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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What's wrong with my profile???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i got bored reading it after the second paragraph

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By *uro anchorMan over a year ago

Coventry

ye i got bored too.. not that mine is any good but just thought too much information.. keep trying sure ull find some fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nowt wrong with that Steve, in my opinion. The problem is not enough ladies on the site to go around.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What was wrong with the advice I gave you on the other thread??

Ffs, you try to help people....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hmmm, brutel from 2 of you but hardly helpful. and Mr Sharpdressed...I did as you suggested. So there, naa naa na naaa na.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

You didn't ask for help, you asked people to be brutal

I would say your profile is ok as it is except for the last sentance which sounds like a demand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

seems ok, nothing more nothing less

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Why should I explain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Okies...I'm askin for help then

HHHEEEEELLLLLPPPPPP. That ok now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why should I explain?

Explain what? I wasn't asking for an explanation? You really don't need to explain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You didn't ask for help, you asked people to be brutal

I would say your profile is ok as it is except for the last sentance which sounds like a demand."

A demand....nope just a dearly held hope

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By *hickdick26Man over a year ago

Leeds

Ok, so...heres the low down!!

You are providing TOO much information about yourself and already painting a picture for everyone before they have even spoke to you.

If your wanting attention from girls you have to get them interested. Ideally, you want your profile to have a bit of mystery....

My suggestion, hold back on the info...takes some things off (what you like to do etc) which...in turn, should provoke women thinking ''hmmm....i wonder what else hes like..blah blahblah''...end result...CONTACT.

Hope that helps dude...happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, so...heres the low down!!

You are providing TOO much information about yourself and already painting a picture for everyone before they have even spoke to you.

If your wanting attention from girls you have to get them interested. Ideally, you want your profile to have a bit of mystery....

Hope that helps dude...happy swinging

Actually, I disagree.

I'm able to read information, filter out the extraneous and take it from there. Personally I find full profiles beter than one's that you have to spend forever getting information: it's like pulling teeth.

I agree though - I didn't like the last sentence: it does come across as a demand and I'm sure that's not the impression you wish to give.

People are under no obligation to respond to your messages - I think if you start with that in mind you'll save yourself a whole load of grief!

Also, you did say "be brutal" and people have offered their opinions and you're coming across as a little bit narked by some of the replies: people pick up on that. You don't want people to block you before you've even started.

Just my opinion of course.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks sassy, I'm not narkey at all...really. Just my sense of humour. tow people have commented on the last sentence now so am taking the advice. cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shall I say what I think this site really needs? A recruitment drive to bolster the number of female members. Perhaps they could put some some small ads in the back pages of certain publications such as Bella, Best, Take a Break, etc, etc. I reckon there are more fems looking to try the swinging lifestyle, yet are too shy to take the 1st step

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shall I say what I think this site really needs? A recruitment drive to bolster the number of female members. Perhaps they could put some some small ads in the back pages of certain publications such as Bella, Best, Take a Break, etc, etc. I reckon there are more fems looking to try the swinging lifestyle, yet are too shy to take the 1st step"

@ Bella, Best and Take a Break!!

You missed out Vogue, Marie Clare and Cosmo!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cant say I have read any of those lol. My ex used to have Take a Break

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

country life, horse and hounds, house and home. Get some posh totty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lovely smile Steve, says a lot in my opinion. Wishing you more of them. x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think its a well thought out profile and shows you have taken time and effort to write it. Would much prefer to read it than the short ones that tell you nothing

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

A salesman who has to slag off the competition’s products in order to sell his own, doesn’t have a good product to sell you… or he would be able to sell it just on its own merits.

I apply this principle to profiles. If a profile writer feels they need to slag off the competition in order to attract people…. I am more than tempted to go and look elsewhere.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

" Mr Sharpdressed...I did as you suggested. So there, naa naa na naaa na."

Really? BOTH pieces of advice?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

do you bat for my team?

pleasant enuf looking cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" Mr Sharpdressed...I did as you suggested. So there, naa naa na naaa na.

Really? BOTH pieces of advice?"

Must have missed one. What was the other???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"lovely smile Steve, says a lot in my opinion. Wishing you more of them. x"

Awww, thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A salesman who has to slag off the competition’s products in order to sell his own, doesn’t have a good product to sell you… or he would be able to sell it just on its own merits.

I apply this principle to profiles. If a profile writer feels they need to slag off the competition in order to attract people…. I am more than tempted to go and look elsewhere.

Well I appreciate where you're coming from but I don't consider myself a product nor this lifestyle choice to be a competition with prizes to be won. But I'll bear what you have to say in mind.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It was an analogy.. you don't have to take every word literally.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

why am i getting de ja vous?

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Because they changed something in the Matrix!