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No I wouldn't. Sex is great but I do it for pleasure, I wouldn't want to make a career out of it. I wouldn't give my body for financial gain and I'd find it boring. I like my work to be stimulating and it wouldnt be, I'd just be a commodity to pleasure others. I feel I've got more to offer than that  |
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"Because men are never prostitutes right  
Good point!
Prostitution in this country is legal.
i see it as a perfectly acceptable way for anyone over 18 to make money."
Agreed but it certainly ain't an easy job for anyone Xx |
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Every occupation under the sun uses their body for financial gain from dancer to doctor to road sweeper.
A lot of jobs depend on team work, bodily contact , swappping of bodily fluids, death ..... and so on.
I'd find it far more risky to open up a patient, far more nerve wracking to trust a fellow mountaineer or high sky diver. Far more threatening to approach unstable street dwellers as a member of an outreach team.
People risk their bodies in many ways on a daily basis. Yet mention genitals and sex and it becomes sinful or morally wrong.
There must be ballet dancers bored to fuck who think they just can't dance another step.
I'd argue most actors, boy bands, celebs are a commodity who's entitlement to say no to work is more restricted than someone in a mundane job.
I don't THINK i'd do it but if the chips were down and there was no money..... who knows. |
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"Every occupation under the sun uses their body for financial gain from dancer to doctor to road sweeper.
A lot of jobs depend on team work, bodily contact , swappping of bodily fluids, death ..... and so on.
I'd find it far more risky to open up a patient, far more nerve wracking to trust a fellow mountaineer or high sky diver. Far more threatening to approach unstable street dwellers as a member of an outreach team.
People risk their bodies in many ways on a daily basis. Yet mention genitals and sex and it becomes sinful or morally wrong.
There must be ballet dancers bored to fuck who think they just can't dance another step.
I'd argue most actors, boy bands, celebs are a commodity who's entitlement to say no to work is more restricted than someone in a mundane job.
I don't THINK i'd do it but if the chips were down and there was no money..... who knows. "
kin 'ell Grannie, that's cheap, i'd throw in a king-size haddock if you wanted  |
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If you are good at something, enjoy it and feel like you can share that talent with others then it shouldn't be wrong to get financial gain from it otherwise we wouldn't have had such wonders of art, music that sells millions of albums or that has been around for 100's of years.
Why is it wrong when it is sex or is that because mankind likes to think it is better then animals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it was made legal and you could make good money would you ?. Or no because of the stigma that goes with it. One for the girls.
* sits on coffin *"
I have no problems doing it.. never have.. as for the stigma attached, its no worse than being a swinger in my eye... Except making good money.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but i wud say we like the word escort lol and its not against the law anymore
the law is only broken when someone is forced into it "
Yes a much better word xx |
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_the_United_Kingdom
Prostitution in the United Kingdom
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
"Tart cards" in phone boxes advertise the services of call girls in London (placing them in phone boxes is illegal, but they are very common.[1])
In the United Kingdom, prostitution itself (the exchange of sexual services for money) is not a crime,[2] but a number of related activities, including soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning a brothel, pimping and pandering, are crimes.
In England and Wales and in Northern Ireland it is an offence to pay for sex with a prostitute who has been “subjected to force” and this is a strict liability offence (clients can be prosecuted even if they didn’t know the prostitute was forced).
It is illegal to buy sex from a person younger than 18, although the age of consent for non-commercial sex is 16.
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By (user no longer on site)
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personally i dont think you would make good money at it if it was made legal
You'd get some people opening brothels and paying national minimum wage lol
I'd do it now if i thought someone would pay me but, never mind if it was legal, i dont think theres much of a call for over weight women in their 30s lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are plenty of older and larger ladies making money from it... Lol I've even had guys on here ask me if they pay me will I... When I've said not for me...
It's something that I still have no idea why being an escort has people saying its bad....
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By (user no longer on site)
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No...I have money, my friends have money, I pay a fortune in tax and insurance and should I lose my job there's social housing and benefits...every other bugger is claiming, so I'd have no qualms in signing on and asking for help.
Being a cum dump for money wouldn't work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?"
I'd shag the pope fa that xx |
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?
I'd shag the pope fa that xx "
He'd probably let ya. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?
I'd shag the pope fa that xx "
Which one... There has been a few.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?
I'd shag the pope fa that xx "
seriously id shag anyone for that
im not hard up, i work and ive always provided for my kids but id be able to provide for them a lot better with a million in the back for the sake of one shag |
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?
I'd shag the pope fa that xx
Which one... There has been a few.."
all of them, at once |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?
I'd shag the pope fa that xx
Which one... There has been a few..
all of them, at once "
You're the wrong sex though NN. Wrong age too apparently. |
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I have no problem with anyone prostituting themselves,,,,, and given circumstance where it was my best option to sustain a level of income that would save me from impoverishment I’d consider it….!.
But the option of adopting prostitution as a preferred career path, would never catch my interest,,,,,,, I was always lucky enough to really enjoy my job,so it never became work too me…
However I don’t feel I’d get a similar level of personal accomplishment performing routine sexual services where I’d be delivering other peoples satisfaction….
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By (user no longer on site)
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On a slightly different note, years back when a topical question was "Would you shag Robert Redford for a $1m, i could have been tempted"
So, if you could, at what price?
I'd shag the pope fa that xx
Which one... There has been a few..
all of them, at once
You're the wrong sex though NN. Wrong age too apparently. "
hahaha honestly i was going to put but im the wrong sex and to old but thought..... nah best not, someone will give me a bollocking for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As long as it was policed correctly, health checks with certification weekly, good clean premises, safe sex assured and taxes paid, it would be a business just like any other.
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By (user no longer on site)
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a escort is less likley to have unprotected sex than a swinger so dus that mean swingers shud have weekly heath checks 2 ... health checks yes i agree with having them but maybe monthly lol weekly wud put a drain on the nhs and if paying tax they wud be intitled to it on nhs just like anyone else |
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"Porn wud be better way as both parties get paid no one feels like the loser as it can't be nice knowing money is only reason they sleep with u x "
What makes you think an escort only does it for the money????
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well if one pays other one gets the money they must feel bit miserable that they had to pay. I feel much better if all for free or all get money. If escorts do it for fun why charge? |
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apart from the very exclusive escorts most prostitutes are expected to see any and every client who wants to see them. they are very rarely in a position to say no. so for all that i have no problem with anyone who chooses to follow the oldest profession it wouldn't be for me - i value my choice too much. |
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"Well if one pays other one gets the money they must feel bit miserable that they had to pay. I feel much better if all for free or all get money. If escorts do it for fun why charge? "
What would you choose.. I job in an area you love.. or a job doing something you hate???
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"apart from the very exclusive escorts most prostitutes are expected to see any and every client who wants to see them. they are very rarely in a position to say no. so for all that i have no problem with anyone who chooses to follow the oldest profession it wouldn't be for me - i value my choice too much."
Unless the girls are being forced to work then they can and do say no
I never not had a choice and the working girls and escorts I know can always say no too |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Unless the girls are being forced to work then they can and do say no
I never not had a choice and the working girls and escorts I know can always say no too"
Sadly the girl may say No... But her habit says Yes...
Guess who wins... Sadly none. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly the girl may say No... But her habit says Yes...
Guess who wins... Sadly none."
but not all girls do it to feed a habit..
Yes there are those that do.. and they do need help..
cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id love to have sex for a living but not in that way. Maybe sex show or porn or have webcam sex but not when there is a man being ripped off id end up being broke as id forget to pick up money lol
Chloe x |
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If women or men want to choose this as a career path then yeah I feel they should do it.
A lot of people will say "ooo yeah I could, if the money was right, if I had no other option, if I needed to feed the kids" etc.
Too many people have the idolised notion of Julia Roberts or Billie Piper. Real life isnt like that.
Its probably one of the most dangerous jobs out there. Who would willingly put themselves at risk for any nutter who has a strangulation fixation or someone who cums extra hard after they've beaten you to shit. And this is not rare, a lot of women suffer a level of abuse, they have little protection.
Whilst yes ok we do use our body for financial gain, if you want to nit pick over it, yeah we are using our legs and arms in the course of our work and we are being paid for it. Most of us dont have to let a dirty old man lie on top of us gasping while we try not to choke on the smell of BO or give a blowjob to a cheese encrused shrivelled up penis. And not many prostitutes can pick and choose, only work with the George Clooney lookalikes. They have to make money, so they dont have that choice.
Whilst I have aspects of my job I dont like, we all do I suppose, even those less enthused tasks are not as bad as the day to day tasks endured by a sex worker.
I personally couldnt do it, the job description is too harsh for me.
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"a escort is less likley to have unprotected sex than a swinger so dus that mean swingers shud have weekly heath checks 2 ... health checks yes i agree with having them but maybe monthly lol weekly wud put a drain on the nhs and if paying tax they wud be intitled to it on nhs just like anyone else "
What do you base you information on?
Thats a very sweeping statement?
Surely its all to do with frequency of sex x number of partners to decide how high the risks are and therefore frequency of testing.
And consequently if an escort is having a much higher frequency, they would be more at risk TO their clients so would be More likely to pass on infections to a greater number of clients in a shorter space of time?
Unless they get tested more frequently? |
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"Well for a start prostition isnt illegal, its living of immoral earnings and forcing people to be prostitutes thats illegal. One women working from home on her own is perfectly legal"
Did they ever increase that to two? I know it was considered on safety grounds. |
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"Well for a start prostition isnt illegal, its living of immoral earnings and forcing people to be prostitutes thats illegal. One women working from home on her own is perfectly legal
Did they ever increase that to two? I know it was considered on safety grounds."
Not sure it was always one and two became a brothel. I can soon check |
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Its probably one of the most dangerous jobs out there. Who would willingly put themselves at risk for any nutter who has a strangulation fixation or someone who cums extra hard after they've beaten you to shit.
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And how is inviting a stranger into your home for paid sex any different from meeting one from here..
Yes it happens.. but as does women getting beaten or abused by men off sites like this.. or a guy they met in the streets.. and there are actually plenty of escorts that offer the rougher service.. And most have a system in place to make it safer. Ie someone that knows they have company. has the guys mobile number etc..
I know its hardly how it is in the movies... but unless your a street corner girl.. its really not much different to on here.. you can say no... you can definately refuse for not being clean.. or a thousand other reasons...
I guess it would depend on why the guys and girls are doing it.. but all the ones I know ( and thats a few)
Do it because they love sex and cant get enough.. so why not make a bit extra
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"apart from the very exclusive escorts most prostitutes are expected to see any and every client who wants to see them. they are very rarely in a position to say no. so for all that i have no problem with anyone who chooses to follow the oldest profession it wouldn't be for me - i value my choice too much."
Rbbish...the majority of sexworkers in this country are self employed.They take bookings when they want.
Its not for you fine,but do not perpetuate myths about sexwork |
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"Your talking about to different things cali. The ones you talk about have a good life and are higher class prostitutes/escorts. Maybe you need to see what goes off on the streets."
and I have stated several times it is different if you work the streets..
I am more than aware of what happens on the streets.
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"More than less will either feed a habit, feed their kids, pay their debts to some thug... Than do it thro choice.....
A few might. "
im surprised at you,google the English collective of prostittes (the union,affilliated to the TUC)and see how sterotyped your _iews are.Yes some might do it to feed their kids or pay off debts but how is that worse from working 12 hours a day on minimum wage? |
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"Your talking about to different things cali. The ones you talk about have a good life and are higher class prostitutes/escorts. Maybe you need to see what goes off on the streets.
and I have stated several times it is different if you work the streets..
I am more than aware of what happens on the streets.
cali "
Well if you know what goes on why are you saying its no different to swinging.
Yuo obviously no what your friends do and seem to have it in your head that that is how it is for all prostitutes, also high class prostitutes tend to call themselves escorts anyway.
How would you feel (god for bid) that a child of yours ended up with a drug problem and had a pimp forcing her into prostitution, maybe you would have an entirely different _iew of things |
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I have said Escorts is no different.. and I am defending it as a Choice.. after all the question was..
If it was legal.. which it already is.. would you do it..
And yes, I have a escorts for friends, and 3 porn stars and even a porn producer..
Its not me that is getting it mixed up..
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"I have said Escorts is no different.. and I am defending it as a Choice.. after all the question was..
If it was legal.. which it already is.. would you do it..
And yes, I have a escorts for friends, and 3 porn stars and even a porn producer..
Its not me that is getting it mixed up..
Cali x"
You really are the most bizarre women i have ever come across you are so narrow minded which always humours me considering your supposed to lead an alternative lifestyle. You carry on living in your own little world. Lets hope the bubble doesnt burst |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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im surprised at you,google the English collective of prostittes (the union,affilliated to the TUC)and see how sterotyped your _iews are.Yes some might do it to feed their kids or pay off debts but how is that worse from working 12 hours a day on minimum wage?"
Where did I say it was worse.. They need cash the same as any other worker...
Read up... I said, if I had to.. I would it and hold my head high.
It wouldn't be my first choice tho.
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"If some here went down to hysen green, kings cross or any other major prostitution areas im sure they would change there mind. But hey ho, some people just want to believe what they read."
and what makes you think anything I say is from what I read... ????
Its a hard life out there.. street corner girls are rarely there by choice.. but you can not tar all with same brush.. plenty of escorts are just self assured people running their own business and enjoying a damned good time.. Take a look at the adult sites and see how many nice young women are finding that they can make a fortune..
Anyone that thinks those young women are being exploited are sorely mistaken... some charge £400 for an hour... and they get it too..
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"I have said Escorts is no different.. and I am defending it as a Choice.. after all the question was..
If it was legal.. which it already is.. would you do it..
And yes, I have a escorts for friends, and 3 porn stars and even a porn producer..
Its not me that is getting it mixed up..
Cali x
You really are the most bizarre women i have ever come across you are so narrow minded which always humours me considering your supposed to lead an alternative lifestyle. You carry on living in your own little world. Lets hope the bubble doesnt burst"
Why because I think that escorting is a fantastic way to make a living???? how is that narrow minded..???
I like living in my world.. its a shed load of fun..and I dont get to judge people doing what they enjoy.. sure there is a nasty side.. but no more than in swinging the men forcing the women to do it.. or the peopl doing it so their partners dont leave..
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"If some here went down to hysen green, kings cross or any other major prostitution areas im sure they would change there mind. But hey ho, some people just want to believe what they read."
Why are u assuming no one here is talking from knowledge except you?Yes many drug users turn to prostitution to fund their habit,the problem is drugs and the lack decent drug treatment centers in this country,not prostittion! |
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"I have said Escorts is no different.. and I am defending it as a Choice.. after all the question was..
If it was legal.. which it already is.. would you do it..
And yes, I have a escorts for friends, and 3 porn stars and even a porn producer..
Its not me that is getting it mixed up..
Cali x
You really are the most bizarre women i have ever come across you are so narrow minded which always humours me considering your supposed to lead an alternative lifestyle. You carry on living in your own little world. Lets hope the bubble doesnt burst
Why because I think that escorting is a fantastic way to make a living???? how is that narrow minded..???
I like living in my world.. its a shed load of fun..and I dont get to judge people doing what they enjoy.. sure there is a nasty side.. but no more than in swinging the men forcing the women to do it.. or the peopl doing it so their partners dont leave..
cali "
errrrrrrr if i had been refering to you in that post i would have quoted you which i didnt it was a general post regarding this thread. Think you put to much importance on yourself |
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im surprised at you,google the English collective of prostittes (the union,affilliated to the TUC)and see how sterotyped your _iews are.Yes some might do it to feed their kids or pay off debts but how is that worse from working 12 hours a day on minimum wage?
Where did I say it was worse.. They need cash the same as any other worker...
Read up... I said, if I had to.. I would it and hold my head high.
It wouldn't be my first choice tho.
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errrrrrrr if i had been refering to you in that post i would have quoted you which i didnt it was a general post regarding this thread. Think you put to much importance on yourself"
erm.. you did quote me.. and nothing wrong with thinking alot of yourself.. its something that my Master encourages.
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"I have said Escorts is no different.. and I am defending it as a Choice.. after all the question was..
If it was legal.. which it already is.. would you do it..
And yes, I have a escorts for friends, and 3 porn stars and even a porn producer..
Its not me that is getting it mixed up..
Cali x
You really are the most bizarre women i have ever come across you are so narrow minded which always humours me considering your supposed to lead an alternative lifestyle. You carry on living in your own little world. Lets hope the bubble doesnt burst"
Master posting
You quoted Cali actually and you are getting personal with it, now I dont normally bother with petty squables but dont quote people and then make out you never when its there in black and white |
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Its probably one of the most dangerous jobs out there. Who would willingly put themselves at risk for any nutter who has a strangulation fixation or someone who cums extra hard after they've beaten you to shit.
And how is inviting a stranger into your home for paid sex any different from meeting one from here..
Yes it happens.. but as does women getting beaten or abused by men off sites like this.. or a guy they met in the streets.. and there are actually plenty of escorts that offer the rougher service.. And most have a system in place to make it safer. Ie someone that knows they have company. has the guys mobile number etc..
I know its hardly how it is in the movies... but unless your a street corner girl.. its really not much different to on here.. you can say no... you can definately refuse for not being clean.. or a thousand other reasons...
I guess it would depend on why the guys and girls are doing it.. but all the ones I know ( and thats a few)
Do it because they love sex and cant get enough.. so why not make a bit extra
Cali x"
There are not many prostitutes who do it because they love sex. The majority do it for money.
Yes if you invite a man you've met on this site, into your home as a swinger, he could become violent. Chances are the police would be able to apprehend him fairly quickly, they'd have more options for a trace. If a guy books a prostitute using an untraceable mobile ......
Yes there are girls who offer a rougher service. But do you think the nutters of this world are bothered about that. Do you think they only seek out those girls.
I think you have an idealised _iew of prostitution. The reality of the professional is very dark.
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"Take a look at the adult sites and see how many nice young women are finding that they can make a fortune..
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You see Cali thats the problem. Like many single guys who join this site thinking that us girls are sitting here waiting and will shag any male that decide to message us, the reality comes as quite a shock doesnt it.
Just the same as it does for some of these escorts that feel its a glamorous and quick way to make money - its not as easy or as fun as it sounds. The reality is very different. |
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I wonder when master would show his face and right on queue there he was
This is the post i was refering to and if yu can find any quote in there your a better person than me
If some here went down to hysen green, kings cross or any other major prostitution areas im sure they would change there mind. But hey ho, some people just want to believe what they read. |
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Ok having read only maybe half the thread(yes ive been drinking so forgive me)in my opinion most people prostitute ecaue they have to, not through choice, wheter it be drugs, on the breadline or ANother. Would I personally do it, yes if I was hard up enough(thankfully that has never been the case) In reality cud I (no im to fussy) The likes of B.O not shaven below, some kinky things that turn me off, then no i dont think i could. However i thank my lucky stars ive never been put into that situation that i have to. |
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I wont repeat what I said in the thread on Brothels/escort agencies... but it still stands, if someone on here is using women they pay for sex on a regular basis and they dont inform the members that they are meeting, I _iew this as irresponsible behaviour.
As for prostitution/escorts/street hookers. I am sorry there is little difference other than numbers and therefore risk. If a person chooses to sell their body, that is fine, but bringing that into a swinging site and NOT telling someone about it..... thats wrong, especially when you find out "They wont meet smokers", really?
We all take a risk being here and making "informed" choices, but i applaud the people that are honest enough to say "bareback" in their profile, or "Smoker", they know that this limits their chances but they do it out of respect of the people they may meet. If you pay for sex (and however way you cut this, its a risky business), then you should be honest about that......
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"I wont repeat what I said in the thread on Brothels/escort agencies... but it still stands, if someone on here is using women they pay for sex on a regular basis and they dont inform the members that they are meeting, I _iew this as irresponsible behaviour.
As for prostitution/escorts/street hookers. I am sorry there is little difference other than numbers and therefore risk. If a person chooses to sell their body, that is fine, but bringing that into a swinging site and NOT telling someone about it..... thats wrong, especially when you find out "They wont meet smokers", really?
We all take a risk being here and making "informed" choices, but i applaud the people that are honest enough to say "bareback" in their profile, or "Smoker", they know that this limits their chances but they do it out of respect of the people they may meet. If you pay for sex (and however way you cut this, its a risky business), then you should be honest about that......
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Oh we talking about peeps on site that are prostitutes/escourts ect, I thought it was a general conversation, and yes i agree people should be honest then people have an informed choice x |
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I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx"
Does anyone tell the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth on their profile, yes i know the majority will, but not everyone is as open and truthful as the rest of us. Hence why some people go by verifications and who they are by as it can tell a different story (yes will prob be slatted for that remark) but thats life |
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx"
I kinda see where ya coming from but no one knows anyone they meets sex life inside out
its up to the individual to protect themselves
i personally have never paid for sex but its on my list of things to do one day
as is my choice
i did at one time work as i said earlier in the thread and basically if anyone had asked i would have said
Before i stopped playing i preferred bare back and stated this on my profile along with the fact i got checked regularly
i cannot personally see why a working girl/man should need to put that on their profile
there is also the fact that admin may class that as indirectly offering services fa money |
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx"
Master here
That would be me you are reffering to, do you think that every person on the site has every single thing they do or dont do on their profile, I think you are being pretty stupid if you think that meeting strangers on here is any less risky than paying for an escort that uses condoms and is regularly health checked, personally I know where I would rather take the risk, do you declare on your profile all the women you ever slept with and who they had all slept with ? probably not, swinging is as risky as it gets health wise its up to you if you choose to do it
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I am not sure why Pauly...I don't see what anyones profession has to do with having sex with them...and as you look like you are referring to safe sex, as long as you protect yourself then I don't see a problem.
A prostitute could have two tricks a week, a swinger could have sex with the same amount, just because money changed hands with one doesn't mean you are safer with the person who didn't charge. |
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I accept both your points above, as I respect both of you as members.
Hell soapy, when I worked as a waiter in a health spa in my teens/early twenties.......... (horny middle aged ladies, young guy..... (even now I grimace)
anyway..
I guess I sound a little naive, hell I get more messages from "straight couples" that are a "little bit bi", more "non-smokers, that like a crafty fag" etc etc.
Its just about honesty at the end of the day, and selection, the nice thing about the forum is that it is "open", and even as we read and laugh (or get grumpy and spit) we can read a lot more about a person/couples sexual behaviour, which increases the information required to choose...
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx
Master here
That would be me you are reffering to, do you think that every person on the site has every single thing they do or dont do on their profile, I think you are being pretty stupid if you think that meeting strangers on here is any less risky than paying for an escort that uses condoms and is regularly health checked, personally I know where I would rather take the risk, do you declare on your profile all the women you ever slept with and who they had all slept with ? probably not, swinging is as risky as it gets health wise its up to you if you choose to do it
Masterq81"
Firstly there is no call for a personal insult secondly, do you think that all of the prostitutes you see overseas are doing this willingly and are regularly health checked, hell I can buy a PHD in Pakistan for $10 what price your "clean bill of health?" now?
I didnt insult you, and neither did I judge you, yet you have done that to me, I am not your sub........ remember that |
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I do not worry if someone uses a escort... as most are careful..
As I have said before I have a friend that works as an escort.. I actually in some months have more men than she does.. as we like to do Group sex...
She also never takes cum in mouth either....
I actually would think those mixing casual encounters on nights out on the town are taking more risks... but then thats just on general chats with my vanilla friends..
I think that Masters reply was taken a little out of hand.... as we have mentioned on many a thread that we will pay for a girl rather than find a girl on here. it saves time wasting and just is easier as we can basically find the exact girl we want..
Yes if Master is away on business Master may hire a girl... but trust me when I say its not some street corner $10 trick.. and well... as we get ourselves checked often I dont see how it matters..
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I have never said i had anything against escorts or those that use them. Ive even dabbled with the idea myself.
I have nothing against the street girls its the pimps and drug pushers i have a problem with.
Street girls and escorts are the polar opposite with each other what i have/had a problem with is them both being put in the same group, yes there is a nice side to earning easy good money. But for everyone of those i bet there are many more working for their next drug fix or their pimp |
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx
Master here
That would be me you are reffering to, do you think that every person on the site has every single thing they do or dont do on their profile, I think you are being pretty stupid if you think that meeting strangers on here is any less risky than paying for an escort that uses condoms and is regularly health checked, personally I know where I would rather take the risk, do you declare on your profile all the women you ever slept with and who they had all slept with ? probably not, swinging is as risky as it gets health wise its up to you if you choose to do it
Masterq81
Firstly there is no call for a personal insult secondly, do you think that all of the prostitutes you see overseas are doing this willingly and are regularly health checked, hell I can buy a PHD in Pakistan for $10 what price your "clean bill of health?" now?
I didnt insult you, and neither did I judge you, yet you have done that to me, I am not your sub........ remember that"
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Firstly believe me that was in no way insulting and if you took it as such maybe you are being a little overly sensitive, there was nothing personal in my post, I gave you a reply to your post about men that went with prostitutes and asked you a question or two back which you declined to give, its personal choice at the end of the day and one mans fun is anothers poison. As for being my sub, no I would never think that, I dont do men |
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Perhaps it's just me being "pretty stupid", but calling someone "pretty stupid" is a personal insult......
The argument about $10 hookers is moot, the ladies you see may charge you $200 but the locals which will make up their client base won't pay that....
Of course, I am "pretty stupid" so what the fleck would I know, 13 years working in human rights overseas, wouldn't qualify me to talk about prostitution overseas |
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waste of time talking to some folk, dont worry I never go with the peasant women, I only pay for quality
Good answer "
Must make it clear that its Master Paying and not Cali |
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"peasant women????"
I wouldn't even go there.....
Peasant woman or brothel worker? Difference? Location.... Opportunity....... A little slap and some new clothes.....
There are none in this world quite so blind as those that refuse to see |
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over a year ago
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"peasant women????
Yes the $ten dollar aids ridden peasants that ply their trade from a shack in a ghetto in the third world
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"peasant women????
Yes the $ten dollar aids ridden peasants that ply their trade from a shack in a ghetto in the third world
wow, such compassion & respect... and of course you include the filthy men that may have given them it.... not use of may"
Master posting
Its called irony I was keeping my answers in line with the above posts, having said that I have never been to the third world so could not really comment on the class of prostitutes, I can only comment on the eastern european ones which are very expensive but very nice. |
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Just as a quick note. Any woman in the developing world that is of "good" (for good read, wealthy access to education (including sexual)), health facilities) and has a choice in her vocation is highly unlikely to be working as an escort/hooker or whatever
Those "peasant girls" sold by their families or by a desire to "provide" for those families has very little choice, they are shipped in from rural parts, "dolled" up and sent to work, in hotel bars, brothels wherever...
Sometimes they work the streets, sometimes the bars, when tourist/business travellers are plentiful, when they are not it's back to the locals, who won't wear protection in the main
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Just as a quick note. Any woman in the developing world that is of "good" (for good read, wealthy access to education (including sexual)), health facilities) and has a choice in her vocation is highly unlikely to be working as an escort/hooker or whatever
Those "peasant girls" sold by their families or by a desire to "provide" for those families has very little choice, they are shipped in from rural parts, "dolled" up and sent to work, in hotel bars, brothels wherever...
Sometimes they work the streets, sometimes the bars, when tourist/business travellers are plentiful, when they are not it's back to the locals, who won't wear protection in the main
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"peasant women????
Yes the $ten dollar aids ridden peasants that ply their trade from a shack in a ghetto in the third world
wow, such compassion & respect... and of course you include the filthy men that may have given them it.... not use of may
Master posting
Its called irony I was keeping my answers in line with the above posts, having said that I have never been to the third world so could not really comment on the class of prostitutes, I can only comment on the eastern european ones which are very expensive but very nice. "
well done you sir, that must be give such a sense of achievement to be able to post 'I go with very expensive prostitutes and not the aids ridden peasants.'
ps, thats not irony..... it sarcasm.. without the need for the rolley eyes.
good luck for the future |
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"peasant women????
Yes the $ten dollar aids ridden peasants that ply their trade from a shack in a ghetto in the third world
wow, such compassion & respect... and of course you include the filthy men that may have given them it.... not use of may
Master posting
Its called irony I was keeping my answers in line with the above posts, having said that I have never been to the third world so could not really comment on the class of prostitutes, I can only comment on the eastern european ones which are very expensive but very nice.
well done you sir, that must be give such a sense of achievement to be able to post 'I go with very expensive prostitutes and not the aids ridden peasants.'
ps, thats not irony..... it sarcasm.. without the need for the rolley eyes.
good luck for the future"
Dont mention it
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As a further note the life expectancy in eastern Europe has DECLINED by 7 years since 1989 due mostly o the daily state health systems and the Prohibitive cost of private health care
Life expectancy is one of many statistics we use to measure "development" and eastern Europe could be classed as regressing. |
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"As a further note the life expectancy in eastern Europe has DECLINED by 7 years since 1989 due mostly o the daily state health systems and the Prohibitive cost of private health care
Life expectancy is one of many statistics we use to measure "development" and eastern Europe could be classed as regressing."
For daily read failing.... Edit function perlease |
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"As a further note the life expectancy in eastern Europe has DECLINED by 7 years since 1989 due mostly o the daily state health systems and the Prohibitive cost of private health care
Life expectancy is one of many statistics we use to measure "development" and eastern Europe could be classed as regressing."
I suppose that means that prices may come back down again, I think they were better off under the communist regime tbh |
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"Just as a quick note. Any woman in the developing world that is of "good" (for good read, wealthy access to education (including sexual)), health facilities) and has a choice in her vocation is highly unlikely to be working as an escort/hooker or whatever
Those "peasant girls" sold by their families or by a desire to "provide" for those families has very little choice, they are shipped in from rural parts, "dolled" up and sent to work, in hotel bars, brothels wherever...
Sometimes they work the streets, sometimes the bars, when tourist/business travellers are plentiful, when they are not it's back to the locals, who won't wear protection in the main
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That has to be the most sad and depressing post I`ve seen in my time here....no reflection on the poster...
Desperately sad and I can picture the eyes now...the deconstruction of a soul...
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over a year ago
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"Just as a quick note. Any woman in the developing world that is of "good" (for good read, wealthy access to education (including sexual)), health facilities) and has a choice in her vocation is highly unlikely to be working as an escort/hooker or whatever
Those "peasant girls" sold by their families or by a desire to "provide" for those families has very little choice, they are shipped in from rural parts, "dolled" up and sent to work, in hotel bars, brothels wherever...
Sometimes they work the streets, sometimes the bars, when tourist/business travellers are plentiful, when they are not it's back to the locals, who won't wear protection in the main
That has to be the most sad and depressing post I`ve seen in my time here....no reflection on the poster...
Desperately sad and I can picture the eyes now...the deconstruction of a soul...
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It is indeed very, very sad.... |
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Sorry if I have upset you, but there is one way to reduce the amount of people shipped in to fulfil the foreign travellers desires, abstain from sleeping with women for money when overseas,...... Especially in countries where economics, education and opportunity are closely linked |
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over a year ago
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"Sorry if I have upset you, but there is one way to reduce the amount of people shipped in to fulfil the foreign travellers desires, abstain from sleeping with women for money when overseas,...... Especially in countries where economics, education and opportunity are closely linked"
no need for any apology, I found it very interesting... sad yes... informative.... yes |
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I am gonna ask a question here... so dont shoot me... its a cat among the pigeons question to get people thinking, nothing more.
if a woman is picked up by a guy in a bar, never has met the guy before etc, bought a drink and shags him, surely the drink is way of a subconsious payment?
Thoughts.... |
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"I am gonna ask a question here... so dont shoot me... its a cat among the pigeons question to get people thinking, nothing more.
if a woman is picked up by a guy in a bar, never has met the guy before etc, bought a drink and shags him, surely the drink is way of a subconsious payment?
Thoughts...."
Ive been married twice thinks ive paid for it pmsl xx |
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"Sorry if I have upset you, but there is one way to reduce the amount of people shipped in to fulfil the foreign travellers desires, abstain from sleeping with women for money when overseas,...... Especially in countries where economics, education and opportunity are closely linked"
I wouldnt dream of hearing an apology Pauly..
I`d rather thank you fer yer candour and highlighting a reality...actions have consequences writ large...
And its a facet of prostitution that bebunks, everyones a winner kinda homily..
I`m fairly ignorant of the socio economic factors and the opening up of third world countries to exploitative tourists, and the possible collapse of indigenous economies and/or the failure of corrupt governments....
Its enough to know, that I have so so much to be grateful for...tho my thoughts are coloured by the lifes of those less fortunate.. |
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"I am gonna ask a question here... so dont shoot me... its a cat among the pigeons question to get people thinking, nothing more.
if a woman is picked up by a guy in a bar, never has met the guy before etc, bought a drink and shags him, surely the drink is way of a subconsious payment?
Thoughts...."
Mines a beer, ta. Proper beer to, not that lagery stuff.
Way of the world. Many do. |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
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Prostitues, nothing wrong with it imo.. unless it's done by a unwilling person of course... It's like having a preference to swinging, or a preference to one night stands, or a preference to? it's all personal choice, i put my foot down when it's done because a family in romania or somewhere can't afford food so they send their 16 year old daughter to the UK to bring money back (Ok i get they need help so in a weird way it's helping!) but what it must do to that person!!! or when a greedy polish guy tells his wife they need to be rich so you gotta go out and work for it... She just does as she's told and does it, lays there unwillingly!
Sorry to steriotype the polish or romanian!!! just examples
but to be fair in most of europe prostitution is legal, it was once over here to... in a way it helps society, i mean in a legal place of prostitution i'd imagine rape isn't as high? probs! & i once met an 'escort' who told me one of her clients wanted her to act like a school girl, and pretty much admited he was a pedophile, she left and went home!.. But said to me she felt guilty because in a way it's possible he was trying to get his fix from using a legal aged role playing prostitute to not go near a child... & i guess that sorta makes sense!!! sorta!!!
Anyway, would i do it for money? hell yeah, i do it for free now so why not
I'm on here to make friends, connections and to live a more open lifestyle... But if i was offered a no chatting one night fuck, i;d take it... Why? because i'm single, i don't get loads iof sex and i could do with a release lol
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"I am gonna ask a question here... so dont shoot me... its a cat among the pigeons question to get people thinking, nothing more.
if a woman is picked up by a guy in a bar, never has met the guy before etc, bought a drink and shags him, surely the drink is way of a subconsious payment?
Thoughts...."
If I buy a bloke a drink does that mean he accepts for an ulterior motive? I think buying a drink, paying for dinner etc are acts in forming a relationship; birds flapping their feathers in a ritual kind of way.
I think a prostitute is only interested in making money so no it is not a different form of the same thing to buy a drink in a bar
If a prostitute sells her body and is free to stop or say no to a guy then I think that's no different to say a bricklayer or other trade.
The problem is when pimps exploit women and she does not realy have a say in things. Her personal likes, dislikes, choices and so on are ignored and often with threats of violence to her. For me that is wrong.
Good question though!!! got me thinking (;-) |
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A statement.
I apologise if any individual member feels that I have slighted them or been unjust in my comments. Life is about choice and where choice exists, people should and do enjoy this liberty.
Legal prostitution, regulated and managed like any other service sector has it's place in this world. Where the women (or the men) choose their vocation.
I will refrain from commenting further in this thread, my _iews have been expressed and in some instances countered. I accept that people's attitudes to different aspects of life are varied, through choice.
Again, my sincere apologies if any member has been victimised or persecuted through my words.
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"A statement.
I apologise if any individual member feels that I have slighted them or been unjust in my comments. Life is about choice and where choice exists, people should and do enjoy this liberty.
Legal prostitution, regulated and managed like any other service sector has it's place in this world. Where the women (or the men) choose their vocation.
I will refrain from commenting further in this thread, my _iews have been expressed and in some instances countered. I accept that people's attitudes to different aspects of life are varied, through choice.
Again, my sincere apologies if any member has been victimised or persecuted through my words.
Paul"
i for one Paul enjoyed the input you made to this thread |
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx"
Others have already commented,however just wanted to point out that escorts tend not to even do oral without a condom,and play much safer than most swingers |
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"I was just reading through different peoples post and note that some ay they visit prostitutes...... I am not sure thats on their profiles, and well, it is mildly concerning
P xxx
Others have already commented,however just wanted to point out that escorts tend not to even do oral without a condom,and play much safer than most swingers"
True Jemima, very sad but true |
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There is no difference if the escort has sex with her "dates". Not all do. Hookers offer sex for money. Escorts offer time for money. What you do with that time is negotiable.
The reason street hookers are arrested so much more than escorts is the solicitation thing. Prostitution is NOT illegal. You cannot solicit for sex in a public place, but you totally can in a private place (home, hotel room, telephone).
What IS illegal is for someone to gain financially from the money a woman or man makes from prostitution. |
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"I am gonna ask a question here... so dont shoot me... its a cat among the pigeons question to get people thinking, nothing more.
if a woman is picked up by a guy in a bar, never has met the guy before etc, bought a drink and shags him, surely the drink is way of a subconsious payment?
Thoughts...."
you can also say that about women on here who insist the man pays for everything
Ive read some profiles where the women and sometimes couples state the guy should pay for the room, pick her up, take her out for a meal, turn up with wine, take her home after etc
Is that not payment for sex also?
cause at the end of the day if you dont pay a hooker you dont get a shag
If you dont take some of these women out for meals and pay for hotels you dont get a shag
whats the different? |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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I read up there somewhere, that prostitution is OK as long as the women (or men) are not forced into it!
I think that would be a very rare find indeed. Whether by economics or social deprevation, drink and especially drugs, they are normally doing something that in "our" lives they would not do! I see that as forced.
If a woman decides to turn to prostitution because she can command £500 to £1000 per night but apart from that already lives "our" lifestyle, then that would be OK to me.
Problem is, take away the sexual ability to make money and the people forced into prostitution would perhaps suffer even more. Take it away from the "high class hooker" and she can easily go back to a normal lifestyle.
Not sure that in any event, Mrs R would go that route. As I read also up there somewhere.. We have family, friends and there would be no need.. Lucky us! |
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For me if i had to have sex for a job it would take the fun out of sex and become boring ... I have sex when i like not when others tell me. Over the years i have had lots of money offers i have had offers of all sorts trip over seas really fab hotels ... even one said would take me shoping in london .. I just say i dont need that as have most things in life at times i am sure some men think woman even here thay can pay for them . |
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I have a very good friend, nothing to do with swinging someone i have known for many years, whos husband left her for another woman, he moved out and she was left with the house and 3 kids to look after, her morgage was based on the two of their income so when he left she struggled to pay the bill on her own, she was already working full time and because she had the kids it ment she really couldnt be working another job plus she wouldnt have had enough hours in the day to work to cover his income
I remember one night id gone to see her and she said as a joke, if she knew where to go shes go on the game as the bank was sending repossesion letters as she was so far behind
Anyway to cut a long story short she didn find a site and signed up, she payed of her morgage arrears of over £3000 in under a month and kept the house and her kids out of a hostel
I know people say theres always another way but seriously how else would you make that kind of money as quick as that?
Some times its a case of have needs must
And i know for a fact if i was in her possition id have done the same
Id sell my body parts to keep my kids off the streets so id sure as hell sell my ass |
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Can't see anyone paying me for half an hour of my time