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First verification help :)

By *ieran2210 OP Man over a year ago

Leeds

Hey swingers,

Now I want to get my first verification which I’m struggling with to be honest. I don’t go to clubs etc not my kind of thing. Any ladies who are attractive, slim/athletic or with some nice curves up for a meet? Can be just for a coffee & chat which ever as I don’t drink alcohol. Can travel to a certain distance from Leeds. I have plenty of photos so can prove I’m the guy in the photos how ever you wish l. Anyone interested in helping me give me a wink or a message

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In your other thread recently, a few suggested attending an organised social meet. Most are held in pubs so if clubs aren't your thing, no issues. Check the meets and events section on here hun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?"

I don’t think that’s what he said

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

Could also get verified on cam?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said "

What do you think he said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said "

To be fair he said slim and athletic and then can only meet for a coffee

If he's that keen for a verification surely a fat bird would do. Meh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

That he wants to meet a slim attractive woman for coffee. Not that only slim attractive women can drink coffee

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said "

No but if he's just looking for a verification he could me up with anyone for a coffee as it's just proof of being who he says he is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?"
lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all..."

Exactly my thoughts

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

To be fair he said slim and athletic and then can only meet for a coffee

If he's that keen for a verification surely a fat bird would do. Meh. "

To be fair , fair , fair he said 'can' be just a coffee cos he doesn't drink. So I think a fat , ugly bird will do just as well.

So ... which of us is up for a meet ? and which of YOU is the coffee date ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all..."

I've seen that backfire on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all...

I've seen that backfire on here

You could give me a veri anytime

Shame you live in the back of beyond

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

That he wants to meet a slim attractive woman for coffee. Not that only slim attractive women can drink coffee"

You are right

I was concentrating more on the fact that he wants a veri....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

To be fair he said slim and athletic and then can only meet for a coffee

If he's that keen for a verification surely a fat bird would do. Meh. "

Why should he settle for less than what he wants? If he gets a verification from a fat bird it could put off the slim/athletic women he wants to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all...

I've seen that backfire on here

You could give me a veri anytime

Shame you live in the back of beyond

Cars buses trains and planes go to the back of beyond

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

Did he say young ? Someone check if he said young ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

That he wants to meet a slim attractive woman for coffee. Not that only slim attractive women can drink coffee

You are right

I was concentrating more on the fact that he wants a veri.... "

I’m always right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

"
remember you can only get a veri from someone who is verified

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

To be fair he said slim and athletic and then can only meet for a coffee

If he's that keen for a verification surely a fat bird would do. Meh.

Why should he settle for less than what he wants? If he gets a verification from a fat bird it could put off the slim/athletic women he wants to meet. "

Yeah. All you fat birds. No messaging him now.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

remember you can only get a veri from someone who is verified

O.M.G...... He needs a slim /athletic / curvy / verified bird.

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

That he wants to meet a slim attractive woman for coffee. Not that only slim attractive women can drink coffee

You are right

I was concentrating more on the fact that he wants a veri....

I’m always right

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Messaged you OP

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......"

Blackpool's not that far from Leeds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Messaged you OP "

Whooooop Whooop !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

To be fair he said slim and athletic and then can only meet for a coffee

If he's that keen for a verification surely a fat bird would do. Meh.

Why should he settle for less than what he wants? If he gets a verification from a fat bird it could put off the slim/athletic women he wants to meet.

Yeah. All you fat birds. No messaging him now. "

I would've offered but I'm fat and ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

remember you can only get a veri from someone who is verified

O.M.G...... He needs a slim /athletic / curvy / verified bird. "
is that too much to ask

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......"

Good point. People check veris to see who they've met. If they see a veri from me it would put them off. (I'm not joking)

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Messaged you OP "

It’s a Christmas miracle!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Your profile says you've been here before on a verified profile, why not contact the women you met previously to reverify you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Messaged you OP

Whooooop Whooop !"

I'm fat though so may not get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Messaged you OP

It’s a Christmas miracle!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Messaged you OP

It’s a Christmas miracle!

"
their is a Santa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all...

I've seen that backfire on here

You could give me a veri anytime

Shame you live in the back of beyond

Cars buses trains and planes go to the back of beyond

Shoulda known better than to attempt to spar with you, shouldn't I?

You would mash me into the ground

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Messaged you OP

Whooooop Whooop !

I'm fat though so may not get a reply

Well I looked at you and you seem positively a must go area. ( for the men. I wasn't offering

)

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ladies make choices on guys all the time, I think the op is ok to make a choice of the kind of lady he wants to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

Your original post beat me to it because I was going to ask why there's a need to be slim etc etc.

OP, if all you want is a social why does it matter about physical attributes? I would happily meet anyone for a social, only by talking to a women can you truly see how attractive they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

Your original post beat me to it because I was going to ask why there's a need to be slim etc etc.

OP, if all you want is a social why does it matter about physical attributes? I would happily meet anyone for a social, only by talking to a women can you truly see how attractive they are."
ha is that true will we see your inner beauty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Messaged you OP

Whooooop Whooop !

I'm fat though so may not get a reply

Well I looked at you and you seem positively a must go area. ( for the men. I wasn't offering

Oh thank you Granny, very kind indeed

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

Your original post beat me to it because I was going to ask why there's a need to be slim etc etc.

OP, if all you want is a social why does it matter about physical attributes? I would happily meet anyone for a social, only by talking to a women can you truly see how attractive they are."

Because some other fabbers judge on veris......

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Is a swan a fat bird? Try a flamingo tall and thin! There’s always the tits of course.

Turkeys are all gone for this year but they might fall into the fat bird category.

Maybe a chick would do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you just want to be verified as genuine, does it matter who you have coffee with?

Or are you just trying to get a meet with a young attractive athletic or curvy woman?

A veri is a veri after all...

I've seen that backfire on here

You could give me a veri anytime

Shame you live in the back of beyond

Cars buses trains and planes go to the back of beyond

Shoulda known better than to attempt to spar with you, shouldn't I?

You would mash me into the ground"

Me nah I'm a pussy cat really.....well I have a cat or two

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

Your original post beat me to it because I was going to ask why there's a need to be slim etc etc.

I'm not the person you see on here if that's what you mean, totally different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

Your original post beat me to it because I was going to ask why there's a need to be slim etc etc.

OP, if all you want is a social why does it matter about physical attributes? I would happily meet anyone for a social, only by talking to a women can you truly see how attractive they are."

If it's just a veri to say he's genuine then I suppose it doesn't really matter but if it was me, I'd want to meet someone my type regardless as I would hope more would come from the social meet. Also, as someone has already said, some look at veris to see if they are the type of person he likes to meet. I think he's more than entitled to meet the type of lady he prefers.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......

Good point. People check veris to see who they've met. If they see a veri from me it would put them off. (I'm not joking)"

Im fucked then

Or not

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too. "

That's a good point

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Messaged you OP

Whooooop Whooop !"

You make me larrf granny c

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

No but if he's just looking for a verification he could me up with anyone for a coffee as it's just proof of being who he says he is."

Isn’t it his choice who he would like to meet for coffee. Why would he meet someone that doesn’t appeal to him when meeting someone who does could lead to other things.

If he had put on here that he is willing to meet anyone to get a verification someone would of jumped in saying he is desperate and try to meet someone who would appeal to you. Why people have to turn every thread into a attack the op or negative thread is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too. "

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

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By *imonP23Man over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

I remember finding it quite difficult to get my first veri, and I got so frustrated that I would have accepted one from anyone: young, old, fat, thin, female, male, or "other".

I've since discovered that men with veris from men are viewed with suspicion by some women (increased risk of HIV presumably), and some don't bother to check the details to distinguish between a sex meet and a social, so maybe it's just as well that my first veri came from a couple. To the OP: I suggest you rethink your reluctance to visit clubs, it's by far the easiest way for a single male to get verified. Sometimes a club owner will verify you if you ask nicely.

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

I believe the Op is on the right track,if he continues to focus on what he wants, it will come to him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......

Good point. People check veris to see who they've met. If they see a veri from me it would put them off. (I'm not joking)

Im fucked then

Or not

Delete and start afresh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

I’m struggling.

Any ladies who are attractive, slim/athletic or with some nice curves up for a meet?"

Just picked a couple of things out...

Drop the expectations, if you are struggling, it comes across as shallow imo. And what exactly can this lady expect from you? That doesn't come across in your text.

So, sell yourself to the slim, attractive athletic ladies. Why should they choose you out of a site full of hotties.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I believe the Op is on the right track,if he continues to focus on what he wants, it will come to him"

Exactly. He can meet who he wants for what he wants and if you’re not his type then move on. No need to jump on him

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

"Hey swingers,

I’m struggling.

Any ladies who are attractive, slim/athletic or with some nice curves up for a meet?

Just picked a couple of things out...

Drop the expectations, if you are struggling, it comes across as shallow imo. And what exactly can this lady expect from you? That doesn't come across in your text.

So, sell yourself to the slim, attractive athletic ladies. Why should they choose you out of a site full of hotties.just curious..... would you drop your expectations?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey swingers,

Women have to be slim athletic and attractive to drink coffee ?

I don’t think that’s what he said

What do you think he said

Your original post beat me to it because I was going to ask why there's a need to be slim etc etc.

I'm not the person you see on here if that's what you mean, totally different.

"
I don't think anyone in life is the same ...exactly as they appear on here .....some people have a low opinion of themselves and unjustly so I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?"

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

That's a good point

Except that no one is slamming him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds."

Of course he is, he wants to meet the type of women he likes/is his type. I can't see what is wrong with asking for what he wants.

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds.

Of course he is, he wants to meet the type of women he likes/is his type. I can't see what is wrong with asking for what he wants."

I think we keep saying this but nobody is listening

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds.

Of course he is, he wants to meet the type of women he likes/is his type. I can't see what is wrong with asking for what he wants.

I think we keep saying this but nobody is listening

I'll just go bang my head against the nearest wall then!

If it was a woman posting everyone would be in support of her meeting whoever she seeks, they probably wouldn't say it's just a veri, meet anyone! That to me is a waste of time for both parties. If it's "just" a veri, then get a cam one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

That's a good point

Except that no one is slamming him. "

Not slamming him, just telling him to drop his standards

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri"

It seems there's a few guys on this thread would be more than willing to. Or maybe they don't have standards

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

"Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri

It seems there's a few guys on this thread would be more than willing to. Or maybe they don't have standards

This I agree with

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Do not drop your expectations Op ,it comes across as a guy who knows what he wants to me. The fact that you might be struggling to meet today does not mean you will not be the boss with so many beautiful women on your finger tips tomorrow. Always go for the best for you, an empty glass will either remain empty or soon fill up , it depends on who is looking at the glass.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with standards at all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri"
what about for a rolo?

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......

Good point. People check veris to see who they've met. If they see a veri from me it would put them off. (I'm not joking)

Im fucked then

Or not

Delete and start afresh

Erm yeah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP there are at least 5 organised socials within a short drive from you, all held in Pubs, most organisers verify everone who attends them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP there are at least 5 organised socials within a short drive from you, all held in Pubs, most organisers verify everone who attends them"

There you go OP, sorted, you'll probably get a few in one hit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri"

I would be willing to drop my kids off at the adoption agency to meet you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri

I would be willing to drop my kids off at the adoption agency to meet you

Wouldn't a baby sitter be more appropriate??!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody should drop their standards. I certainly wouldn’t for a veri

I would be willing to drop my kids off at the adoption agency to meet you

Wouldn't a baby sitter be more appropriate??!"

This is not a bad idea

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By *oubyLoverWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds."

Indeed but if I don’t meet his exacting social coffee criteria I’ll just drink mine alone and cry into it. Boo hop lol. Or maybe bad kitty if she’s rejected too would like to join me? He could have had a 3sum coffee...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds.

Of course he is, he wants to meet the type of women he likes/is his type. I can't see what is wrong with asking for what he wants.

I think we keep saying this but nobody is listening

I'll just go bang my head against the nearest wall then!

Au Contraire, I repeat myself because obviously you and one or two others are not listening!

If he just wants a social and is struggling to get a veri why the caveats? And are you saying the people outside his conditions are substandard or he would be lowering his self to meet with them?

Do you or the others of your posting ilk not have friends you happily meet with for coffee and a chat but you have no sexual or even physical attraction to?

Ps, I've being trying to be constructive in helping him get his first veri, might not effing bother next time!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......

Good point. People check veris to see who they've met. If they see a veri from me it would put them off. (I'm not joking)"

Tbh I see it as a badge of honour to have a verification from you. Id be impressed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

That's a good point

Except that no one is slamming him.

Not slamming him, just telling him to drop his standards

Questioning his standards. Not slamming them. I don't care if he wants to meet grey aliens. It merely amused me that he's apparently needing a verification but puts quite a few limits to it. My sense of humour is lacking today so that possibly didn't come across.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he came on and said he's desperate for a veri and he'll meet anyone, slim or fat, young or old, he'd be getting slammed too.

Well maybe he should have said he wanted to meet a woman for no pressure social for just coffee and chat then?

Anyway there is a very nice lady who's in Leeds currently who'll happily meet for a social, see Wed 0 meet club thread yesterday.

I thought that was what he said?

He's putting caveats on his wanted meets, is he not? My point is just ask for a meet rather add conditions and there is a lady who'll meet and is Leeds.

Of course he is, he wants to meet the type of women he likes/is his type. I can't see what is wrong with asking for what he wants.

I think we keep saying this but nobody is listening

I'll just go bang my head against the nearest wall then!

Au Contraire, I repeat myself because obviously you and one or two others are not listening!

If he just wants a social and is struggling to get a veri why the caveats? And are you saying the people outside his conditions are substandard or he would be lowering his self to meet with them?

Do you or the others of your posting ilk not have friends you happily meet with for coffee and a chat but you have no sexual or even physical attraction to?

Ps, I've being trying to be constructive in helping him get his first veri, might not effing bother next time!"

I am listening but if he wants to meet a certain type of person, even if it's just for a veri then he can. I believe he would ideally like more than a social but is happy if it's just that going by the wording in his OP.

I'm not saying people outside his requirements are substandard at all, that's what you have said and of course I meet people for coffee as just friends.

My view on it is that on an adult site, why waste time meeting someone you don't find sexually appealing just for a veri? I meet people for fun, not to get a veri. I appreciate guys may struggle without them but I've suggested a few times to the OP to attend an organised social for this purpose, ie the gaining of a veri for the sake of getting a veri.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

You could open the filters on your profile op, so any supportive people can contact you - if you are still wanting support

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I believe the Op is on the right track,if he continues to focus on what he wants, it will come to him"

This. There will always be haters, so may as well have the geri you want and be smeared for it than get a veri you don't and be smeared for it. There are the usual group on here who have little else to do than mock personal choices. OP, stick to what you want and continue to be polite and respectful on the forums. That is what will be noticed by the hundreds that lurk and watch and message saying something like... 'I noticed you on the forums and I liked your approach, or liked your profile'. Just be patient and it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps he just wants veris from the type of person he’s looking to meet and not just anyone. He’s entitled to stick to his preferences just like 100% of the women on here do......

Good point. People check veris to see who they've met. If they see a veri from me it would put them off. (I'm not joking)

Tbh I see it as a badge of honour to have a verification from you. Id be impressed

Really? Not sure if you're being sarcy. I have the worst profile ever.

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