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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

It's only wrong if you act on those feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can. "

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? "
Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ??"

Obviously not lol

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ??

Obviously not lol"

Oh I thought that was why you were at each others throats lol . I misunderstood . If you told her I'm guessing your life would not be worth living

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ??

Obviously not lol Oh I thought that was why you were at each others throats lol . I misunderstood . If you told her I'm guessing your life would not be worth living "

Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ??

Obviously not lol Oh I thought that was why you were at each others throats lol . I misunderstood . If you told her I'm guessing your life would not be worth living

Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site "

Ok at least your fairly honest lol .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site "

So out of curiosity, what are you expecting this site to be like. Most ladies won't be happy being used as a cum dump while you're going through a rough patch with the girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


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Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site

So out of curiosity, what are you expecting this site to be like. Most ladies won't be happy being used as a cum dump while you're going through a rough patch with the girlfriend. "

Just getting to know people and have some flirty banter. But what is the purpose of this site anyway. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Threesome with the sisters?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's only wrong if you act on those feelings.

"

Very much this!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you "

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's only wrong if you act on those feelings.

Very much this!"

Yeah I won’t act on these feelings, don’t want to break the family up lol

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By *.1079Man  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I would try and calm things down by telling her you would love to fuck her sister.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread "

What thread isn’t a look at me thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I would try and calm things down by telling her you would love to fuck her sister."

Holy shit that’s a brilliant idea, I’ll do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Threesome with the sisters?"

Threesome with you?

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By *.1079Man  over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I would try and calm things down by telling her you would love to fuck her sister.

Holy shit that’s a brilliant idea, I’ll do that "

Always happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread

What thread isn’t a look at me thread "

Why don’t you;

A) end it amicably with your current gf.

B) try and sort your relationship.

If your relationship meant anything you wouldn’t be posing such a question.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman  over a year ago

Harrogate


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread

What thread isn’t a look at me thread

Why don’t you;

A) end it amicably with your current gf.

B) try and sort your relationship.

If your relationship meant anything you wouldn’t be posing such a question."

Or be on here if you are just arguing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread

What thread isn’t a look at me thread

Why don’t you;

A) end it amicably with your current gf.

B) try and sort your relationship.

If your relationship meant anything you wouldn’t be posing such a question.

Or be on here if you are just arguing "

I like your thinking better nothing wrong with harmless flanter

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe

Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition

In all seriousness, wouldn’t it be better to sort out your relationship before coming to fab just for the sake of no overlap which may come back to bite you further down the line?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition

In all seriousness, wouldn’t it be better to sort out your relationship before coming to fab just for the sake of no overlap which may come back to bite you further down the line?"

Haha calm down haha

But yeah you are probably right, if I were to break up with her it would have to be after new year

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex

Does she know you are on here ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition

In all seriousness, wouldn’t it be better to sort out your relationship before coming to fab just for the sake of no overlap which may come back to bite you further down the line?

Haha calm down haha

But yeah you are probably right, if I were to break up with her it would have to be after new year "

Unless she dumps you first

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ? "

Nope

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By *ammyharrogateWoman  over a year ago

Harrogate


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread

What thread isn’t a look at me thread

Why don’t you;

A) end it amicably with your current gf.

B) try and sort your relationship.

If your relationship meant anything you wouldn’t be posing such a question.

Or be on here if you are just arguing

I like your thinking better nothing wrong with harmless flanter "

Maybe you should aim your flanter at her and you wouldn’t be arguing just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition

In all seriousness, wouldn’t it be better to sort out your relationship before coming to fab just for the sake of no overlap which may come back to bite you further down the line?

Haha calm down haha

But yeah you are probably right, if I were to break up with her it would have to be after new year

Unless she dumps you first "

Yeah or that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Finding someone hot is not something you can control.

Doing something about it is something you can.

Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you

Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread

What thread isn’t a look at me thread

Why don’t you;

A) end it amicably with your current gf.

B) try and sort your relationship.

If your relationship meant anything you wouldn’t be posing such a question.

Or be on here if you are just arguing

I like your thinking better nothing wrong with harmless flanter

Maybe you should aim your flanter at her and you wouldn’t be arguing just saying "

Trust me I’ve tried but it doesn’t work

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition

In all seriousness, wouldn’t it be better to sort out your relationship before coming to fab just for the sake of no overlap which may come back to bite you further down the line?

Haha calm down haha

But yeah you are probably right, if I were to break up with her it would have to be after new year

Unless she dumps you first

Yeah or that lol "

When you go home there may be a Dear John letter waiting for you,do let us know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition

In all seriousness, wouldn’t it be better to sort out your relationship before coming to fab just for the sake of no overlap which may come back to bite you further down the line?

Haha calm down haha

But yeah you are probably right, if I were to break up with her it would have to be after new year

Unless she dumps you first

Yeah or that lol

When you go home there may be a Dear John letter waiting for you,do let us know "

Haha I’ll let you’s all know

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope "

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

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By *ammyharrogateWoman  over a year ago

Harrogate


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her "

Or go on the Jeremy Kyle show

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You might find the sister hot but that might not be how she feels about you and away from Jeremy Kyle the chances of a sister betraying another like that are extremely slim. Enjoy her hotness but I wouldn't make any moves toward her if I were you

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her "

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You might find the sister hot but that might not be how she feels about you and away from Jeremy Kyle the chances of a sister betraying another like that are extremely slim. Enjoy her hotness but I wouldn't make any moves toward her if I were you "

Yeah good advice, I wouldn’t do anything with the sister anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me "

Wonder why?

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Wonder why? "

It’s a mystery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Wonder why?

It’s a mystery."

It’s because I’m fat isn’t it

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me "

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... "

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up "

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys. "

Well if treat your woman like shit then you are a bad guy (like being a single male here and wanting to fuck her sister)

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By *ammyharrogateWoman  over a year ago

Harrogate


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys. "

Then leave like the other lady said

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said "

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys. "

Oh I have been...know what I did? I ended the relationship! Magic!

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ??

Obviously not lol Oh I thought that was why you were at each others throats lol . I misunderstood . If you told her I'm guessing your life would not be worth living

Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site "

Good move. Best way* to solve things if you aren't getting on is to join a swingers site.

.

*Other solutions are available.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Oh I have been...know what I did? I ended the relationship! Magic! "

How long was the relationship? Did you get along with his family? Did he cry his eyes out any time you mentioned about breaking up?

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol. "

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

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By *ammyharrogateWoman  over a year ago

Harrogate


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position "

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Oh I have been...know what I did? I ended the relationship! Magic!

How long was the relationship? Did you get along with his family? Did he cry his eyes out any time you mentioned about breaking up? "

i would think she'll be crying a lot more when she discovers what you've been trying to do behind her back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

"

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Oh I have been...know what I did? I ended the relationship! Magic!

How long was the relationship? Did you get along with his family? Did he cry his eyes out any time you mentioned about breaking up? "

It's happened several times...you're hurting her more by deceiving her!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it "

What an utter statement of bullshit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation "

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage

Mate does this "girlfriend" actually exist?

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it "

You know next to nothing about relationships and even less about swinging.

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple. "

But being on a swingers site wanting to cheat on her is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple. "

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it "

If that's what you think swinging is, you really shouldn't be on a swingers site. Go try POF instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?"

I’m not fucking other people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

I’m not fucking other people "

but you're trying to...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it

If that's what you think swinging is, you really shouldn't be on a swingers site. Go try POF instead. "

I was just trying to wind her up and looks like I’ve wound up everyone hahaha good days fishing

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

I’m not fucking other people "

But your profile says your looking for sex. So your planning on cheating on her

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it "

Oh dear and I was really trying to help you here too

If you don’t understand what swinging is then you my friend are on the wrong site

I can tell you now that just by saying that you have pretty much alienated yourself from many on here

Swinging as a couple is exciting and an addition to our already amazing sex life with both in full knowledge and looking for that exciting encounter TOGETHER

Actively signing up to a swinging site to look for sex behind your partners back and then wanting to shag her sister is both disrespectful and wrong

You tell me who has the wrong relationship ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

I’m not fucking other people

but you're trying to..."

Where on this thread have I said I’m trying to fuck other people. I’m just on here for flirty banter

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

I’m not fucking other people

but you're trying to...

Where on this thread have I said I’m trying to fuck other people. I’m just on here for flirty banter "

YOUR PROFILE

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

I’m not fucking other people

but you're trying to...

Where on this thread have I said I’m trying to fuck other people. I’m just on here for flirty banter "

so you're lying on your profile then?, becasue you cant have it both ways..

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh?

I’m not fucking other people

but you're trying to...

Where on this thread have I said I’m trying to fuck other people. I’m just on here for flirty banter

YOUR PROFILE "

Haha oops

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it

Oh dear and I was really trying to help you here too

If you don’t understand what swinging is then you my friend are on the wrong site

I can tell you now that just by saying that you have pretty much alienated yourself from many on here

Swinging as a couple is exciting and an addition to our already amazing sex life with both in full knowledge and looking for that exciting encounter TOGETHER

Actively signing up to a swinging site to look for sex behind your partners back and then wanting to shag her sister is both disrespectful and wrong

You tell me who has the wrong relationship ???

"

I really do appreciate your advice, saying that was wrong and I don’t actually believe what I wrote to you is correct. Everybody has different kinks and swinging with your partner is yours and that’s great.

Anyway thanks

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"It's only wrong if you act on those feelings.

"

This ^^^^^.

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it

Oh dear and I was really trying to help you here too

If you don’t understand what swinging is then you my friend are on the wrong site

I can tell you now that just by saying that you have pretty much alienated yourself from many on here

Swinging as a couple is exciting and an addition to our already amazing sex life with both in full knowledge and looking for that exciting encounter TOGETHER

Actively signing up to a swinging site to look for sex behind your partners back and then wanting to shag her sister is both disrespectful and wrong

You tell me who has the wrong relationship ???

I really do appreciate your advice, saying that was wrong and I don’t actually believe what I wrote to you is correct. Everybody has different kinks and swinging with your partner is yours and that’s great.

Anyway thanks "

Do the right thing mate for both your sakes

Unhappy together or happy apart

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it

Oh dear and I was really trying to help you here too

If you don’t understand what swinging is then you my friend are on the wrong site

I can tell you now that just by saying that you have pretty much alienated yourself from many on here

Swinging as a couple is exciting and an addition to our already amazing sex life with both in full knowledge and looking for that exciting encounter TOGETHER

Actively signing up to a swinging site to look for sex behind your partners back and then wanting to shag her sister is both disrespectful and wrong

You tell me who has the wrong relationship ???

I really do appreciate your advice, saying that was wrong and I don’t actually believe what I wrote to you is correct. Everybody has different kinks and swinging with your partner is yours and that’s great.

Anyway thanks

Do the right thing mate for both your sakes

Unhappy together or happy apart "

I know. But what if she isn’t happy apart, not saying I’m the best thing since sliced bread but I just don’t want her to be unhappy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple. "

So work at it !

Don't just run off and come on a swinging site ?

By using people to plug something wrong with what your going through at such a young age actually shows your imatuturaty

Maybe by putting all your effort towards sorting things might help ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys "

Making yourself look stupid is fun?

I'd best get started, I could use the laughs today!

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys

Making yourself look stupid is fun?

I'd best get started, I could use the laughs today! "

Lol I was going to add that I didn’t think this was supposed to be a ‘fun’ thread but maybe I’m reading it totally the wrong way

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Does she know you are on here ?

Nope

I think you have answered your own question then

Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all

Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her

Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me

Course I’m serious

Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother

How would you feel ??

Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up

I know this lol.

She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol.

Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT

I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back

And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head

Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it "

No, cheating is when you are deceitful behind your partner's back....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

So work at it !

Don't just run off and come on a swinging site ?

By using people to plug something wrong with what your going through at such a young age actually shows your imatuturaty

Maybe by putting all your effort towards sorting things might help ?

"

Thanks for your help. This is just kind of an escape to talk to new people.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman  over a year ago

Harrogate


"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong....

Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys.

Then leave like the other lady said

It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position

If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation

Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple.

So work at it !

Don't just run off and come on a swinging site ?

By using people to plug something wrong with what your going through at such a young age actually shows your imatuturaty

Maybe by putting all your effort towards sorting things might help ?

"

I was just about to put something about his imaturoty but you summed it up perfectly x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys

Making yourself look stupid is fun?

I'd best get started, I could use the laughs today!

Lol I was going to add that I didn’t think this was supposed to be a ‘fun’ thread but maybe I’m reading it totally the wrong way "

You're doing it all wrong if the OP is anything to go by!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys

Making yourself look stupid is fun?

I'd best get started, I could use the laughs today!

Lol I was going to add that I didn’t think this was supposed to be a ‘fun’ thread but maybe I’m reading it totally the wrong way "

It is quite serious but fun at the same time, but I genuinely taking the replies seriously, and i appreciate everyone’s take on things, especially yours so thanks very much. That’s me being serious btw

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage

So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post "

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great.

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Y

Maybe by putting all your effort towards sorting things might help ?

Thanks for your help. This is just kind of an escape to talk to new people. "

Trolling you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. "

Maybe she is having an affair and the guy she is fucking is playing mind games with her? Just thought I’d put that one out there

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. "

Then piss off from here and sort your shit out.

End of thread!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. "

if the 'good days' are rare enough that you're looking for NSA sex elsewhere, then don't string the poor woman along, it's not going to resolve itself by you fucking strangers is it? Really, how do you think that will help her?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great.

Maybe she is having an affair and the guy she is fucking is playing mind games with her? Just thought I’d put that one out there "

Is it bad that I want that to be the case?

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By *andm_69Couple  over a year ago

Stevenage


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great.

Maybe she is having an affair and the guy she is fucking is playing mind games with her? Just thought I’d put that one out there

Is it bad that I want that to be the case? "

I want her to be on fab reading this thread laughing her head off

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex

Have to say OP smelling a rat here

I think you wanted to pass the time on your shift and started this thread to do just that

Reading through every bit of advise and comment made seems to have a come back from you to incite it a little more

Why not start a fun thread in the lounge instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well I tried to tell you the truth about my problems but I just get abuse, ah well.

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Well I tried to tell you the truth about my problems but I just get abuse, ah well. "

I don’t think it’s abuse so much as leaving yourself open to peoples opinions

Most genuine people on here have morals and understand the etiquette of swinging

I’m afraid it’s only people like yourself that doesn’t really ‘get’ swinging that tend to get peoples backs up

You said yourself in comments to me that you see no difference in swinging and cheating which really shows everyone on here that you don’t understand it at all (all be it you apologised)

What you need to do is actually listen to what nearly everyone has told you and not turn it around as abuse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So the big question is

Are you and your girlfriend having troubles?

Or was this just a childish troll post

We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. "

It's called a relationship !

It happens that you go through phases of love hate but you can't have been together that long so not that much water under the bridge ?

Talk to her friends and family to see why she's like this then approach her ?

Don't just run on here as a put your head in the sand and it'll pass moment ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have you thought about going to the GP with her, she may be suffering from depression but not realised.

Her GP will be able to offer her services and assistance that will help.

Her finding you on a swinging site, really really won’t help your situation, even as you say you’re on here for shits and giggles.

Swinging is a serious hobby for serious commuted people, not just for people going through a tuff time as swinging will not work for them.

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