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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Take your pick from this thread and befriend that lucky person

Be nice,be respectful,and most af all have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooh I’m in!

A rare chance to get access to my extensive Friends Only gallery!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll give it a go x

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By *iverWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

Oooo count me in! it's 10am let'a go!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi, new to the forums, I'll play xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in hi all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always up for making a new friend. In.

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

I’m in

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By *iverWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

I sent one, got deleted. Next!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in , should be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In with nothing to lose

(apart from my dignity and anonimity

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha ha, first two attempts and failed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in

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By *kmanMan over a year ago

Letterkenny

Sounds good I am in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not... can’t get to work as stuck at the top of a very icy hill

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi, new to the forums, I'll play xx"

Friend request flying your way...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can we take them on a picnic or something too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we take them on a picnic or something too

Yes, I’ll bring a blanket.

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By *rsTrellisWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

Yes please!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes please! "

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By *ig TennentsMan over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m in

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS over a year ago

Glasgow

@River321 - tried to friend you (seems obvious choice as you have more than 5 piercings) but can't.

Guess this game only works if everyone has their profiles open to everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes please! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will give it a go

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By *razyhorse58Man over a year ago

West Midlands

I’m up for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awwwwww I need fwends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sent 1, received 1.. got two new friends for 24hrs.. or till whenever they come to their senses.

(fist pump)

I'll leave my filters open to other groups for 24hrs.. Provided you respect the boundaries. Not adverse to friends of any variety.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Damn 1 year too old

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By *iverWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

I've turned my blocks off for the next few hours. So anyone can add me as they wish. 1 so far yay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds interesting...

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By *OOM696969Man over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

In for a penny and all that

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

Well hellloooo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Count me in

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

Ooh I like this! 2 converted from my hotlist to friends list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well hellloooo"

Oh hi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im in. I'll pick Big Tennents x

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By *09309309Woman over a year ago

Dublin

"In with nothing to lose

(apart from my dignity and anonimity

Hahaha! Made me laugh with that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just so you know all my friends get a creme egg

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

"Well hellloooo

Oh hi

Well fancy bumping into you.... mhmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm out as i the most unlucky one on here.

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

I’m in

I am a great friend to have, I can’t think of any reasons yet but I’m sure you believe me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well hellloooo

Oh hi

Well fancy bumping into you.... mhmm

Oh I know!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm out as i the most unlucky one on here.

Your profiles hidden x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Aww isn’t this nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we take them on a picnic or something too

Yes, I’ll bring a blanket."

Hurrah. I'm in !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this thread is like McDonald's "I'm lovin' it"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we take them on a picnic or something too

Yes, I’ll bring a blanket.

Hurrah. I'm in !"

Friend request sent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in, was friends with a few off you on my old fab profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like my friends to hang around longer.

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS over a year ago

Glasgow

ok, done, but I don't really see the point. I could maybe chat a little with my new friend but at the end of the day she probably couldn't care less.

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

"Well hellloooo

Oh hi

Well fancy bumping into you.... mhmm

Oh I know!

I blame you mr

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Go on then I'm in...but will have to keep a distance as I'm full of cold/flu that I wouldn't wish on anyone never mind a new friend

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By *oupleofkooksCouple over a year ago

local

OOoh why not

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

This is interesting. Count me in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In , i'm quite respectful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok why not

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By *eddy004Man over a year ago

Toy Town

Im in too. Whos out there befriending?xx

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By *eplicant JoWoman over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I will join in

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By *exualPleasuresMan over a year ago

west Yorkshire

Count me in

Now to send some requests out! X

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By *edylogosMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ll get involved, count me it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im in ????????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm out as i the most unlucky one on here.

Your profiles hidden x"

it hidden due to being here too long and nothing happing

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

"I'm out as i the most unlucky one on here.

Your profiles hidden x

it hidden due to being here too long and nothing happing

I take it you intend on it staying that way??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will join in

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"I’m in

Last time I said that to you, you replied that it must be small because you couldn’t feel it

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By *ineMan over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Waves from the man cave...

I'll put the kettle on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Count me in !

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By *uttyandbeeCouple over a year ago

Leeds

To make us feel warm on a freezing feburary monday. New friends are always warming.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Can I be friend more than one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am in

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can I be friend more than one? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I be friend more than one? "

I hope so.. or I'm in lots of trouble now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Would anybody like me in their box?

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Oh i like this... We are in!

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

"Would anybody like me in their box?

That a pun?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing to loose,,why not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like this me and my new mate have been nattering all day

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By *LovetobewatchedMan over a year ago

edinburgh

I love making new friends.... Even temporary ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love making new friends.... Even temporary ones

I don't. That's why I made all our friends only pics private

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just so you know all my friends get a creme egg"

Did you say creme egg

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By *iercedItMan over a year ago

Manchester

Sure why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just so you know all my friends get a creme egg

Did you say creme egg

I absolutly did its lidls own brand tho i give them free to a good home

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would anybody like me in their box?

That a pun?? Lol

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

OK, I'm in

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By *r Potato HeadMan over a year ago

Warrington

I'll give it go.

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By *inxy777Woman over a year ago

essex

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in, this could be fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This actually went better than expected

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm available for fwiendship.

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By *oul BrothaMan over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I'm in, can any potential friends come with haribos

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By *onnya7447Man over a year ago

great saling

Ok i'm in .

Sits watching for tumble rolling past while awaiting friend request ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooh friend, fab friend

(Inbetweeners reference for those of you who haven’t seen the show)

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

"Would anybody like me in their box?

That a pun?? Lol

Ok then.....

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By *OOM696969Man over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Looking for a hat trick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is great up 3 friends and seem like keepers to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would anybody like me in their box?

That a pun?? Lol

Ok then.....

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bring it on!

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By *entonMan over a year ago

Ayrshire

In for a fwiend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm In if it's not too late!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in, I like to be fwiendly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could do with a new friend!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely up for it. Could do with a friend or 2 on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh go on then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh go on then "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take your pick from this thread and befriend that lucky person

Be nice,be respectful,and most af all have fun

Am in lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooh friend, fab friend

(Inbetweeners reference for those of you who haven’t seen the show) "

I am friending you just for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wanna friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have sent 4 invites out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck to all the other men may u make friends here not me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who wants to be my friend

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By *anther PurrrsWoman over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

"Good luck to all the other men may u make friends here not me

You need to be more positive...

negativity pushes people away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think i’ve 24 hours to spare x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im in!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm having to put my filters back on

All the men on the thread have been very respectful (that or I'm minging!) even made friends with a very funny bloke.

The locals of Haywards Heath are ruining it though. Six dirty messages the second I stopped..

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I'm having to put my filters back on

All the men on the thread have been very respectful (that or I'm minging!) even made friends with a very funny bloke.

The locals of Haywards Heath are ruining it though. Six dirty messages the second I stopped.. "

Bugger and I've just sent you a friend's request

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By *OOM696969Man over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

"I have sent 4 invites out

R.S.V.P.. In post

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By *one_wolf.Man over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm new to the forums this time lol dip my toe in every now and then, but I am in

anyone is welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm having to put my filters back on

All the men on the thread have been very respectful (that or I'm minging!) even made friends with a very funny bloke.

The locals of Haywards Heath are ruining it though. Six dirty messages the second I stopped..

Bugger and I've just sent you a friend's request

You're a woman

It came through.. accepted lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooooh go on then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im in! "

The obvious choice on this thread

Friend request sent!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im in! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love to join in the fun,

Awaiting a mass of invites in 3, 2, 1....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing to loose,,why not."

i need to gain 5 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Evening

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Good luck to all the other men may u make friends here not me

A hidden profile and a negative attitude isn't likely to change that any time soon now is it?

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By *orthantsfun2013Man over a year ago

poddington

I’m in

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By *hatYorkLadMan over a year ago

York

Aye go on then I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooh friend, fab friend

(Inbetweeners reference for those of you who haven’t seen the show)

I am friending you just for that

Hello fab friend

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

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By *oul BrothaMan over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Johnny no mates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Late to the thread but happy to get involved

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

That’s you out then buster!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

That’s you out then buster!

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ive got lots of private pics ha

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Lea Marston

I'm in.

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

That’s you out then buster!

ive got lots of private pics ha

Not on your profile!

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I should declare at this juncture that anyone adding me purely to get at my Friends Only pics is going to be sorely disappointed - mainly consists of discards from public pics and a few mugshots!!

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By *ik MMan over a year ago

Lancashire

I like the sound of this. I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

That’s you out then buster!

ive got lots of private pics ha

Not on your profile! "
ive got a private little button and they appear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Count us in but please if you send a request send a message aswell as we get a few unsolicited friend requests that we delete straight away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds fun. I'm in! ??

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eallyTDHMan over a year ago

London

"Take your pick from this thread and befriend that lucky person

Be nice,be respectful,and most af all have fun

I'm in let's see how this works out

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I'm in.

I'm good at making friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in as well if there is still some takers

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By *unkym34Man over a year ago

London

Well well well this could turn out to be very interesting .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good evening folks... Im in for a friend making sesh....

Will have a look around!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This could go either way but I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in...if there is anyone still available!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im game xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am in, form an orderly queue...haha...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do we have to ask or can we just add ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do we have to ask or can we just add ? Xxx"

Either I think

Try me

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By *ik MMan over a year ago

Lancashire

"Do we have to ask or can we just add ? Xxx"

I was wondering that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do we have to ask or can we just add ? Xxx

I was wondering that too

I'm just gonna add

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By *unkym34Man over a year ago

London

"Do we have to ask or can we just add ? Xxx

I was wondering that too

I'm just gonna add

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that's what I did lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’ve got some painting to do, could do with 3 or four guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m in. Only gonna pick people with friend only pics though otherwise it’s not worth it - I’m so nosey

Come have a nosy then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't look at my adds so I presume message the person

I'm on it

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I generally only add people I've actually met (and liked obviously! lol), and I tend to cull friends off my list after a while if we're not in regular contact

I've a very short friend list and a non-existent hotlist lol.

Maybe I should rethink that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I generally only add people I've actually met (and liked obviously! lol), and I tend to cull friends off my list after a while if we're not in regular contact

I've a very short friend list and a non-existent hotlist lol.

Maybe I should rethink that

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By *unkym34Man over a year ago

London

"I generally only add people I've actually met (and liked obviously! lol), and I tend to cull friends off my list after a while if we're not in regular contact

I've a very short friend list and a non-existent hotlist lol.

Maybe I should rethink that

"
this makes perfect sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a very good thread so far

Great idea OP

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By *ermaeMan over a year ago

co down

Why not .....count me in

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