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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do younger guys just get ignored on this site a lot?"
I get ignored too... But then I'm not the pushy type so rarely contact anyone either lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had an account for almost a year but had to delete it and just started again, I don't know what I was expecting, guess it's a lot harder than it looks haha |
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I see no abuse here. Yes my answr may have been a little sharp, but I find that approach works better than 'there there everything will be ok.'
But if you see abuse here maybe grow a thicker skin too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jheez do people come on here just to abuse people? Only asking a general question lol"
Actually there's been little "abuse", a bit of mickey taking perhaps.
I guess it's down to a lot of younger people's expectations. This is a swingers site, and a lot of your generation don't seem to appreciate that, and rather see it as an NSA site 
Ypou'll find that there are far more couples on here than any other site, for example, and most are older than yourself.
I've come across a lot of younger single guys in clubs, and to be frank, their attitude to others is pretty shocking. 
Very misogynistic, and quite disrespectful
You may be none of those things, but you'll find yourself tarred with the same brush, and being "whinging" and negative, rather than positive won't help your cause |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally am finding younger guys more polite.....and perfect for nsa sex. I had a message or should I say 12 messages in the space of an hr off a 49 yea old ending in a torrent of abuse about my weight simply because id ignored his messages |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Just about every man I have spoken to about this tells me that it's easier to get sex on the fishy site, on the cupid site and even the strike a match site. The thing that is better here, if you put in the effort, is the sense of community/scene/whatever you want to call it.
I hope you find what you seek and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do younger guys just get ignored on this site a lot?"
I wouldn't blame the age... It's just one of the side effects to being a man on this site  |
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"So there's no secret to it then, it's just keep going"
There are things that a male of any age can do to improve his chances.
Do a forum search for Profile Advice and there are some really good posts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a lot to do with younger guys as that's not what I'm looking for but the odd ones I do chat to have always been polite and courteous....
And that always counts for a lot with me...
Rude people get blocked instantly as there is just no need for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's life, young men get a good body and full head of hair, older guys don't get ignored, and Cheaper car insurance, its swings and roundabouts mate, the difference is, one day you will be older, we will not, don't worry about the small things or before you know it you'll be wondering where the years went, with a discounted insurance policy and a full inbox, like I said, its swings and roundabouts  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Is it just me or do younger guys just get ignored on this site a lot?"
Most guys face difficulties of some sort on this site. Young, old, black, white, asian, facial hair, body hair, big cock, small cock...
Virtually every man on here who doesn't have the success he thinks he deserves blames something. Often they blame the site, the women or the other men here.
It can be difficult here for guys.
It can take a bit of patience and a lot of effort.
Think about whether your profile, photos, first message and the people you decide to message are doing the most possible to promote you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people make the mistake that the barrier to their getting meets on here must be the one thing they can't change. What makes you think that your age os the reason you get ignored? |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
"Is it just me or do younger guys just get ignored on this site a lot?"
To be honest, far too many younger guys don't know the difference between nsa sex and swinging. It takes a certain maturity to understand that swinging is NOT just about nsa sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do younger guys just get ignored on this site a lot?"
who said that?  lol.. Seriously though so do the older guys.. Where as single women and couples seen to do a lot better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally am finding younger guys more polite.....and perfect for nsa sex. I had a message or should I say 12 messages in the space of an hr off a 49 yea old ending in a torrent of abuse about my weight simply because id ignored his messages "
thats just him though.. Love yr pics x |
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I never ignore any younger guys - I'll shag some for sure, i.e. they will shag me.
But some users don't shag others who are close to their kid's age, so they probably will ignore you op.
I go for the person and if a guy's attractive, has the right personality and sexual interests, the age number will be a less important attribute.
Focus your attention upon people who have age preferences that includes yours. Good luck op! |
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"Is it just me or do younger guys just get ignored on this site a lot?
To be honest, far too many younger guys don't know the difference between nsa sex and swinging. It takes a certain maturity to understand that swinging is NOT just about nsa sex."
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally am finding younger guys more polite.....and perfect for nsa sex. I had a message or should I say 12 messages in the space of an hr off a 49 yea old ending in a torrent of abuse about my weight simply because id ignored his messages thats just him though.. Love yr pics x"
Thank you X
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