s). I'm always hopeful I'll find someone I totally fall in love with, but lust after every day for the rest of time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ooooh good question, naturally I ‘loved’ my first husband because I married him and stayed married to him for quite a while but the love I have for Ads is 100% different to anything I have ever felt, so I look at my first marriage and wonder was it more lust? I went to school with him and then met up with him again about a year or so after we left and then got married about two months after that, I do question which I was in love or lust? I knew him but didn’t know him that well when we married, we got engaged and then married with in two weeks (that’s when you could back then) of that happening and it was on the back of an argument! I think I was scared of being alone and he was my first proper boyfriend, the first boy/man that I ever went out with on a date, I was only 20 when we married. I think I grew to love him or just settle for what I had, then he fell apart and a year later I met Ads and it’s completely different, the feelings I have I’ve never felt before. I don’t know if any of that made sense lol. With Ads I want to look after him, I want to be the best I can be for him, we actually like the same things, we can be silly around each other and I can say some pretty stupid shit to him and he never makes fun of me for being a bit thick, even 2 years later my heart gets all in a flutter when I am waiting for him to come home, I get miserable if I don’t hear from him all day due to that thing called work, he is my everything!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A cuddle after sex with someone you love feels much better than a cuddle with someone you lust after..... unless it's the same person  then I'm chatting shite lol |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"They’re not mutually exclusive, I love mr and lust after him as well x "
Well said.
Every time Mrs gets out of bed I still have a cheeky look at her naked body and instantly want her, the listing has never disappeared. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a place for both, with the right person(s). I'm always hopeful I'll find someone I totally fall in love with, but lust after every day for the rest of time "
This is very true and can happen 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am fortunate enough to have both with my Mr. Also! Although I feel it's a different lust to when we first met... I feel it deeper into my stomach like a gripping, pulling feeling when I look at him.
Lust with other 'new' people feels like that heady, butterflies feeling... does that make sense? Lol |
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over a year ago
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Lust is good but for me it’s a moment, it is an expression of a need.
Love is more all encompassing - it carries you through when things are hard. It lets you fly when things are good. It surrounds you and keeps you safe and warm emotionally.
Love isn’t pressure or expectation other than you give your true self to the other person completely. When you get that back from them it’s so addictive.
Yes I am a softie  |
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. As for love dont believe I’ve ever been in love tbh I mean I’ve loved someone of corse but never been in love with someone 
