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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a mistake as such but I've known I won't have sex with them after meeting for a social as there has been no attraction for me."
Also been there with a social and said no to anything sexual whilst they were a lovely person I just could not imagine having sex with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because you arrange to meet someone, be it socially or in a swingers club (where sex happens  ) DOESN'T mean you have to put out. You're talking afterwards, one can only presume you mean after you've fucked, you've regretted it? ...
Simple answer ....don't do it. |
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I have had differences in the aesthetic appearance, but usually I like them from chatting so there is a bond of dome sort already.
Often, the first time I see them, they are undressed and blindfold in my room and had no issues yet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no didnt mean that at all !"
Just chalk it up as experience and move on to the next hopefully non-mistake. Not every lock is a fit.
Unless they have lied or look 40 years older than their pictures. Attraction can be found in a million and one things. They just didn't do it for you. NEXT. |
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"anyone ever make a date , turn up and realize youve made a terrible mistake ? 
What like knocked on the wrong door?"
We went to a party earlier this year and knocked on the wrong door. Luckily we realised and ran away before anyone answered. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Once met a white woman who turned out to be black. Wondered if I had the right address - turned out I did. She was attractive and fun enough but after some back slaps from her (for some reason she thought she was a tough shag), she near dropped her arse and I left with her all powty. Don't know who she expected but it wasn't me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes almost all the time, turn up and they aren't that attractive in the flesh but they always buy my hot chocolate, sometimes a slice of chocolate cake so I don't really mind. Will keep ploughing through, even the people in costas joke to me now and ask if I've found anyone I like yet! (They think they are just normal dates not from this site) |
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"Yes almost all the time, turn up and they aren't that attractive in the flesh but they always buy my hot chocolate, sometimes a slice of chocolate cake so I don't really mind. Will keep ploughing through, even the people in costas joke to me now and ask if I've found anyone I like yet! (They think they are just normal dates not from this site)"
Well you're getting a free drink out of it.  |
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"Yes almost all the time, turn up and they aren't that attractive in the flesh but they always buy my hot chocolate, sometimes a slice of chocolate cake so I don't really mind. Will keep ploughing through, even the people in costas joke to me now and ask if I've found anyone I like yet! (They think they are just normal dates not from this site)"
I am suprised. The Welsh lads all seem a handsome lot. You are very very attractive so that makes your failure to find someone all the more bumfuzzling |
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"Yes almost all the time, turn up and they aren't that attractive in the flesh but they always buy my hot chocolate, sometimes a slice of chocolate cake so I don't really mind. Will keep ploughing through, even the people in costas joke to me now and ask if I've found anyone I like yet! (They think they are just normal dates not from this site)
I am suprised. The Welsh lads all seem a handsome lot. You are very very attractive so that makes your failure to find someone all the more bumfuzzling "
It sounds like a meet people all the time but I actually haven't for a while, guys here (wales) are handsome but there's not many of them on fab or pof that match the look that I like. |
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This is why I *always* meet new people in public.
If you don;t like the look of me, if I don;t like the look of you - walk away no hard feelings.
If you've got someone in yr house it gets tricky... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"This is why I *always* meet new people in public.
If you don;t like the look of me, if I don;t like the look of you - walk away no hard feelings.
If you've got someone in yr house it gets tricky..."
Absolutely, I learned that one the wrong way and it's why I don't accommodate at all anymore.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just because you arrange to meet someone, be it socially or in a swingers club (where sex happens ) DOESN'T mean you have to put out. You're talking afterwards, one can only presume you mean after you've fucked, you've regretted it? ...
Simple answer ....don't do it."
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Once met a guy off another site at his hotel, went up to his room and we got naked on the bed. He spent the next 10 mins twisting ma nipples (which I don't particularly like) and trying to kiss me, I was clean shaven and he had stubble. He had a lovely big cock which he wouldn't let me touch and he wouldn't touch mine. Another 5 mins later I said this isn't working, got dressed and fucked off.
Good job I only lived a couple of miles away |
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I found leaving someone in tears in a pub car park much easier than if he'd been at mine - he may have started wailing at high volume and woke the neighbors kids up.
These are all good meets, as they help you to really learn and hone your craft. Just as I've had car accidents and never repeated them, the meet that doesn't work is great help in your future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met a guy for a social and he just wasn't for me, so we offered our apologoies and parted on a friendly basis.
We have also been turned down so it works both ways.
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Nothing like that on fab yet. 
Sorry about that! 
