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A neighbours has set up an account to spy on a swingers couple. Should more be done to verify accounts. ??? I think after altercations and neight our and police involvement. Maybe more should be done. |
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over a year ago
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"A neighbours has set up an account to spy on a swingers couple. Should more be done to verify accounts. ??? I think after altercations and neight our and police involvement. Maybe more should be done. "
Are you the couple being spied in or are you 'asking for a friend?'
Block and move on. |
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Quis custodiet ipsos custodiets?
Forgive my spelling but hey, who cares? Erm.. Have you ever had neighbours who carried themselves and spoke to others as if they were better than you, esp morally and financially?
These are facts of life and cross-fence feuds will not disappear as long as left handed people live with us right handed fuckers. This saga has neither head nor tail.
LEAVE IT.
Oh, please lower the noise levels coz I am only next door.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
How does anyone - you or the swingers in question - know that this 'account' has been set up?
Did they tell you? If so - block them.
Did they put face pics up that you recognise? If so - block them.
Did you recognise the pampas grass pots outside their front door in a photo? If so - block them.
Is the opening line in their profile text "we set this up to spy on Jim and Deirdre at 22 Noseycunts Lane" (other names and addresses are available). If so - block them.
Or - you could out them to the rest of the neighbours as being on a swingers website - as they are!
But then you'd have to explain how you knew that.
Feck!!! 
This plot's thicker than your average episode of Hollyoaks! 
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"I think people should move, few things more toxic and detrimental to quality of life than neighbours at war!
I agree. I value having good neighbours highly.  "
As someone who's had to move twice because of noisy neighbours, I agree. No one should have to move from a home they love because of selfish, inconsiderate arseholes, but sometimes you're left with no option if you want peace of mind |
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profile unknown it's deliberately fake. I really do feel more should be done. I had teenagers that, know we are swingers . But it's not been an issue. A little worrying. That they have become members. Last night I was accused off being a sec offender. WTf. These people are cyber stalking. As well as recording Dailey activities. Just wondered if there was any ideas how fab could make things safer for people. Maybe a one off refundable payment via a card payment. I'd be quite happy to pay £100 refundable in 3 months or something. |
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By *angzMan
over a year ago
Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle |
What if the neighbours are interested in becoming swingers too?
If it would be too big a deal then ppl should be more discrete and not tell anyone they're swingers? |
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"How does anyone - you or the swingers in question - know that this 'account' has been set up?
Did they tell you? If so - block them.
Did they put face pics up that you recognise? If so - block them.
Did you recognise the pampas grass pots outside their front door in a photo? If so - block them.
Is the opening line in their profile text "we set this up to spy on Jim and Deirdre at 22 Noseycunts Lane" (other names and addresses are available). If so - block them.
Or - you could out them to the rest of the neighbours as being on a swingers website - as they are!
But then you'd have to explain how you knew that.
Feck!!!
This plot's thicker than your average episode of Hollyoaks!
A"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do they know there swingers?
why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?
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And why would they tell the OP they had done this  not very good spys if they are advertising it to people |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"how do they know there swingers?
why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?
And why would they tell the OP they had done this not very good spys if they are advertising it to people "
It's a double bluff! 
Probably another Sydney Uni experiment.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quis custodiet ipsos custodiets?
Forgive my spelling but hey, who cares? Erm.. Have you ever had neighbours who carried themselves and spoke to others as if they were better than you, esp morally and financially?
These are facts of life and cross-fence feuds will not disappear as long as left handed people live with us right handed fuckers. This saga has neither head nor tail.
LEAVE IT.
Oh, please lower the noise levels coz I am only next door. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how do they know there swingers?
why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?
And why would they tell the OP they had done this not very good spys if they are advertising it to people "
I wonder if they wear trilby's and fake nose/ glasses/ tache.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"profile unknown it's deliberately fake. I really do feel more should be done. I had teenagers that, know we are swingers . But it's not been an issue. A little worrying. That they have become members. Last night I was accused off being a sec offender. WTf. These people are cyber stalking. As well as recording Dailey activities. Just wondered if there was any ideas how fab could make things safer for people. Maybe a one off refundable payment via a card payment. I'd be quite happy to pay £100 refundable in 3 months or something. "
what else can fab do to make things safer for its members..? it they start fucking about asking people for a £100 refundable deposit and stuff..then most of the members will leave overnight.if you don't want your neighbours to see who you are then don't put any face pics on your profile. |
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"profile unknown it's deliberately fake. I really do feel more should be done. I had teenagers that, know we are swingers . But it's not been an issue. A little worrying. That they have become members. Last night I was accused off being a sec offender. WTf. These people are cyber stalking. As well as recording Dailey activities. Just wondered if there was any ideas how fab could make things safer for people. Maybe a one off refundable payment via a card payment. I'd be quite happy to pay £100 refundable in 3 months or something. "
That's ridiculous and would Jill the site. I'm 100% genuine but i ain't parting with anything like that value just to be on here regardless of the fact it's refundable!
Fab site owners are not your parents. If you have issues with other people sort it yourself you are a grown person. If they are brwaking the law in what they are doing go to the police. Unfortunately joining here and noting your activities are not illegal, annoying yes, childish perhapsbut there is nothing to stop them being on here.
Why do you think they want to be spying on you? What vested interest do they have in this information? Call theor bluff and say you know they know and you aren't bothered. |
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They told us after filming people that they had screen shots from fab swingers. After they shoved camera phones in friends faces. Police don't seem interested. Despite them making false claims. Witch where proven to be force via mobile phone footage. naighnours been on one for years. police mediation has failed because naighbours will not take part. No one else In street has a problem. |
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Fuck 'em. If their lives are that sad that they have nothing better to do, then let them get on with it.
You are consenting adults meeting other consenting adults for recreational sex. You'really not doing anything illegal.
And if they insist on showing all and sundry what you get up to, it may help out the people who clearly aren't worth your time, as those who matter will know what you're like and tell them to mind their own frickin' business.
If people start harassing you for it, then you can get the Police involved.
MAY be worth sending messages to your friends to explain what's going on if you're worried they may take it the wrong way or if you're scared of what they may think of you. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
It feels like there is more to this story.
My young neighbours have been annoying in timing their home improvements with my hangovers. Should I report them - they started at 8am at the weekend?
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"It feels like there is more to this story.
My young neighbours have been annoying in timing their home improvements with my hangovers. Should I report them - they started at 8am at the weekend?
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No. Stop drinking at times inconvenient to their D.I.Y. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"It feels like there is more to this story.
My young neighbours have been annoying in timing their home improvements with my hangovers. Should I report them - they started at 8am at the weekend?
No. Stop drinking at times inconvenient to their D.I.Y."
Sorry. It was my birthday so the good news is that I won't be inconveniencing their D.I.Y. for another year.
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