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Can some please tell why so many people on here get offended by a cock pic ? I'm definitely not doing this because I want you to comment on my cock .It's a question that has been ask before but never completely explained . I bet the first response is not a serious one ! If a woman shows off what she considers her best bits then it's deemed something to admire whether it's a pussy boobs face etc.  all you anti cock pic people help me understand
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over a year ago
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Personally I don't find cock pics attractive in the slightest, some look alright but most don't. Plus I know what one looks like, I don't need to see a 1,000 different examples |
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I'm not attracted to cock pictures, I prefer to get to know someone and know that I'm compatible with them. The size or look of the cock has nothing to do with it.
I'm also not attracted to vagina pictures either
If you was in a bar how would you get to know someone I'm sure you wouldn't lob your cock out.
For me they are fine in private gallery
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways"
...and yet they are the pics that get the most fabs....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because nearly every page u click on there is a cock pic some pages even have like 25 images of the same cock from every angle possible!! I prefer to see what a guy looks like, i walk down the street looking at how a guy looks not asking him to get his cock out |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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A cock is a cock and maybe 1 pic does, it's as boring as seeing tits on a white, red, blue, purple, & pink bra.
Yes the consensus maybe a no in the forums, but then again fuck the opinions of others and do your thing
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways"
okay I get that , but if it's not your thing people don't have to reply in a negative way, on that paticular post don't comment |
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways
okay I get that , but if it's not your thing people don't have to reply in a negative way, on that paticular post don't comment "
You asked a question though.....how could anyone know if their reply is considered by you to be negative or not in advance? You might have said 'gee, thanks, joe - I understand now' and thanked him graciously for his helpful and constructive advice.
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For me one or two cock pics on a profile amongst other pics is plenty. Any more than that especially if that's it seems like the person thinks that having a cock is enough to get a meet. There's plenty of other body parts that are pleasing to the eye.
If someone sends me a message with a cock pic attached I just delete it. |
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Men tend to be turned on sexually when they see things so most men have a tendency to like 'baps out' type photos, whereas women tend to be turned on sexually when you get their imagination going, so a full in ya face cock pic won't do what you want for a lot of women. |
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over a year ago
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways
okay I get that , but if it's not your thing people don't have to reply in a negative way, on that paticular post don't comment
You asked a question though.....how could anyone know if their reply is considered by you to be negative or not in advance? You might have said 'gee, thanks, joe - I understand now' and thanked him graciously for his helpful and constructive advice.
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways
...and yet they are the pics that get the most fabs.... "
For men. Fabbed pix of women far outnumber cock pics.
But:
Cock pics are mostly Fabbed by other men, so if that's what yr looking for, go for your life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that people but can't you say that about boobs pussy etc "
Are you defined by your cock? They do all look pretty similar. Do you fancy one shaved pussy or one pair of tits over another? Is it not the personality and whole package that does it for you? |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post"
What do you mean? That people are commenting on men having cock pics as avatars on the forums? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not attracted to cock pictures, I prefer to get to know someone and know that I'm compatible with them. The size or look of the cock has nothing to do with it.
I'm also not attracted to vagina pictures either
If you was in a bar how would you get to know someone I'm sure you wouldn't lob your cock out.
For me they are fine in private gallery
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^^^This goes for me as well |
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over a year ago
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I think the reason cock pics are less popular than tit pics is because they can't be dressed up and enhanced the same way as boobs.
They're quite samey.
Someone should really invent a new kind of attire purely for cocks.
Like a slip-on tube that can be made in many different colours and textures, see through, lacy etc that just hints at what's beneath.
Like a cock sock.
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post"
you asked people why they don't like them, what answers where you expecting?
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I'm not offended by them. I just don't need to see it. I wouldn't appreciate some stranger flashing his cock in my face in the pub either.
A little bit of intrigue works for me but then I'm not particularly interested in anyone's cock at the moment. However, when I am interested, I'd still rather unwrap it like a Christmas present.
Everyone is different though, as above some people don't want to waste their time so like to know what they're getting. It's just not that important to me. |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
What do you mean? That people are commenting on men having cock pics as avatars on the forums?"
oops your right that didn't sound right. I was diversing lol . |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post"
But you asked why people didn't like them, surely that would suggest you will get comments both for and against them? |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
But you asked why people didn't like them, surely that would suggest you will get comments both for and against them? "
true, just feels like cock pic and cock posts get bad press. I'm enjoying the debate ! |
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways
...and yet they are the pics that get the most fabs.... "
Fabbed by the type of person you want to meet?
And if you are trying to market yourself on here as a generic cock how are you going to differentiate yourself from the 18000 other cock pic profiles? |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
What do you mean? That people are commenting on men having cock pics as avatars on the forums?
oops your right that didn't sound right. I was diversing lol ."
So what do you mean then?
Not on the forums?
In profiles? Like in mine cuz I was sick to death of messages from pictureless profiles and then a cock photo like that was gonna help me decide if I wanted to meet them or now?? Annoying!!! |
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I'm not offended by them, I don't like them but I don't like turnips and they don't offend me either. There's a big difference between not being turned on by something and offence.
I was chatting to a man once who had loads of cock pictures he said he enjoyed thinking people were looking at them since then I just think if a guy wants them good for him. |
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over a year ago
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Not offended but they get a bit sickly after a while,like eating a box of jelly babies. The first couple are nice but after a handful they make you want to vomit. |
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over a year ago
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In general not overly fussed by them. Even though I have one, oh the hypocrisy. I figure some people may want to see one though, like gloswingers do.
However, I do like the odd spectacular one. Seen one the other day, I even showed the Mrs., and she agreed, it was pretty good  .
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
But you asked why people didn't like them, surely that would suggest you will get comments both for and against them?
true, just feels like cock pic and cock posts get bad press. I'm enjoying the debate !"
What debate? Some like to see the odd one, some don't. Most prefer to see at least something a bit more. Cock and nothing else is not good. |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
But you asked why people didn't like them, surely that would suggest you will get comments both for and against them?
true, just feels like cock pic and cock posts get bad press. I'm enjoying the debate !"
I think you maybe misunderstand: when pics, profile name, posts and profile text are all about a penis it suggests the owner of that profile is one dimensional with nothing but a cock to offer prospective meets. Which is fine. That's all *some* people want.
But to many, a cock on its own isn't going to get them excited.
For those who do get excited by just the cock you are pitching yourself against 18000 others. Good luck.
Your odds are better when you show your personality, humour, smile, cheek, etc. |
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"I've never seen a pair of tits that made me think 'bleurrgh' but I've seen plenty of cock pics that made me think that. "
But the OP has a point - tbf I think boob pics are as unimaginative but men are less likely to be bovver'd |
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
What do you mean? That people are commenting on men having cock pics as avatars on the forums?
oops your right that didn't sound right. I was diversing lol .
So what do you mean then?
Not on the forums?
In profiles? Like in mine cuz I was sick to death of messages from pictureless profiles and then a cock photo like that was gonna help me decide if I wanted to meet them or now?? Annoying!!!"
but is that any different than say a woman who consider her self to have great boobs sending over lots of boobs pics.hoping that the guy will want to meet because of what she has ? Don't you think there's an element of fantasy linked to swinging ? |
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some on here just want a cock, no preamble (well maybe hello and get on with it ..
others want more than just that, sex for some isn't just about a cock. Its the person and how they interact, personality etc..
so OP you wont please all the people etc..
one cock pic ok, several and some will assume that the guy thinks its only about the cock..
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over a year ago
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Men are from Mars and woman are from Venus............... Come over here and I'll show you my penis!
Some woman like it, some don't. You can't please every one, be yourself |
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Op, why don't you look at successful guys on here and see what there profile pictures are like and keep one in your private gallery I just think there is more to some on than a lot of cock pictures.
Hang around in the forums you may pick up some good ideas
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"Men are from Mars and woman are from Venus............... Come over here and I'll show you my penis!
Some woman like it, some don't. You can't please every one, be yourself "
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"Men are from Mars and woman are from Venus............... Come over here and I'll show you my penis!
Some woman like it, some don't. You can't please every one, be yourself "
your photos are very good and not one penis
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways
okay I get that , but if it's not your thing people don't have to reply in a negative way, on that paticular post don't comment
You asked a question though.....how could anyone know if their reply is considered by you to be negative or not in advance? You might have said 'gee, thanks, joe - I understand now' and thanked him graciously for his helpful and constructive advice.
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
What do you mean? That people are commenting on men having cock pics as avatars on the forums?
oops your right that didn't sound right. I was diversing lol .
So what do you mean then?
Not on the forums?
In profiles? Like in mine cuz I was sick to death of messages from pictureless profiles and then a cock photo like that was gonna help me decide if I wanted to meet them or now?? Annoying!!!
but is that any different than say a woman who consider her self to have great boobs sending over lots of boobs pics.hoping that the guy will want to meet because of what she has ? Don't you think there's an element of fantasy linked to swinging ?"
And how is fantasy (for most) fuelled by either action? If all we can see of a potential meet, it is goodbye. We are meeting people not genitals. |
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"I've never seen a pair of tits that made me think 'bleurrgh' but I've seen plenty of cock pics that made me think that.
But the OP has a point - tbf I think boob pics are as unimaginative but men are less likely to be bovver'd"
Happily I like looking at both so I'm a happy bunny |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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Men tend to be turned on sexually when they see things so most men have a tendency to like 'baps out' type photos, whereas women tend to be turned on sexually when you get their imagination going, so a full in ya face cock pic won't do what you want for a lot of women. "
Brightonsteve has nailed it.
On the whole, men are "visual", so they respond well to pictures and e.g. porn videos.
Women are far less visual - our biggest sexual organ is between our ears - so we don't respond well to explicit pics or porn. We prefer something that tickles our brain cells (e.g. erotic fiction).
So, if you want to attract men, have lots of cock pics on your profile. If you want to attract women, keep your cock-pics for private, and show 'enticing' shots (e.g. torso, bum in tight underwear, intriguing lighting etc).
This is even immortalised in the film Sex Tape, where one man says to another "I avoid my dick, I send pictures of the more attractive parts of me". |
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"the only thing that offends me about cock pics.. is the cocks are usually bigger than mine "
Mine puts in a small cameo appearance...a bit part in the drama of life....a solo performance..largely unrecognised and under appreciated...
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post"
Have you read your own OP?!
You asked for 'anti cock pic people' to give their opinions... then get grumpy when anti cock pic people give their opinons.
How very odd.  |
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over a year ago
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"I think the reason cock pics are less popular than tit pics is because they can't be dressed up and enhanced the same way as boobs.
They're quite samey.
Someone should really invent a new kind of attire purely for cocks.
Like a slip-on tube that can be made in many different colours and textures, see through, lacy etc that just hints at what's beneath.
Like a cock sock.
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A condom with a face drawn on.
A mini bow tie.
A Sky remote.
A dollop of Dairylea.
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"I know I'm repeating my self but people actually sound like the are offended by it.surely if it's not your thing then chill and move onto the next post
What do you mean? That people are commenting on men having cock pics as avatars on the forums?
oops your right that didn't sound right. I was diversing lol .
So what do you mean then?
Not on the forums?
In profiles? Like in mine cuz I was sick to death of messages from pictureless profiles and then a cock photo like that was gonna help me decide if I wanted to meet them or now?? Annoying!!!
but is that any different than say a woman who consider her self to have great boobs sending over lots of boobs pics.hoping that the guy will want to meet because of what she has ? Don't you think there's an element of fantasy linked to swinging ?"
My tits are nice enough but I wouldn't dream of thinking that someone would want to meet me based on that alone. I just think that anyone who thinks I would meet them based on a cock photo is bonkers!!
So I don't dislike cock pics. I dislike men that think it's the only important thing when considering If we should meet. After all you could have the perfect cock but I might not be attracted to you or you could be a complete asshat.. Then the cock is irrelevant!! |
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My tits are nice enough but I wouldn't dream of thinking that someone would want to meet me based on that alone. "
Oh, (hangs head in shame) - I would! |
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over a year ago
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I'm not sure if they are offensive? But boring perhaps plus I'm immature and struggle to chat to a cock avatar . In a wider context of a full length fine.
I don't like lone pussys either to be fair x |
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A disembodied cock says "I have no personality or anything to offer but my wang".
Faces, I like faces. Can assess if I want to play with someone from the twinkle in their eyes. Their genitals are the last thing I'm interested in. |
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"because they're tediously common.
Seriously dude, trust me, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all... unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed.
Sell yourself in other ways"
This!
I'm just not into 'crude' pics! I've never asked for a cock pic and never will. In nearly two years on fab I've only met a guy who was really small once (think he's left fab now) The rest were all at least average size - which is fine by me! |
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"I'm not attracted to cock pictures, I prefer to get to know someone and know that I'm compatible with them. The size or look of the cock has nothing to do with it.
I'm also not attracted to vagina pictures either
If you was in a bar how would you get to know someone I'm sure you wouldn't lob your cock out.
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Of course not (cough) 
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For me they are fine in private gallery
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"I think the reason cock pics are less popular than tit pics is because they can't be dressed up and enhanced the same way as boobs.
They're quite samey.
Someone should really invent a new kind of attire purely for cocks.
Like a slip-on tube that can be made in many different colours and textures, see through, lacy etc that just hints at what's beneath.
Like a cock sock.
A condom with a face drawn on.
A mini bow tie.
A Sky remote.
A dollop of Dairylea.
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"I think the reason cock pics are less popular than tit pics is because they can't be dressed up and enhanced the same way as boobs.
They're quite samey.
Someone should really invent a new kind of attire purely for cocks.
Like a slip-on tube that can be made in many different colours and textures, see through, lacy etc that just hints at what's beneath.
Like a cock sock.
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I've got just the thing. Look out for a new pic on my profile cumming soon. he he |
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"Not offended but they get a bit sickly after a while,like eating a box of jelly babies. The first couple are nice but after a handful they make you want to vomit."
Especially if the strangled cock then has cum dripping from it.
Just another filter for me. People should have whatever picture they like on their profile just accept it won't appeal to all. |
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"I'm not sure if they are offensive? But boring perhaps plus I'm immature and struggle to chat to a cock avatar . In a wider context of a full length fine.
I don't like lone pussys either to be fair x"
Oops! Vara, should I change your Secret Santa pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't dream of sending a pic of my vagina and asking a man if he wants it. I don't want to put anyone off meeting me. test your theory out on me."
Ha! You will be sorry when you see it! Have you just eaten? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not offended by winkies, they just bore me and look a bit ridiculous.
Unless there's piercings or he's wearing a little jumper and a hat. "
Love Tosh's ouc  |
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"I'm not offended by winkies, they just bore me and look a bit ridiculous.
Unless there's piercings or he's wearing a little jumper and a hat.
Love Tosh's ouc "
Pic even |
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