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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes 
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade."
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
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over a year ago
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"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
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I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah. I have people ask me it regardless of whether or not I straighten it. Giant curls seems to attract more questions on the authenticity of it here, straightened has that effect in Barbados.
Or they tell me how much they like my weave.  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Cheeky so and so! Did you give them a slap!? 
My ear and nostril hair is sadly all too real and getting more volumous by the day!  "
Do you get it burnt off at the barbers?
I wanted to slap him almost as soon as the train left the station. It was too full to change seats so I was stuck with him drinking and giving me his phone number for the whole journey. He wasn't rude (until he got to my hair), just relentlessly persistent. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yeah. I have people ask me it regardless of whether or not I straighten it. Giant curls seems to attract more questions on the authenticity of it here, straightened has that effect in Barbados.
Or they tell me how much they like my weave. "
Yours doesn't look like it has a weave - at all!
I never straighten mine and get people telling me I should. It looks a bit too ethnic at times for some, I think. |
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over a year ago
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
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Your hair **does** sound amazing to be fair |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
Your hair **does** sound amazing to be fair "
Hairdressers love it.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes it's real but it's not mine, it's extensions "
I'm a little bit intrigued about wearing other people's hair. I assume most of it comes from Asia. Does it feel the same as the hair that grows from your head?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is your hair real?
No, no it's not.
You stole it from Freddie Fox when he was in Pride, didn't you? (See the scene with the Welsh girls braiding his hair.)
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I would quite like a Welsh girl to braid my hair.
I do actually get asked, quite often, if I dye and straighten my hair. I don't. I barely run a brush through it most days. |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too."
Mine still did when my hair was purple.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
Your hair **does** sound amazing to be fair
Hairdressers love it.
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Don't limit it to just them. I'm sure many professions would love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple. "
I just know you're not kidding 
How did you dye your pubes purple? |
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My hair is my real hair and it's caused a bit of a stir lately as I grew out the blonde highlights I'd had for years, now people are like "ohhh have you gone darker, it's a lovely colour" and I'm like "this is my hair, this is my actual colour"  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Is your hair real?
No, no it's not.
You stole it from Freddie Fox when he was in Pride, didn't you? (See the scene with the Welsh girls braiding his hair.)
I would quite like a Welsh girl to braid my hair.
I do actually get asked, quite often, if I dye and straighten my hair. I don't. I barely run a brush through it most days. "
It's always looked natural to me.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple. "
You dyed your eyebrows?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
Your hair **does** sound amazing to be fair
Hairdressers love it.
Don't limit it to just them. I'm sure many professions would love it! "
Just not in a professional capacity.  |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
button moon |
"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple.
You dyed your eyebrows?
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Yeah, I know the box dyes say not to, but no adverse reaction,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
Your hair **does** sound amazing to be fair
Hairdressers love it.
Don't limit it to just them. I'm sure many professions would love it!
Just not in a professional capacity. "
Hair has never been so sexy  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple.
You dyed your eyebrows?
Yeah, I know the box dyes say not to, but no adverse reaction, "
Did you still look like you, to you?
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
button moon |
"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple.
I just know you're not kidding
How did you dye your pubes purple?"
with the dye left once I'd done my head, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does chest hair count?
Are you about to confess to a chest wig?
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It's a door mat... the word welcome isn't a full chest piece tattoo...
I'm sorry I lied to you...
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
button moon |
"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple.
You dyed your eyebrows?
Yeah, I know the box dyes say not to, but no adverse reaction,
Did you still look like you, to you?
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Yes, they didn't stay purple very long, but I love messing about with bright colours, x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My hair is my real hair and it's caused a bit of a stir lately as I grew out the blonde highlights I'd had for years, now people are like "ohhh have you gone darker, it's a lovely colour" and I'm like "this is my hair, this is my actual colour" "
You maintained the blonde well, as people must have thought that was the natural colour.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple.
I just know you're not kidding
How did you dye your pubes purple? with the dye left once I'd done my head, "
Well it's neater to have it all matching 
Serious question - how long did it take for your pubes and eye brows to grow out? |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
button moon |
"Yes
I stripped years of dark red, dark purple and black dye off it in March 2015. It's been its natural brown since. It's a nice shade.
Does it feel nicer (to the touch) now that it's all yours?
I suppose so - it's nice that it matches my eye brows and pubic hair too.
Mine still did when my hair was purple.
I just know you're not kidding
How did you dye your pubes purple? with the dye left once I'd done my head,
Well it's neater to have it all matching
Serious question - how long did it take for your pubes and eye brows to grow out?"
eyebrows didn't hold the colour that well, so about 7-10 days, pubes didn't last much longer, it was quick and easy to do, but only as a novelty thing, up keep would be too annoying for me.x |
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"I have dreads and people are surprised that I wash my hair then they ask me how I do it 
I hope you answer, With water and shampoo.
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Then comes the 'what sort' question.
Although I did have to wash them last year in washing powder following an oily nit treatment, it was the only thing that got rid of the grease and the aroma of laundry stayed with me for weeks. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have dreads and people are surprised that I wash my hair then they ask me how I do it
I hope you answer, With water and shampoo.
Then comes the 'what sort' question.
Although I did have to wash them last year in washing powder following an oily nit treatment, it was the only thing that got rid of the grease and the aroma of laundry stayed with me for weeks. "
Topsy!
I now need to know if you used fabric conditioner to finish the process?
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"I have dreads and people are surprised that I wash my hair then they ask me how I do it
I hope you answer, With water and shampoo.
Then comes the 'what sort' question.
Although I did have to wash them last year in washing powder following an oily nit treatment, it was the only thing that got rid of the grease and the aroma of laundry stayed with me for weeks.
Topsy!
I now need to know if you used fabric conditioner to finish the process?
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The spin cycle was a b*tch |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
Where would you like me? |
"Yeah. I have people ask me it regardless of whether or not I straighten it. Giant curls seems to attract more questions on the authenticity of it here, straightened has that effect in Barbados.
Or they tell me how much they like my weave.
Yours doesn't look like it has a weave - at all!
I never straighten mine and get people telling me I should. It looks a bit too ethnic at times for some, I think."
Thanks!
I think that's sadly the case. Have you ever worried about it not being seen as 'professional'?
For what it's worth your curls and their definition give me envy. |
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
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Mine is real, yes. I've been asked on many occasions if its real including once at a graveside during an interrment . I think people assume its extensions but someone did once ask "is it a wig?" then actually yanked it |
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
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No 
Hair started falling out after death of my son. Plus side, there are some fantastic wigs around. Even my black friends think my hair is real. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yeah. I have people ask me it regardless of whether or not I straighten it. Giant curls seems to attract more questions on the authenticity of it here, straightened has that effect in Barbados.
Or they tell me how much they like my weave.
Yours doesn't look like it has a weave - at all!
I never straighten mine and get people telling me I should. It looks a bit too ethnic at times for some, I think.
Thanks!
I think that's sadly the case. Have you ever worried about it not being seen as 'professional'?
For what it's worth your curls and their definition give me envy. "
I have sometimes had the thought that it's not 'professional' enough. I've even had someone on Fab tell me that they would prefer to meet me if my hair was in a more professional style.
I had a year where I decided to not wear make-up of any sort and embrace my curls. My career was at its height at that point. I'm never going to have enough interest to take the time to do the work to keep it straight; I like to wash it every day in the shower, put some oil, serum or cream on (depending on what I have in) and leave it alone to do its thing. I'm very lazy.
I am not happy about the anglicising of hair and beauty to be the definition of beauty or professional. Every few years Afro curls come back into fashion and that begets its own fetish.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes .....those I may use a little colour to keep the dreaded greys appearing "
It appears to have been fashionable recently for people to dye their hair grey. Do what makes you happy.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
Mine is real, yes. I've been asked on many occasions if its real including once at a graveside during an interrment . I think people assume its extensions but someone did once ask "is it a wig?" then actually yanked it "
That's rather rude!
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"All my own but help with the colour.
I was a redhead when very young but it turned to dark brown.
After the chemo I went very grey grey so it's had help since. "
Traumatised hair deserves TLC.  |
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"Mine is all mine and with very little grey
Do you know when your parents went grey? You may be genetically programmed to not go grey.
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They both went grey in their late 50s does that mean i have good hair genes |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
No
Hair started falling out after death of my son. Plus side, there are some fantastic wigs around. Even my black friends think my hair is real."
And you get to change your look daily, if you so wish. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
My hair is mostly real. The colour is as near to real as it can be for most of its length due to the premature silvering I am not ready to embrace. The tips are currently unreal and a bit ginger. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Mine is all mine and with very little grey
Do you know when your parents went grey? You may be genetically programmed to not go grey.
They both went grey in their late 50s does that mean i have good hair genes "
It means you are unlikely to go grey until your late 50s.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"My hair is mostly real. The colour is as near to real as it can be for most of its length due to the premature silvering I am not ready to embrace. The tips are currently unreal and a bit ginger."
You have to be careful saying the tips are unreal and a bit ginger.
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"Mine is all mine and with very little grey
Do you know when your parents went grey? You may be genetically programmed to not go grey.
They both went grey in their late 50s does that mean i have good hair genes
It means you are unlikely to go grey until your late 50s.
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And when i do i am gonna embrace it |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"My hair is mostly real. The colour is as near to real as it can be for most of its length due to the premature silvering I am not ready to embrace. The tips are currently unreal and a bit ginger.
You have to be careful saying the tips are unreal and a bit ginger.
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Actually, I do because that makes it sound like I've got extensions. The tips are all real hair that I grew myself (although I could get it cut, it's nearly waistlength now when it's wet). It's just the colour on the ends that isn't natural. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My hair is mostly real. The colour is as near to real as it can be for most of its length due to the premature silvering I am not ready to embrace. The tips are currently unreal and a bit ginger.
You have to be careful saying the tips are unreal and a bit ginger.
Actually, I do because that makes it sound like I've got extensions. The tips are all real hair that I grew myself (although I could get it cut, it's nearly waistlength now when it's wet). It's just the colour on the ends that isn't natural. "
I was thinking about enunciation. |
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"Mine is very much my own, but the colour is totally unnatural. To be honest I'm not entirely sure what my natural hair colour is any more... I used to be blonde.
Nita"
Could you message me details of the dye you're using in those latest pics... the gf has seen it and demands to know x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Mine is very much my own, but the colour is totally unnatural. To be honest I'm not entirely sure what my natural hair colour is any more... I used to be blonde.
Nita
Could you message me details of the dye you're using in those latest pics... the gf has seen it and demands to know x"
Or, they might post it on here. |
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
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What's left of it |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
What's left of it "
Are you clinging on with a comb-over?
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"That was one of the chat up lines on the train heading home last night.
It's big, it's curly and it's dark but the silver strands are visible and I really don't think anyone would a) get a wig like this or b) dye their hair to get this particular colour combination.
Is your hair real?
What's left of it
Are you clinging on with a comb-over?
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I was, until Donald Trump appeared on the global scene, and gave my game away......  |
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