When you find a profile you really like, do you a) wink and nothing more, hoping they wink or message back at some point; b) go straight in for the message with a cheeky pic to perhaps arouse interest; or c) wink and message hoping that a double dose of it will really catch their attention?
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Yeah but messages in a woman's inbox are a dime a dozen, most probably don't even get read. A wink I find is a bit less compromising and more casual, a sort of "hey I like you, get back to me when you can". No? |
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"Yeah but messages in a woman's inbox are a dime a dozen, most probably don't even get read. A wink I find is a bit less compromising and more casual, a sort of "hey I like you, get back to me when you can". No?"
Then you need to make sure your messaging is on point and hope that you float her boat - right! |
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"Yeah but messages in a woman's inbox are a dime a dozen, most probably don't even get read. A wink I find is a bit less compromising and more casual, a sort of "hey I like you, get back to me when you can". No?"
I never reply to winks
I wink people all the time by mistake with this damn touch screen, imagine mailing someone to say thanks for the wink and them replying sorry it was a mistake  |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there "
Aha but do you message back when your pics get fabbed a million trillion times? Would you have the time of day to m'dear |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there
Aha but do you message back when your pics get fabbed a million trillion times? Would you have the time of day to m'dear"
No but you show me one mans profile that gets that many fabs?  |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there "
Thats what I do and it has worked for me on a couple of occasions |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there
Thats what I do and it has worked for me on a couple of occasions "
Its different for men than women, women get loads of messages so would really have no need to see who has fabbed them in order to see who likes them
Men don't get so many mail or fabs so tend to check more to see who has fabbed and more likely to send a thanks message
You only have to view a guys profile and see how many mail saying thanks for looking at me to see this works |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there "
So you would neither wink or message - but how would one be able to get a hold of you then and ensure a reply from yourself? |
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"I have 256 winks at the moment and I don't check my fabs. So the only way to get my attention (when I'm looking to meet) is with a message. "
Say you had 256 messages instead (definitely not impossible!) - would you reply back to each one? |
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over a year ago
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"I have 256 winks at the moment and I don't check my fabs. So the only way to get my attention (when I'm looking to meet) is with a message.
Say you had 256 messages instead (definitely not impossible!) - would you reply back to each one?"
It's one of the reasons people are advised to make an effort with their profiles, often folk look at those before reading the message, if you've a good profile and an interesting message you've given yourself the best opportunity....
I've always thought that if a profile interests me enough to contact them then the time it takes to craft an interesting message is a good investment on my part
Your profile fella you choose how you use the tools provided. |
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"I have 256 winks at the moment and I don't check my fabs. So the only way to get my attention (when I'm looking to meet) is with a message.
Say you had 256 messages instead (definitely not impossible!) - would you reply back to each one?"
It is impossible as I don't leave them long enough to build up that many. And when I am meeting I set my filters. |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there
So you would neither wink or message - but how would one be able to get a hold of you then and ensure a reply from yourself?"
That's upto them to decide how they go about contacting people I'm just saying what I do |
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I have serious never in my whole time on here ever intentionally sent a fucking wink.
The only time I have knowingly sent a wink was a week or so ago when i pressed the wrong button on my mobile phone.
I was actually trying to block them.
If I'm interested I'll send a message. |
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"I like a good wink..
Or a message that's a bit cheeky and out of the ordinary
What annoys me the most is a friends request when you've never had any contact with them before..."
I think that's so they can see your pics before they mail
Maybe some accept who's knows |
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"I have 256 winks at the moment and I don't check my fabs. So the only way to get my attention (when I'm looking to meet) is with a message.
Say you had 256 messages instead (definitely not impossible!) - would you reply back to each one?
It is impossible as I don't leave them long enough to build up that many. And when I am meeting I set my filters. "
It was meant as a compliment but that backfired greatly.... |
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"Neither
I usually just fab a pic and wait to see if I get the usual thanks for the fab message and take it from there
So you would neither wink or message - but how would one be able to get a hold of you then and ensure a reply from yourself?"
I meant I do send winks and messages but most of my meets have come from the woman fabbing pics and I've sent a message saying thanks for the fabs on pics and it went on from there and meeting them |
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