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Meet at 8ish....... How long do u wait?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have arranged to meet a well verified male at 8ish, we are in the allotted venue, a nice little pub! He's not arrived as yet, not been online for 2 hours, how long should we wait?
Thanks in advance.
Sidney xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he hasn't let you know he's going to be late, I'd probably be gone by now tbh. That said, if you're in a nice little pub you can just stay and enjoy yourselves for a little while anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10 mins is quite enough to wait - 20 if it's someone that you'd really like to meet and who just might have been delayed.
But no more than that!
You never know if you've been set up and someone is just secretly watching you... So get out of there...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily you are a couple so have each other's company..... If it's a nice place give it a bit longer? Has traffic been bad? Wouldn't stay past 30 mins with no contact tho.
You say he hadn't bern online but do you have other contact details? Kik? Text etc?
No excuse for not letting people know if you are not gonna make it....maybe he is married and his wife is suspicious? It happens! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't waste your time.15 minutes max. I've been stood up countless times. Wouldn't mind if they saw me and did a runner lol but,they just didn't bother'... |
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Well for a start; I never arrange any thing for " ish".
It's the time, or not; if I am feeling ultra generous , then it's +/- 10 mins max .
I might say " between 8 and 8:15"; if that's the case, then at 8:15:01 I am gone if there is no show.
( that's not just " swinging" meets; that is any appointment or meeting, business or pleasure .)
Anyway, no phone number to speak/ text on; no meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first verified 'Fab' meet with a lady (now sadly UNLOS  ) was a quick drink followed by a 'back to a room' job.
Paid for a Travelodge, waited in the pub at the allotted time, no show. Waited and waited, messaged, no response. After about 40 minutes I thought 'what a numpty I've been' and was literally about to leave when a message pinged up they were here and very apologetic.
Turned into a spectacular meet and my first veri on here! And legitimate reasons for lateness, so give the guy a chance! I hope he turns up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he hadn't text with an excuse by ten past... I'd be gone."
And me....we can all be late but it's 2016....there is Wifi/Internet/Phone/Txt etc. No excuses   |
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"Did he confirm he was on his way or earlier,if he didn't I wouldn't have set off"
I do this but cam acropper yesterday. Meet verified guy text on his way, text 15 mins away, text he was there.
He wasn't |
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"Did he confirm he was on his way or earlier,if he didn't I wouldn't have set off
I do this but cam acropper yesterday. Meet verified guy text on his way, text 15 mins away, text he was there.
He wasn't "
Why oh why I ask myself,have you heard from him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well for a start; I never arrange any thing for " ish".
It's the time, or not; if I am feeling ultra generous , then it's +/- 10 mins max .
I might say " between 8 and 8:15"; if that's the case, then at 8:15:01 I am gone if there is no show.
( that's not just " swinging" meets; that is any appointment or meeting, business or pleasure .)
Anyway, no phone number to speak/ text on; no meet.
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Same here. I hate lateness! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well the drinks are finished as are the rather scrumptious pork scratchings they sell! Time to go home, via mums for a cuppa 
This arranging meets is crap, get all dressed up and they don't show, age old problems  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well the drinks are finished as are the rather scrumptious pork scratchings they sell! Time to go home, via mums for a cuppa
This arranging meets is crap, get all dressed up and they don't show, age old problems "
Really sorry to hear that! Hopefully you can both still have a great evening together! Make up for it by yourselves x
Don't let this one experience get you down |
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"Did he confirm he was on his way or earlier,if he didn't I wouldn't have set off
I do this but cam acropper yesterday. Meet verified guy text on his way, text 15 mins away, text he was there.
He wasn't
Why oh why I ask myself,have you heard from him?"
No I haven't. Don't expect t either. Nutter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well the drinks are finished as are the rather scrumptious pork scratchings they sell! Time to go home, via mums for a cuppa
This arranging meets is crap, get all dressed up and they don't show, age old problems "
Enjoy the rest of your evening . Don't forget to report him for not showing . His loss at the end of the day |
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It is so rude....like others have said it is also arrogant,suggesting they are worth waiting for.
I don't do 'ish' for all those reasons and I get stressed waiting.
Fuck 'em you are better than that Ax |
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"do admin do anything about someone who has been reported for a 'no show', if so what can be done??
Its just a question
Just think of the fun he has lost out on! "
Yes they do. I reported someone the other day and within 20 mins the profile was gone and the messages I got had gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be messaging as i was setting off just to make sure. Hope the beer was good though as annoying as a let down maybe its always good to have a drink in a nice place xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've reported him to admin, not that anything will come of that I'm sure! Shame they don't get a black mark on their account for it but then it would always be up for abuse if they did that!
Never mind, fun on our own and guaranteed to cum hard and wet later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh dear. Another one I've read/heard about this week.
As I've said to others, I think there are people who get off on the process of organising a meet as opposed to actually doing the meet.
I don't understand it, personally  |
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"half hour max and thats being generous "
I'm wary of someone not being able to drive and call or text from some places if they can't park.
I'd also get them to agree to message in advance of the meet, to confirm.
No confirmation, no meet. But 30 mins is adequate generally. |
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