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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?  "
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB? |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?"
Not really 19 and in relationship |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship"
That means nothing, and doesn't mean she couldn't possibly be a member with her partner. |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
That means nothing, and doesn't mean she couldn't possibly be a member with her partner. "
True - was a shock thats all, honestly didn't think she'd have a clue. |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
That means nothing, and doesn't mean she couldn't possibly be a member with her partner.
True - was a shock thats all, honestly didn't think she'd have a clue. "
No dramas really, if she has guessed, the tongue in cheek nature of the comment suggests that she's not horrified at your extra curriculars. |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club  "
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other. |
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Guess if she is into it she shouldn't be shocked you are in fact it will
Most likely give her more confidence as she will Know you understand the lifestyle, it would be better if you try and get it out in the open with her |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other. "
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky? "
Decker and i went to a Mids club when we first started playing, bumped into a work mate of one of our parents, maybe she has had a friend or something spot you out and about? |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
That means nothing, and doesn't mean she couldn't possibly be a member with her partner.
True - was a shock thats all, honestly didn't think she'd have a clue. "
I was swinging at that age, not at clubs though. Not with a partner either. |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
Decker and i went to a Mids club when we first started playing, bumped into a work mate of one of our parents, maybe she has had a friend or something spot you out and about?"
Possible I suppose, our fav club is within 3 miles of where she lives but never met her colleagues. Time will tell eh |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
That means nothing, and doesn't mean she couldn't possibly be a member with her partner.
True - was a shock thats all, honestly didn't think she'd have a clue.
I was swinging at that age, not at clubs though. Not with a partner either."
They never go out or drink |
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If she is onto you, at least she's being cool about it!
But you're right, she needs to be straight with you so at least you know who to avoid if someone has blabbed? |
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"If she is onto you, at least she's being cool about it!
But you're right, she needs to be straight with you so at least you know who to avoid if someone has blabbed?"
Yes be easier if she'd be upfront instead of leaving it like this  |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
That means nothing, and doesn't mean she couldn't possibly be a member with her partner.
True - was a shock thats all, honestly didn't think she'd have a clue.
I was swinging at that age, not at clubs though. Not with a partner either.
They never go out or drink "
I don't tend to go out in the evenings, and I don't drink alcohol. I do go to swinging clubs though. |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky? "
Well message her back saying you too....see what the response is lol |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know"
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not!  |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not! "
Mom? Is that you?  |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not! "
Lots of people use the word fab, it means fabulous but happy swinging tells me the daughter is onto them....how humerous! |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not! "
Yikes. She's not said fab just swing, swingers. Be mortified if she's seen our pics/veris  |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not!
Yikes. She's not said fab just swing, swingers. Be mortified if she's seen our pics/veris "
Rule one of the internet:
Never put pictures online that you wouldn't want your parents/kids/colleagues to see. |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not!
Mom? Is that you? "
If you had used the word mum I may have worried  |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship"
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it. |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not!
Yikes. She's not said fab just swing, swingers. Be mortified if she's seen our pics/veris "
It sound's like she may have |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it. "
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it.
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject"
I’ve a sneaky suspicion she could be on here, maybe the b/f wants her to get into the lifestyle. |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it.
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject
I’ve a sneaky suspicion she could be on here, maybe the b/f wants her to get into the lifestyle."
If that's the case just wish she'd stop being sly as know where were at. Be so much easier all round. Swinging scene is so much younger than 1st thought. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it.
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject
I’ve a sneaky suspicion she could be on here, maybe the b/f wants her to get into the lifestyle."
Perhaps she wants to get into the lifestyle? |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it.
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject
I’ve a sneaky suspicion she could be on here, maybe the b/f wants her to get into the lifestyle.
If that's the case just wish she'd stop being sly as know where were at. Be so much easier all round. Swinging scene is so much younger than 1st thought. "
Why not pre-empt her and just say yes, we're swingers and proud of it. You've found us out. Let's be adult about it and say no more. |
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it.
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject
I’ve a sneaky suspicion she could be on here, maybe the b/f wants her to get into the lifestyle.
If that's the case just wish she'd stop being sly as know where were at. Be so much easier all round. Swinging scene is so much younger than 1st thought.
Why not pre-empt her and just say yes, we're swingers and proud of it. You've found us out. Let's be adult about it and say no more. "
Awkward! Imagine the mood around the dinner table or when mum and dad are going out all dressed for a swing meet  |
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We have a set of friends we met in the vanilla world and we just knew they were swingers, unfortunately the rest of the village thought the same, no idea what about them said they were swingers they just had a vibe about them. They were soon found on here, it did become quite common knoweledge but they got pats on the back rather than anything negative.
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"When your daughter keeps adding Happy Swinging to messages - yikes is she onto or just being sarky?
If she don't live with you, has the thought occurred she's on FAB?
Not really 19 and in relationship
Why does that mean she's not on ? With the sounds of it she's either seen your profile or knows. All you can do is ask her what is she doing and see what comes from it.
She whispered Swingers so I said why do you keep referring to this, she wouldn't look me in the eyes just muttered onto and changed subject
I’ve a sneaky suspicion she could be on here, maybe the b/f wants her to get into the lifestyle.
If that's the case just wish she'd stop being sly as know where were at. Be so much easier all round. Swinging scene is so much younger than 1st thought.
Why not pre-empt her and just say yes, we're swingers and proud of it. You've found us out. Let's be adult about it and say no more. "
Difficult as won't see her for a while now, but she's evasive face to face. Its not something I'd say in such detail by text. Time will tell as I'm sure she'll mention again |
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You go to a club 3miles from home
Your pics are easily identifiable
You haven’t recognised anyone she knows in the club but I expect someone recognised you or saw you going in.
I’d have been more surprised if she didn’t know. |
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"Definitely onto you...if I knew you I would absolutely recognise you from the profile pics"
Just looked at the OP's profile and pics myself and fully agree with the above.
Anyone that knows the OP as well as a daughter would, would certainly have no problem recognizing them from the profile. |
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"You go to a club 3miles from home
Your pics are easily identifiable
You haven’t recognised anyone she knows in the club but I expect someone recognised you or saw you going in.
I’d have been more surprised if she didn’t know. "
Anything is possible but doubt she'd openly talk to colleagues/friends about swinging or clubs - but could be wrong. That's an easier scenario though if she says as could just say were off to club just checking your not! |
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I have recognised a women on here who is married and looks happy when with her hubby but on here single and had hook ups .just be aware with pictures you put up public .  |
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"Could prove a bit awkward if you met up or bumped into each other in a club
Not really, just tell each other when you plan to visit so you can avoid each other.
Haven't got to that stage, its just innuendos at mo which was a shock. Be easier if she'd just come out with it when I asked. Were not ashamed but she might be, really don't know
It's not good is it,my brother last year said "Have a fab xmas" even that made me wonder if he's on here. I'm hoping not!
Yikes. She's not said fab just swing, swingers. Be mortified if she's seen our pics/veris
Rule one of the internet:
Never put pictures online that you wouldn't want your parents/kids/colleagues to see."
 Yet on the face pic thread people can't understand why some people won't have public face pics. |
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She knows and I don’t think she’s being subtle or sly about it with the constant comments. She clearly wants you to know. Don’t ask what she knows, just ask how and it will go from there and hopefully enable to you maintain your privacy a be better in future |
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"I have recognised a women on here who is married and looks happy when with her hubby but on here single and had hook ups .just be aware with pictures you put up public . "
He might be cuck. |
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"She knows and I don’t think she’s being subtle or sly about it with the constant comments. She clearly wants you to know. Don’t ask what she knows, just ask how and it will go from there and hopefully enable to you maintain your privacy a be better in future "
Yes waiting for right moment |
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"You go to a club 3miles from home
Your pics are easily identifiable
You haven’t recognised anyone she knows in the club but I expect someone recognised you or saw you going in.
I’d have been more surprised if she didn’t know.
Anything is possible but doubt she'd openly talk to colleagues/friends about swinging or clubs - but could be wrong. That's an easier scenario though if she says as could just say were off to club just checking your not!"
Perhaps she’s not a swinger.
Perhaps her friends don’t swing either.
Everyone in your area will know there is a swingers club and if you’ve been seen entering it someone may have done an “oh my god. I saw your mum and dad going in “ |
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"You go to a club 3miles from home
Your pics are easily identifiable
You haven’t recognised anyone she knows in the club but I expect someone recognised you or saw you going in.
I’d have been more surprised if she didn’t know.
Anything is possible but doubt she'd openly talk to colleagues/friends about swinging or clubs - but could be wrong. That's an easier scenario though if she says as could just say were off to club just checking your not!
Perhaps she’s not a swinger.
Perhaps her friends don’t swing either.
Everyone in your area will know there is a swingers club and if you’ve been seen entering it someone may have done an “oh my god. I saw your mum and dad going in “ "
We don't go to local club for that reason plus we'd know people. We don't know anybody in her area |
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"You go to a club 3miles from home
Your pics are easily identifiable
You haven’t recognised anyone she knows in the club but I expect someone recognised you or saw you going in.
I’d have been more surprised if she didn’t know.
Anything is possible but doubt she'd openly talk to colleagues/friends about swinging or clubs - but could be wrong. That's an easier scenario though if she says as could just say were off to club just checking your not!
Perhaps she’s not a swinger.
Perhaps her friends don’t swing either.
Everyone in your area will know there is a swingers club and if you’ve been seen entering it someone may have done an “oh my god. I saw your mum and dad going in “
We don't go to local club for that reason plus we'd know people. We don't know anybody in her area"
Oh sorry. Misunderstood. I thought you went to the club near you.
I guess someone has spotted you on here and told her then.
I’ve been spotted loads of times. |
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"I have recognised a women on here who is married and looks happy when with her hubby but on here single and had hook ups .just be aware with pictures you put up public .
He might be cuck."
Maybe will take more notice |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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If you're playing in clubs 3 miles from home, whether you're meeting people your own age or not it only takes one person who knows you to spill the beans. The same for profiles - you may have shared a face pic with someone of a similar age or someone could have put two and two together form your pictures. It's just a shame they can't be little more discreet but at least you are heading her off. |
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"Said to her face what you on about (doesn't even live with us) said onto! But how?
I'd say she just guessed!
Maybe put few things together, away weekends alot, going Amsterdam etc"
I agree, I think she’s notied your going out often for nights away to different locations with friends she doesn’t no and is putting two and two together... we have had these types of comments from family members..
I would brush it off! ignorance is bliss.. personally if she asks I wouldn’t tell her because it’s private to you xx |
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"Said to her face what you on about (doesn't even live with us) said onto! But how?
I'd say she just guessed!
Maybe put few things together, away weekends alot, going Amsterdam etc
I agree, I think she’s notied your going out often for nights away to different locations with friends she doesn’t no and is putting two and two together... we have had these types of comments from family members..
I would brush it off! ignorance is bliss.. personally if she asks I wouldn’t tell her because it’s private to you xx "
I think your correct, mentioned whats with all the sexy underwear, response to 1 x lace primark bodysuit on wardrobe door |
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